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i hate my dads girlfriend!!!!!! how do i get rid of her?? plz help!?
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i hate my dads girlfriend!!!!!! how do i get rid of her?? plz help!?

i have 2 b nice 2 her but how can i when i hate her? how do i get rid of her? i already talked 2 my dad but he didnt listen and she always comes around! can any1 help??


    




bluez
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I see there are people answering this question that say the same thing I did in your OTHER post about the same question. Sure hope you were "mature" enough to find alternate questions they asked so you could put your two cents back at them (or 1 1/2 cents in your case)..grow up little girl!


LuvBugg
hate? that is such a harsh word,.. just say that you dislike the situation,.. listen patience and compromise are the key to long term happiness,.. you dont have to like her,.. but you do have to accept that she is not going anywhere right now,.. you can take it like a man, or you can take it like a baby.


blue_eyedpixies
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Unless you can prove something bad about her to your father he isn't going to listen. He loves her, and he expects you to have respect for her. Maybe he plans on marriage with her, you will have to accept it. I know why the hate is there, cause you that he should be with his wife and family. Don't put the total blame on her. Give her the benefit of doubt, try to do things she likes or try to talk to her. Or ask for her opinion on certain things, try to befriend her, you may be pleasantly surprised that she is a nice person. Then you'll feel badly cause you have judged her before getting to know her. Wish you luck.


divabylaw
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If the talk with your dad consisted of you saying you don't like his girlfriend, and that he should get rid of her, then you were not talking (as in discussing and listening), you gave him an order for crying out loud!

You cannot get rid of her. She is not your girlfriend. If he sees fit to end the relationship; then, so be it.

As long as the girlfriend is not mistreating you, give your dad a chance at happiness.

Be happy for your dad. Sheesh!


PEACHES
Did you ever stop,and think that by getting rid of the gf,you may hurt your dad.If shes not the one for your dad,he will figure it out on his own.Just let it go,and wait it out.You might find that you could be her friend ,before its all over with.Good luck.


belindaavelino@sbcglobal.net
just tryed to do ur best and tell ur dad that u try to but u can or say if he doen't listen to u u will run away


russomaly@sbcglobal.net
don't kill her unless youre a total idiot just pray about it or just try to get your dad to like someone else JUST DON'T KILL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Svaca27
Frame her dat shes cheatin an then find a new girl 4 yur dad so hes not deppressed or gets some1 wourst


JPMerrick
Having less atention is always hard to deal with my friend... subsitute this ordeal by gaining others to worship you! PS: Theres more than this but this shal do for image wise>>>>

JPMerrick


lovely99
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just hang on i every girl my dad likes


storemanager
So ok. How old are you? When I started dating my now husband he had 2 kids that were living with their mother and I had to get to know them. They were very mean to me and all I wanted to do was be their friend. Their mom had a lot to do with that. She tried to turn them against their dad. I didn't want to take the place of their mom. I gave them time with their dad and I didn't come around all the time. When we finally got to know each other things turned out great and now his son lives with us. So why do you hate her in the first place? Maybe you need to give her a chance. You two have a girls night out and see how it goes. Good luck with whatever you decide to do


Jack
act like you think she's hot, like smack her butt and stuff and tell her she has a nice butt and see if that doesnt detur her


amytigger1982
Well depending on why you hate her your did might not respond. It's okay to not like the new woman in your dad's life. If she is doing things that you don't see fit, such as things that mistreat you, then you and your dad should seriously talk and tell him it has to be just you and him. I hated my stepmom, she was always telling me that I had to call her Mama. Like i want to call a woman that I don't even know that well Mama. She made me eat things that I didn't like and made me sick. I talked to my dad, just me and him. He understood and talked to her, she calmed down after that. Also, if you find yourself not able to talk to him, go to your mom(if she's around) and get her to help you out with talking to your dad. I might even try to talk to your dad's g-friend personally and see if you can settle your differences. I know it's hard, and you really don't like her. But one thing you have to understand, you're both in love with the same man. You love him very much, as I'm sure she does too. She has to understand that she's not the only one in his life and I think if you explain this to her, it may help ya out. Hope things go well for ya!! :)


sauteed mushroom
hahahahah thats funny.. tell her how you feel. if he wont listen.. maybe at least she will. if she doesnt..well...do everything you can to make her mad.. over than that.. i dont know


hot stuff
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do you hate her because she is mean or because you think she is taking your mothers place?

for whatever reasons your parents are not together they are adults and I am sure it was not an easy decision.

if you give her half a chance she might be a nice person.

ever heard the phrase kill em with kindness?


purplepiggy13
You need to talk to your dad again. Make sure he knows why you feel the way you do. If she comes around during conversation with your dad then just have her sit down with the two of you and explain it to her as well.


gothie
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find wat she doesnt like and do wat ever it is


carsons
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get into her pants take a movie of it .give it to your dad.lollollollol


Chris from Chicago
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Find him another one


DisneyLover
okay ever seen the parent trap?
you don't have to try to get your original parents back together but sabotage her in a quiet way. drive her crazy so she'll hate you so much that she won't want anything to do with you or your dad.


catlover
Maybe your dad didn't listen because she's making him happy. When she comes around like she always does, watch him and listen to him, see if he seems like he feels better when she's there.


crissimayo
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you can't get rid of her when you're Dad is inlove with this woman. You can't reason with a man who is inlove. Why do you hate her? By the way, is your Dad a divorce man?
If he is divorce, then he got his right for another love - try to like this woman instead... if she is a bad woman - try to show your DAD the BAD side of her without being too obvious - -


Cheshire Cat
So, ya wanna make ya daddy's girlfrend dissappear, eh?
Tell ya whatcha ya gadda do.
Get this boy from school, see? Get him to go out with her, see? Then have your dad catch them, see?
Ya got it? No problem. Done menchen it.

Now if ya da is a real pervo, then maybe he godda learn a lesson or sumthin' but thisa here will work ona mosta them.


shreveport_master
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First, it's his life, if he chooses to spend it with her, while you do not have to approve, it is not your place to try to tell him who he should and should not be with. If you are an adult, simply tell him, I love you, but I can't stand to be around her, and as long as you are with her I can't be around her. You are welcome to come see me alone, but she is not welcome in my home. If you are still a minor, well, deal with it. Adults get to see who they please, one of the privileges of being an adult.


MorgantonNC
Hide some panties in his car. Use Photoshop to make a picture of him kicking a dog. Tell her how much she reminds you of his last girlfriend. Rent the movie Parent Trap.


AngelsSin2
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WHAT YOU ARE FEELING IS PRETTY NORMAL. I BET IF YOU GIVE HER THE CHANCE YOU MIGHT FIND SOMETHING ABOUT HER YOU LIKE. AND YOU NED TO REALIZE YOUR DAD HAS THE RIGHT TO BE HAPPY. ONE DAY YOU MAY NEED HIS APPROVAL FOR SOMEONE HE DOESN'T LIKE ..... SO BE CAREFUL IT COULD COME BACK AND BITE YOU ON THE BUTT. GOOD LUCK !


Me
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do not hate anyone ... that only hurt you and no one else.
if you do not like her, I would say leave her... and it is your father choice so respect him but you do not have to like her...


The Lady of Shallot
Why don't you like her? If she's a nasty wench to you and you actually have reason to hate her then pull the old, "It's her or me!" with you dad. If it doesn't work, then make some devious and horrible plan to tear them apart!


sundayschild63
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Rat poison


David Styvaert
Give her roofies and have a guy friend climb on top of her and take a picture and show it to your dad. Roofies rule that way.





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