whats the first start of puttin a baby up for adoption when its first born.?

Lisa C	If you are sure you want to surrender your baby to adoption the first thing is to contact an attorney who can out you in contact with adoptive parents who you may connect with, in your area, if thy is important to you. Both You and the father have to consent to he adoption. You can also meet and connect with an adoptive family and have an attorney work out the legal details of the adoption. There are many wonderful families looking to expand thru adoption.

adoptive mother	If you are serious, please contact me privately, as I'm an adoptive parent and a counselor to expectant mothers and fathers considering adoption, or just need guidance and support to get to services they need to help them with their pregnancy, medical, and any other social services help that is out there so that they can either be effective parents, or information on finding adoption services.

Cheryle	I am sorry that you do not want to raise this baby. There are alot of loving adoptive parents who would love to have this baby. Go to an adoption agency, to your church, to social services, talk to a counselor, get the right information. This is a little life, please give it a chance to be loved & have a forever family. Allot of adoptive want to be parents cannot afford the high cost of adoptions & I am sure if you would like to go to an attorney that specializes in adoption they would have people waiting by their phone for that special call. Give this baby a chance to live. What state do you live in?You may e-mail me.

Cup of sherry	To answer your question, you can have the baby and leave the baby in the hospital and they will give the baby to foster care and find a family to adopt the baby. You can go to an adoption agency and look at couples that the recommend as suitable adopted family. And could choose what kind of adoption you want as closed, open or semi open. You can not sign your rights off until at least 48 hours after the birth. And the father will have to as well. You could talk to your family and see if someone in your family may want to parent your child if you don't wish to.

LindseyTaylor	MY BIGGEST PET PEEVE EVER: People referring to children as "it" especially when talking about adoption. It makes you sound ignorant and cold. Second biggest pet peeve: Really bad spelling along with bad grammar. These two things pretty much prevent me from giving you a serious answer as I can't look past them. Educate yourself for your sake and your child's. On adoption, parenting, relationships (ie mother/child) and the english language.

Pip	As a mother who wanted to raise my son I find your question sickening. If you have such little regard for your baby then why on earth haven't you aborted. Personal opinion is parenting is the best option, abortion the second with adoption being the last resort if you really don't want to parent or abort. Bear in mind adoption isn't always the better option for the child.

Linda	You go through social services. You don't have to wait until the baby is born, you can make a plan for them whilst you're still pregnant so that as soon as they're born they have a home to go to. I find the way you've worded your question fairly disgusting. I am assuming that you are completely ignorant which is why I have taken the time to answer your question. I sincerely hope that you aren't asking this question as a mother who wants to give up their child as if you 'don't care who adopts it' then you make me physically sick. I think that most mothers that have been through the pain of giving a child up for adoption would be very offended by your suggestion that they all just dump the kids and don't care what happens to them.

Rosie	First, You have a long talk with your family. Then you get lots of good prenatal care and TLC during the pregnancy.