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I'm in love with my best friend but he's married, what should i do?
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I'm in love with my best friend but he's married, what should i do?

i am madly in love with my best friend. him and his wife were having problems and separated. the we met and became really close. there getting back together and i feel jealous and upset but i have not showed him how i feel.


2009-01-13 23:27:22 +0000
just come out and be honest and let things flow naturally


2009-01-13 23:13:29 +0000
Resolve to change your feelings for him back into a best friend. It is not your place to try to undermine his marriage. You were expecting to get him on the rebound by being his sympathetic friend during their separation. He saw friendship. You saw the opportunity for something more. Change your expectations and still welcome him in your life as a friend.

2009-01-13 23:13:18 +0000
move on and start dating other, unmarried men, if they separated once, maybe they will again though, and if they split up for good then you can make your move, good luck :-)

2009-01-13 23:10:48 +0000
Back away....far away...

2009-01-13 23:15:42 +0000
He is married. Leave him alone.

2009-01-13 23:24:27 +0000
You need to seek withen or seek Professional help to find out for yourself to find out why you want such a broken mixed up guy. Why wouldn't you find a decent guy???? Wake up he's wrong for you!!!!

2009-01-13 23:23:31 +0000
stay away from him. respect his marriage .. as you would want some one to do your yours if you were married..

2009-01-13 23:12:40 +0000
he made his choice. stay away from thier marriage. especially if they have kids.

2009-01-13 23:17:36 +0000
back off, better yet turn around and run

2009-01-13 23:13:39 +0000
Avoid it. If something was meant to happen, it would have already while they were separate. But it never did. On top of that, he obviously wants to try to make it work, if not, he would've taken advantage of the separation and not even bothered with it. But he did. If you want to keep your best friend, you should just not mention it or show any feelings. If he's not interested in you like that, he will definitely cut you off and never speak to you again. And guys are normally the ones that make the first move and if he never did, then what does that tell you. Control those feelings.

2009-01-13 23:19:18 +0000
Stay out of it. Find a man that's unattached, and don't ever tell him you have the hots for him. He'll use you to stroke his ego, and then go back home to his wife.

2009-01-13 23:19:26 +0000
Why are you best friends with a married man? That is disrespectful to his relationship, therefore disrespectful to him. That's not how you should be toward people you call friends.

If you really are his best friend, focus on being a friend and not a lover.

2009-01-14 16:36:35 +0000
You call yourself "Sweet and Smart" ... well be sweet and smart then, and back off. He's married.You have no right to feel jealous or upset ... he's returning to his wife. I think you should have been way more mindful about the implications of becoming "really close" to a man who was so recently separated because of problems evident in his marriage. It is not a time for an interloper to become involved. Good on them for resolving to work things out.

2009-01-13 23:24:01 +0000
BACK OFF!!!!!!! He is someone elses husband and you should not go anywhere near him, even if it seems like he wants you to.

2009-01-13 23:18:33 +0000
If you think you're hurting now, it will be much worse if you let him know. Keep it to yourself and move on.

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