nice thing to teach your kids! let's lie and pretend kids!!!
It differs in each state, but, i know here in nebraska the mother can change her child's last name to anything she wants. But if there has been a DNA test done with the bio-dad and he still has his parental rights, then you will have to have his permission and he has to sign the form. Go to your local Social Security office and they will give you the form you need and tell you what all you have to have and what you have to do.
So you going to change his name every time YOURS changes? NO you DO NOT know it's going to last, leave his name what it is, you keep changing YOURS if you like!
my sister acts like her son is nothing to her. she sleeps in the car with her boyfriend. and i would like to have her son as my son. he has been my son basicly since the day he was born. she doesnt ...