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Should I kick him out or wait till he leaves?

My husband told me 3 weeks ago he was unhappy and said if things didn't change he was leaving. So I've been doing everything I can to save my marriage. Well 2 weekends ago he says he wants to separate and get his own place. I've still been trying till now to fix things. He's been going out with his friends to bars and strip clubs and has been talking to other women. I found out he is planning to go on vacation with this one girl. I'm almost 9 months pregnant. What should I do? Would it look bad in court to kick him out?
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I took photos of his conversations on his phone and I have the phone records and his web history looking up the resort


2010-08-14 10:18:01 +0000
Divorce, and get child support.

Kick him out now, if you're letting him stay then you're just too nice.

2010-08-14 10:16:07 +0000
Time to take the trash out and leave it at the curb honey.

2010-08-14 10:23:06 +0000
Gather evidence of all this, hire a good attorney and take him for what he's worth if that is NOTHING still gather evidence and when you go to court present all this and file for divorce. He obviously wants a divorce to go and act like a single man that he's acting like except the man is MARRIED! I don't think it's good to divorce just because of a wild hair up his a$$ because I really think that what it is...... I would do all i could to save the marriage. People get stupid and you've got to slap'em around a little to bring them back to reality. My friend was also 9 months pregnant when she found out her husband was cheating. She said "Oh hell no, that ****** is not taking him" So she fought for him and stood her ground.. Now, their baby will be 1 yr in Sept and they are as happy as ever.. I asked him privately why he cheated and you know what his answer was???? She got too big and he wasn't attracted to her anymore.......... Sad but it happens. Good Luck

2010-08-14 10:22:34 +0000
take him on jeremy kyle.. you'll find out he's lied.. then finish him on national t.v :D
or just find out who that girl is and tell her excactly what he's like... then end it and say i hope your very happy and throw all his stuff out the window in the rain :D

2010-08-14 10:17:05 +0000
Gather evidence before you kick him out. it wont look bad but what will is not taking the chance to gather evidence against him.

2010-08-14 10:19:50 +0000
Give him a week. Tell him directly: you have exactly seven days to get the hell out of here.

That is more than enough time to find a place to crash, if he can't then that is his problem.

But again, be direct. If you say 'you have a week' or 'if you don't leave soon' then he won't leave. He'll make up excuses. Give him an exact deadline and if he isn't gone by then., throw his things out.

If it comes up in court mention that you told him in advance to find a place and gave him some time to do it but you had to kick him because he was causing you stress and it was bad for the pregnancy. While you were working things out you thought that he was too but after he said he wanted the divorce and he started going to bars / strip clubs it was stress and there was nothing more you could do since HE made the decision so for your health and for the health of the baby you had to kick him.

Make sure you mention in court that he was the one who made the final decision of the divorce.

Good luck with everything and congratulations on your baby <3

2010-08-14 10:20:31 +0000
he is not a reliable man.you can not keep him.kick him off.

2010-08-14 10:37:24 +0000
oh my word. This guy is some piece of work isn't he do me a favour and take a step back and read your problem and pretend it is someone elses well what would you tell them if you read that problem, I bet you would tell them leave. iM laughing not at you just thinking he had the cheek to tell you he wants things to change, so its a one sided relationship you change and he has the good time nice guy isn't he!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Look girl the reality is he wont be there for you and that's life you will have a wonderful baby in a few weeks without him and you will do it alone and well able also, you have to look after you and be strong as you have another to care for. Im sure if the other women he chats up knew that he abandoned you when you were about to give birth they certainly wouldn't think much of him. So now girl the whole thing is in your hands and get your family to help and save those tears for a person worthwhile. YOUR Stronger than you think........................ Good Luck

2010-08-14 10:16:43 +0000
He an as s. I wouldn't even want him back.

2010-08-14 10:20:40 +0000
I would arrange to get a lock smith in one day first to change the locks then when he has changed the locks that day cast his stuff out in black refuse sacks and wait for the explosion or just go to a solicitor and start divorce proceedings first then change the locks so he is no doubt about the situation.

2010-08-14 10:17:56 +0000
However, he made clear that only expulsion by the full House would get him to leave. ... "I have to wait until after my primary to find about when the .... Kick him OUT and save the taxpayers money! HE"S CORRUPT! ... IF he thinks he is innocent of the charges then he should get a speedy hearing. ...

2010-08-14 10:19:30 +0000
You're better off without him, get rid of him, you really won't need this crap in your life once the baby arrives. So deal with it now. You can do better than him!

2010-08-14 10:18:25 +0000
"So I have been doing everything I can to save my marriage"...listen to what you are saying...you are the only one trying therefore your marriage is history. Please wake up and understand that it take 2 people to "save a marriage".

2010-08-14 10:24:46 +0000
aww..he is so not worth it..
he just wants to go and flirt with other girls, that's why..
but it's hard to be alone too, cause you're pregnant..
but just leave him, he's not worth it

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