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I'm 13. me and my bf have been going out 4 2 months. he asked me to get engaged wit? i said yes was that OK!?
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I'm 13. me and my bf have been going out 4 2 months. he asked me to get engaged wit? i said yes was that OK!?

we have been together for 2 months.
we love each other with all our hearts.
his mom knows but mine doesn't.
i'm scared to tell my mom.
he has the ring.
we are seeing each other this friday.
he is giving me the ring friday.


    




lady M
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NO. Especially if you've only been going out for such a short time. Trust me, as you keep getting older through high school, you'll think you're in love with almost every boyfriend. This girl I knew had three guys propose to her in like a year and a half and she said she was madly in love with each one. Not at the same time, but I mean after she broke up with one, she said she's in love again then they broke up and she hates him and says she's in love again..

Thirteen is incredibly young. Wait until you've been dating like five years or more, then think about it.


Note
I quickly read through the question and said to myself "phuck it" until I saw you say your age at the corner of my eye.

Woman, WTF. YOU'RE ONLY THIRTEEN.


elizatash
Thirteen is WAY too young to be thinking about getting married. Why don't you two just slow down a bit, and enjoy being young?


ghost
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You are to young to be in such a mature relationship. Tell him that you need to at least be old enough to vote and out of high school before you decide to get married. Also, if he is under 17 how can he support you? If he is over 17 report him to the police.


BabyBoi
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what! are you serious? sorry sweetheart, but you dont know the first thing about love and marriage. you are only 13. That is really rushing things. Try dating for a few years, and when your like 19 or 20 and still feel the same way, the marry him. Even though you cant be married for another 5 years anyway, you should still calm down some. Middle school relationships rarely last beyond 2-4 months.


littleeluvah
Sure it's ok. I'm sure it is some kind of promise ring. Just realize that in no way, shape or form will ya'll be getting married any time soon. If it makes ya'll happy to call each other your fiance, that's fine. You're way too young though. 2 months is nothing, I use to think it was, but it wasn't.


JustMe
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You're not going to want to hear this, but there are so many couples that get divorced because they married before they were ready to be committed. Marriage is not something to take lightly. If you are truly serious about this, ask yourself these questions:
1. Am I ready to spend the rest of my life with this guy? (That could mean 80 years!)
2. How will we support ourselves? (You are still in junior high. People can't even work until they are at least 15.)
3. Am I ready to have a baby and take care of it?
4. Where will we live?
You say you are afraid to tell your mom. I think you should tell her. This is really serious. I know that you are in a hurry to grow up, but you should really rethink this. You are only young once, If you get married, you will miss everything that a normal teenager goes through, like prom and graduation and senior trips. I hope that whoever you talk to gives you good advice.


Loved
13 and engaged? so so sad


Sage
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Give us all a break and go play with your dolls or whatever and save this question for another 10 years and then we'll answer you.


Sean C
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Look Juliet, Romeo has no Idea what's going on. He was probably watching so romantic thing on TV and thought it would be cool to emulate that with his girlfriend. Right now being engaged should be the last thing on your mind.

What kind of a ring could a 13 ye old possibly give a woman? If you accept his ring pop make sure you don't eat all in the 5 years it will take you to get leagaly married.

You 2 are kids. At 13 you have no idea what love really is and what the the world is all about.


Med Emergency
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You know what? You are a baby. You need to focus on school. What grade are you in? You are too young to date, let alone talk about marriage. You have only been dating for 2 months. You don't have a clue. Concentrate on school and extra curricular activities.


shy_wild_chick
and we are supposed to say its okk??? baby girl u are a lil girl probably not even girl u are a baby. please think about shopping and clothes.


juicy d
no, tell him you just want icecream and ratatoulie


Info_Please
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People should not marry until their mid-20s at the earliest.


@@@@@
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You are way too young to get married. Don't do it!!


Awesome Rockin Mom
way to young!


unclematt11
in my honest opinion, that is crazy.
i would say no.


ronnieD
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This has got to be a joke, right?


bgee2001ca
Like everyone is saying, NO!


The Drew
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Foolish child.


Fashionista19
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OMG NO YOUR 13


bebeangelsmami
NO!


StereoZ
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Congratulations, but you probably will not see him much after your parents (legal guardians) put out a restraining order on him.


Ross
Wow....you are whats wrong with the youth of the world theses days...


Ta-Zu (&Miku)
You're thirteen.
You can't get married legally regardless.


wishiwas
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13? 13?
You wont even remember this kids name in 5 months.


Ask Sanjanaâ„¢
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You're 13?

This is why immature kids should not be in relationships.

No other comments.


Licoricekins
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o.o No XD Maybe start off with a promise ring? :D


Ashcandy11
If You Really Love eachoother , Then Yes!! But Give It ALOT of Thought, It Is Commiting Your Life To One Person. I Am 12 And Engaged When We Turn 18 We Are Getting MArried. I Say If You Talk To It With Your Mom And Shes Okay With It, Then Go For It. Nothings Holding You Back!!


Bubble498
WOW! im 13 and this is rediculous!! U literally sound like one of those teenagers on ABC Family having children and getting married except they are much older.... In ny opinion, what you are saying is down right dumb! REDICULOUS!!! Wow... speechless.... haha thats sad! Is the world really this messed up?!?! Apparently!





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