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Kimberly T
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Lets see what is wrong with this picture,.... Your MARRIED LOVER, does this ring a bell in your head, like this is not a good thing to do, it is wrong very wrong, wake up. |
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janina_sd1
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he wants to keep you hooked with him |
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pn
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He is damn selfish... |
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purpleartof5
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him wanting you pregnant is no worse than you being with a married man so have his baby HIS WIFE PROABLY TOLD HIM TO GO OUT AND HAVE HER A BABY YOU IDIOT |
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mikea632
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WOMEN ARE SO DUM WHEN IT COMES TO THIS.WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU WANT TO HAVE ANOTHER MANS KID WHEN HE IS MARRIED.WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU SHOULD DO |
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June H
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BREAK IT OFF WITH HIM !!! Marriage is what it is until death. Do what is right here !!! He really needs to to be with his ordained wife who God gave him in the first place to have for his WHOLE lifetime. God did not ever give you in the first place to him. Both of you are in adultery. DO YOU HAVE VALUES & MORALS ??How is your conscience doing ? There is no pillow so soft as a CLEAR conscience !!! I really hope that you DON"T have any children with him. I know how his wife feels , my husband { Paul Heinz } cheat with my X - best friend 5 years ago and my husband is still with his girlfriend. My husband could care less for our 3 precious children & me his true wife, if he did care deeply in his heart for all of us , he would not be where he is now. My husband is the one who filed for divorce. My christain counsellor told me , my husband does not have any remorse for what he is doing to all of us. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence , that is a big fat lie , because over to the other side of the fence ALWAYS brown and it has death. Like they said , you reap what you sow. |
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ETxYellowRose
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I would be very careful about this one.
If he and his wife do not have children it is probably because they can not.
If he is pressing you to have a child it could be for very selfish reasons such as him taking the child away from you in court so that he and his wife can have a child.
Or it could be more innocent then that and he just once a child of his own.
But I do not think that I would be taking that kind of a chance.
And since you do not want children right now then stick to your feelings.
And above all else.............Listen to your gut instincts about this. |
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cutie_pie7423
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the question is wtf are you doing with a married man???? wow! and you can't imagine why he would want to do such a thing, why would you want to? i would hate to be a home wrecker. you are in quite the mess. |
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rebelicious_angel228
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your just as bad as him he is married....your both in the wrong hell even if he does leave his wife for you after you have his child,the old sayng is if he cheats with you he will cheat on you! you both sound like a bunch of losers! bwahahahahaha |
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Jewells
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The MADNESS!!! Go ahead and have his baby. This will only help the situation to bring an innocent kid into it. |
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shorty
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he might be trying to knock you up so he can fight you for full rights. and girl why you wit a married man? he obviously aint leavin his wife. just striging you along but hey whatever works for you |
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marrissa
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Because he wants children and that is the cheapest way by knocking you up so him and his wife can have a family. In this situation you will lose the man and perhaps the baby too. |
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littlecloieinttown
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Yes, get away. You may think that he cares but if he's doing this to his wife imagine what he could do to you. Especially if you think of haveing his kid. And how many other people it would affect. |
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NyteWing
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tell him no and to back the f**k off. that is just too bizare. did you ever stop to think that maybe he's with for that sole purpose to have a baby for him and his wife? |
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queenbee7670
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he wants to make you forever attached to him |
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Lil Mama
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well if he is married and ur his lover he is probably tryin to get u pregnant so you cant leave him high and dry even tho he is the one married. he wants his cake and to eat it too. Better leave him before he gets what he wants if you dont want it |
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cowboy
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You are not a very good person for sleepinbg with him anyhow!!! |
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Valerie
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He wants the experience of seeing ugly mongoloid children up close and personal. |
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mjboog2
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find YOUR OWN man, maybe |
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sheeny
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I'm going to bet that he wants to have a child with you, and then get custody of your baby for himself and his wife. |
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Xena
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I guess he wants a child and since he and his wife can't have children, he is wanting you to have his child. Why are you dating a married man anyway. You should be ashame of yourself. Looks like this guy is a loser and you are too, so maybe your perfect for each other. Go ahead and have his baby. I hope his wife tears you a new one. |
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lavenderroseford
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You should not be dating a married man let alone considering bringing a child into an already f'd up situation. |
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Flagger
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Because the cheating scum does not believe that his lack of children is his problem. You want an idea, here goes- Stop spending time with this a$$hole. He is obviously not prepared for a marriage much less fathering a child. Why don't you call his wife and ask her what she thinks. Wake up and wise up. YOU DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN WITH PEOPLE WHO CANNOT BE THERE. He is married, he cheats. Are these the personality traits you want for your child's father? Get Out. Get Out Now. Find
a guy where there is a future which might be worthy of children.
Sometimes Mother Nature recognizes when a person should not reproduce. |
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chatterbox_jmj
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Hmmm....its possible hes on drugs. :P Hehe, thats retarted. Tell him to knock his WIFE up. |
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chevy
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he is married, why even f*ck with him? if you get preg. and she finds out this whole thing. shitz will get ugly for you. why mess with it? |
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Charlie Mike
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you are in an adulterous relationship. you have broken the 7th commandment. Sorry, i know this is not the answer to your question. Do the right thing. |
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LTD
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because they can't have children so he wants you to have one for them to adopt? Maybe they both really really want to be parents that badly. |
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jen
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Okay first of all the question she asked was not : could you please bash me and tell me what you think I am doing is wrong!
I realize that the situation is not ideal but that is the situation she is in and the one she is asking about.
I would think that he wants to keep you around. Eventually you'll tire of being 'the other woman' and probably leave. If you are pregnant or actually have his child you'll likely stick around. I am going to tell you this from experience- I would leave now- don't wait anymore for this 'accident' to happen. If he was so interested in having a family with you than he should be divorced/moved out/separated so that he could move onto the next chapter of his life with you(if that was what he wanted)
If you had his child right now where would he be? Do you ever want to explain why daddy is with his wife? I would suggest that this is a tactic to have his cake and eat it to- so to say. Good luck |
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