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$80/week on groceries for a family of three? Too much?

My husband makes pretty good money ($18/hr) yet when he goes to the grocery, he takes my list, and when he comes back he does nothing but complain about how ridiculous it is that he had to spend $80-$90 for a weeks worth of groceries for us and our son. Is that too much? I don't know how much everyone else spends, but we don't buy a lot of junk, just the necessities and healthy snacks and juice and stuff for our son. I'm so tired of having it thrown up in my face! I am a sahm, so he tells me that if I don't like it, I need to get a job and buy groceries, but around here daycare costs so much it would take most of my money. I would rather go without some things than have a stranger keep my son and my nerves up all day at work. IDK.. is he being unreasonable or is that too much for food?







jewels15
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No, Thats good. Real good. Like how do you do it?


Leslie
It just depends on what you buy, i guess.


? ?
$80 a week is nothing...but I make a lot more than your husband and no kids.


Itrolla
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Your bill is low on average.


nydp02
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NO We r a family of four n we spend $100-140/wk. Try getting a membership at BJ's, Sams etc


Amethyst M
Please leave and find someone nice, stop questioning yourself.


Queen of Beer
That is not a lot of money. Everything is going up in price b/c of the stupid gasoline.

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Daisy
No its not. Too bad for him - the prices at the supermarket are ridiculous but you guys have to eat.


sharkie
everything is pretty expensive now a days.


Paige$32
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80 a week for groceries is nothing. I'ts just me an my spouse and we spend 80-100 a week.
He just venting, he needs to let it go


Slim Whitman
We have a family of 4 with 2 teenagers we average about $200/week.


Letting You Know
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We spend $80 a week for a family of four. It's actually not enough, in my opinion.


oh_jo123
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I live in SC and there are three of us at home and then I have 3-5 on the weekends we spend as a family on groceries anywhere between 100-150 a week


miaRules
Is your husband a ding dong? $80 a week on groceries is great. He should be so happy you are a thrifty shopper. He is being totally unreasonable.


luva_gal_18
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sounds good i do 280 a month for me and my hubby we live in washington state depending on where u live it sounds great
if he is so worried about it you should cut coupond it will save about 10 dollarsi don't do it but i should


mamajoey
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i can spend $50 a week on the essentials (no junk, healthy snacks). but it's me, him and a two year old and my 5 month old is eating now. look at the stuff and seperate into meals and servings before you buy


gunslingerjosey
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My and my partner have 4 children between the two of us. Even when we've had them full time (for instance, last summer) - I think we spent $80- $90 per week on groceries. $400/month for 6 of us.


Violet Pearl
It's nothing these days--doesn't he watch the news?? $100 a week is about the minimum
That said, it also depends on what you buy. Packaged food is 4xs as much as natural food you make from scratch.


Kristine
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wow.... i spend more than 100 every week on groceries.... and delivery food, go out and eat more than 4 times........
man.... i need ask you how to keep it under 100...
but again, i think you should get a job and trust daycare....
its always better to have a job your own


Jessica
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Why don't you get a job it takes two income these days to feed family. Also 80 a wk that's a lot for family of 3 God i spend have of that and we eat really good look for coupons and avoid things you really don't need.


Frank L
I have a daughter and a girl living with me and we average in Northern NJ about 200 -225.00 per week in food and incidentals that we need. I would love someone forever if they could figure out how to make us live and eat well on a 80.00 grocery bill


Tasha
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It isn't too much for food. I spend atleast 100 a week for 5. Not buying fruit snacks, yogo's, chips and junk like that helps with the cost. Also, you can save money by buying store brand, rather than brand name. But seriously, 80 dollars is reasonable.


elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom
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we spend about 125 a week on food, food alone, that does not include shampoo, toilet paper, soap, cleaning supplies and other stuff...

there are 5 of us...

we probably could spend less, if we shop at places like aldi's or save alot...

we also eat out about once a month, maybe twice...

Mary


yeahright
i don't know, we re a family of 5 we spend more every day on groceries. we don't eat junk food at all (never ever) but we eat lots of fruits and vegetables and cos i can't cook i buy only fillet meat - easier to cook. so to me 80 for a week sounds like nothing at all.


Sunshine
Get a job that allows your husband to watch your son and spend that money on groceries. My husband is the same way. As far as daycare, my daughter is a wonderful child and an honor student. Guess what, she went to daycare. You just have to check them out and make unexpected stops to check on your child..


ladybug
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I spend about $700/month on groceries for myself, boyfriend and 4 year old daughter and that doesn't include beer and wine but it does include medication, diapers and toiletries.

It depends on where you live and how much food costs but $80/wk doesn't sound unreasonable to me.


justagirl
That grocery bill sounds low to me! I spent that amount each week for my 13 yr old daughter and myself! We eat very healthy, organic, vegetarian as much as possible, no junk. I think your husband would be in for a much bigger shock to find out what daycare costs. You're probably saving money by staying home.


ken b
That's not a lot of money. He's just venting his anxiety about money.
A lot of people could spend that much eating out once or twice.
Make sure he's shopping for the sale items, or suggest using coupons.
Figure out the cost for one meal and share it with him. It appears he can't see the forest for the trees.


cocoa
I feed a family of 5 every week and make 7 dinners, 2 lunches, and 2 breakfasts per week (I work Monday thru Friday so I dont make breaskfast or lunches then). I spend about $180 a week on food and not counting toiletries, napkins, diapers etc. That is insane. Have you seen how much food has gone up in price since last year? By the way, I only make $9 an hour and dont complain when it comes to my familys well being.







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