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I'm dating a married man....?

I have been seeing a married man for the past few months and I have fallen for him. He says that he really likes me to and will leave his wife soon when he can sort out a couple of things; the problem is I know his wife and there family and I’m scared of what people might think. Please can you help I don’t know what to do.?
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he was the one that came after me, and he was going to leave his wife before anyway becuase they have not been getting along well and i have tried to break it off before loads


    




Alia
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Leave him alone. We have all seen these things on Lifetime; he is not leaving his wife and the fact that you know her and his family firmly qualifies you as a homewrecker. He is just telling you what you want to hear in order to pacify you so that you'll continue to let him call you anytime between the hours of 10 pm and 5 am. (But don't tell anyone.)

If he is going to leave, wait until he leaves because his relationship is failing, not because you got in the way. That is not right. You should have exercised common sense and decency. Hypothetically, if he ever did leave his wife and family for you, what is stopping him from walking away from you when he decides that he needs to get wet in another pond?

You are his fun, the story he tells his friends, and the woman all others look at with disdain when they find out. If we were in 17th century England, you would have been branded on your cheek with an 'A' for an adulteress.

It may not be too late to gather up your self esteem, self respect, and pride off of the floor and walk away from him. Though there is no evidence to the contrary, you are too good to be used in this way and you need to make that clear to him.


GJ
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I say, stick with him. Because married men always leave their happy homes and wives and kids for their side tail. And when he does, you can feel great about breaking up a marriage and damaging a few kids psyches for the rest of their lives. You are a class act.


~*Your Name Here___*~
Face it honey. You are his mistress. you are gonna take his family away from him. I hope you're happy. ***


sue
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Chances are he will NOT leave, especially if there are young children involved. I would walk away now, before you end up putting yourself through more hurt than this man will ever be worth. If he leaves down the road, you can see where this relationship will go, but until that day comes, I strongly urge you to WALK AWAY NOW, for your own sake. Please.


ver. P
leave the married man alone he has his wife so leave them alone dont make the man brake the woman's heart, get a single man.


FELIKS D.
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They always say they're gonna leave their wives, and never do. You better be careful; people have know to have been murdered in situations like these. Some people take marriage very seriously....you're playing with fire.


Denis B
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Are you that dumb ? He's not going to leave his family...although, he's going to keep telling you that.


bobcat 007
don't be stupid


redpeach_mi
first of all, if he really wanted to leave his wife he would. and he wouldn't have to "sort something out first". shame on you. karma is a witch.


GG Birdie
Stop seeing him. Walk away.


It's Her Again!!
Don't worry about it - he's not going to leave his wife. Unless of course she finds out and kicks his sorry but out.
He'll just keep stringing you along and taking what you give until you wise up and dump him. Then he'll move on to the next stupid girl who catches his eye.
Dump him now before you hurt innocent people - deal with the pain you deserve.


Jo.1981
I'm sorry but if he is saying he'll leave his wife soon I reckon you'll be waiting a long time. You also have to think of trust, he cheated on his wife with you, it's possible that he will do it again with you. Just stay away from him, surly the last thing you want is to break up a marriage/family.


uber nasty
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leave him or be ashamed of what of you are for knowing this.


~NIKKI~
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HA HA

He will not leave his wife for you!!!

That is what they all say

I can't believe you fell for that. OMG what an idiot. Good luck with that because you will be waiting a looooooong time for him to leave his wife. You will get no help here that is all i can say.


quantumrift
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first, WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? That he will "LEAVE" his wife and family for YOU? Even if he does manage to accomplish that feat, how long do you think it will be until he tires of you and strays with another woman? Come on, USE your head and not your hormones!!!

How can you TRUST somebody that is already blatently lying to his WIFE and FAMILY????


Remember the old adage: "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for FREE". WAKE UP!!! Geeeeeeez...

(and this answer is coming from a man!)


Court
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Why would you do that? This guy has a family...does he have kids?? You should think about their feelings, you are going to disrupt their whole world. How selfish is that. Most the time, the guy doesn't leave anyway. You need to get out of this mess and go find a good SINGLE guy. They are out there. Good luck.


been there done that........
Get out of it now!!! There is nothing I dislike more than a homewrecker!


hilton_woo
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*****. Homewrecker.


stinkypinkyteddybear
That's a standard answer ALL MARRIED MEN having affairs say that, you deserve what's coming to you. How DARE you take children's Daddy away from them, find your own man this man belongs to someone else.


Devoted
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If he made a lifetime vow to her, his wife, (she's not a girlfriend) in front of family and friends and is breaking it- why would you believe anything he says to you? Do you not realize he is selfish and immature and will one day do the same to you?


benvanzile
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He is most likely lying.
Few men will give up their security in place of alimony payments and some young tail.
Find someone who wants you exclusively, and have some self-respect. Think of how you'd feel if you were cheated on.


Jeff A
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You are being both immoral and stupid. He'll probably never leave her for you, you're just a fling.


honey
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you need to leave town. hide your shameful face and leave town.


The One, The Only Krandazzo!
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are you fuking retarded! um duh what do you think they are going to say, your a homewrecker! you dont deserve to be with a man if this is how you going to do it.


Dart Swinger
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He probably will not leave his wife. He may have too much to lose. Hope the scandal is worth it for both of you.


gracey
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find a single man and leave the married one alone...HE IS MARRIED dont be a homewrecker


College--here I come!
Nice work! Have fun for a few months, then he'll dump you for his wife.


MiaBella
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Help you? THATS funny.....no hunny, you deserve everything you get and then some, your asking for it.


Splishy
i wonder what you will feel when your married man marries you and then do the dirt on you ....





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