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how to make your husband realize that his wife is more important to him than his mother?
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how to make your husband realize that his wife is more important to him than his mother?

when his mother is creating problems in our marraige , by influencing him, always finding problems in me . ... ???????


2009-12-08 10:55:17 +0000
Don't be insecure. Ignore her.

after all, you didn't marry her.

2009-12-08 10:55:00 +0000
but his mother gave birth to him... she raised him from a baby... how can a wife compete with that kind of commitment??? :D

2009-12-08 11:59:53 +0000
His mother is definintely more important to him. How can you replace his mother in early period. Start giving him what his mother is giving to him. Atlast a wife has to play roles of mother & sister too in addition to her own, according to Indian traditions.
How can you say that his mother is creating problems. Try to his Mom's daugher and influence her, forgetting all the bitterness. Come more closer to his mom than his own son and be submissive. You will see the results soon.

2009-12-08 10:55:48 +0000
Ask him does his mother give him the bjs he loves, he will see the error of his ways

2009-12-08 12:37:30 +0000
I guess you're not more important to him, from the sounds of it. A man can always find a new wife, but we only get one mother.

2009-12-08 11:17:45 +0000
Wife and mother are to different entities. For a son the mother is equally or perhaps even more important than wife. A man should show his discernity and treat the two in that way. If the mother is intervening into your family life, as a son he can tell her that will create priblem in the whole family. She will certainly keep quiet.

2009-12-08 10:59:32 +0000
Is your husband a baby? Or have u married a mo ma's boy? If the answers are 'yes', then better to leave him... At least for some time.

2009-12-09 10:15:10 +0000
Dear No body can make others realize anything by force. As a wife you have some responsibilities as well as rights. Play your part well and ignore other things. Gradually your hubby will realize himself that wife is more important in his life than mother. A complaining / nagging wife will be a burden than a decoration in once life. If your MIL is creating problem settle the issue with her. Some of the interferrence you have to ignore and you should proceed after having a discussion with your hubby. Thatz all.

2009-12-08 11:00:50 +0000
Oh don't even go there! Never ever try and come between a man and his mother, his mother will act as sly and rude as she wants, but you just have to always put on a happy face. My boyfriends mother hates me, always has and always will. She has three children, all in their late twenties or early thirties, and has never liked any of their partners - that's just the way she is, I imagine yours is the same.

2009-12-08 16:14:06 +0000
Hi, I didnt even read all answers, but I can only say.. dont even think of comparing yourself with his mother. Both mother and wife has their own place in a guy's life.

If you try to come between your husband and mother then you will be looser..the same is also true between if your mother-in-law try to come in between you & your husband.

Just relax, this is fun part of a relationship. Its give and take.. enjoy it.

2009-12-08 14:57:49 +0000
Ah Ha! Global vintage problem. Try to look into yourself. You too are not perfect. Don't blame your Mother-in-Law for these issues. You husband gets convinced by her because you do not show how powerful you are. Give him immense love and affection. So much so that he starts feeling that you are the most right person he has ever known.

Be very very sweet to your mother-in-law especially when your husband is around. This will work as a boomerang on your Mother-in-Law. Always praise her in front of your husband. Always tell your husband that your mother-in-law is so good that you wished she was your mother. When you do all these, your husband will be convinced that your mother-in-law is wrong and not you.

Try this.

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