Wrong to be married at 19 to a man 11 years older?

Barbiedoll34769

Honey, you're happy, he's happy, and you're having a baby. Don't listen to the naysayers. Relax and enjoy your life. Most people don't have it that good.

Emma

It's not wrong! If you love this man, there should be nothing in your way to stop you from being married to him!

mrs_g

Yeah I married at 19 & thought it was forever...but the marriage license expired at 24 years.

Don't be so smug- people change, people cheat, people grow apart. It can happen to YOU, too.

sasquatch1028

It's weird but if you are happy and love each other I guess it is Ok.

john t

one thing i learned, YOU SHOULDNT CARE WHAT PEOPLE THIN, THEY'RE NOT YOU!!! if you love him, stay with him!!! o and dont get an abortion, that would be like killing ur baby

Needles

It sounds like you're insecure about your relationship if you have to tell everybody about this. Insecure and a little bit resentful as well.

You obviously weren't concerned about wrong and right two years ago, so why all of a sudden do you think what we think is somehow important?

Danny

No, true love doesn't have an age.

Don't Judge A Book...

If you're happy, don't care what anyone else thinks about it. It's your life, not theirs! Congratulations!

Laura H

If you love each other NO !
It's fine!
Don't listen to them
You seem responsible enough ! Plus it's your own life, who are they to judge you!

iloveyouuuxo

wtf?!
uhm i guess nottt?
but like its kinda stupidd.

Hugo

of course thats stupid

~Alison~

If you two really truly love each other, then no, it's not wrong. Congrats on the baby! I'm sure it will be glad to have two loving parents. :D

jtease

Wishing you all the best. You have your own life path to live. Live and learn on your own. Time will only tell.

I personally think you were too young to be married & have a child.

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Oh no! It's fine. Ignore what people say. As long as you love your baby and your husband, it's OK.

nativebeauty22

you obviously are having doubts if you posted this question......its not really what people think its what you think bottom line.

Deborah

heck no. i c that all the time. its normal lots of people are and then he would be a good father to the baby cuz hes responsible(hopfuly). and at least your not prego at 16 or 17. an you both have jobs so no big deal. GOOD LUCK=)

vinn_petrol

HI there and congratulations on your expected child.Love knows no boundaries and that includes age.Please dont listen to anyones opinions, but listen to your heart.Your happy and thats what counts.Everyone has their own opinion and is entitled to it but only you alone knows whats right for you.God bless you and have a wonderful,wonderful life.

Gudasz

Nah

*!beani da wini!*

I think it is a little weird... but just because I am still in school... so I am thinking of it like say... a 1st grader dating an 11th grader... :P lol but love is all that matters :) so if you love him, and he loves you... don't worry what people say!

paypay

yes because he is eleven and your seventeen

Candy B

you married him for his money and he married you for age but you won't always be young, wait a few years.

mindlessselfindulger

I don't see anything wrong with it.
You seem to be responsible and are working towards a great future.

All the best (:

ariasat

it's fine as long as you or your husband don't regret your decision.

not this way

what usually happens over time as couples with a big age gap grow older, they start to develop differently. you are still very young and you two might be in different stages of life as time goes on.

kimie

whats the problem? as long as you are happy and everything is working out. just make sure you really want this though? how long have you been with this guy? im sure you can understand the concerns of people when a man of 28 marries a 17 year old. its not the norm is it?

Jonny Dangerously

married at 17 would have been the problem, what were you looking for a daddy?
do your best to make it work and blow off whoever thinks you shouldn't.

well don't blow them off literally ;)

edit:: ah a doctor eh? so a sugar daddy.
well no matter-- the damage is done so try to make the marriage work and take some parenting classes or something.

No We Cant

dont you think its a bit late asking this question now, while your pregnant, such a fake question, desperate for response.loser

Ron

You are obviously a mature 19 year old so I see nothing wrong with it at all, it's the people who think it's weird or wrong who need to question their maturity.

I'm 67 and last July married my wife who is 26 years my junior, we are both blissfully happy and real friends of ours share our happiness together.

Forget them, a lot of them will just be jealous of your happiness, congratulations by the way.

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