ARE YOU willing to go for this kind of husband?

Tab	Uhh No

Mrs Libra	Hell no i dont care how much he would give me i wouldn't be married to a man like that.

Bianca	no no no no no

Kelly	I am responsible for who I let into my life. I would never let someone like that have control over my future.

missbeauty_916	no. money isnt everything best if you jst left him and found someone better

love is magic	no not really i want a man that will get me stuff but isn't overly protective.

Chronos 2	No. But I'm willing to call the police on him.

jayB	If expensive clothes and cars are what you want the most

articulate02	its sounds like you think more money is the way to go. I think you've discovered that's wrong. Obviously your happiness comes first. Ask yourself, are you happy? if not then leave...

SimplyDivine	NEVER!!!!

xoxoj	Noooooooooooooo........ Girl be independent and if you want expensive clothes, bags, car ... work hard ... dont waste your life with a man who is gonna make you unhappy...

Agent99	NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

Mr. X	I think that only YOU are the person who could answer that question. He sounds like one insecure dude.

coyastone	Well the isolation issue is definitely a deal breaker. Hells no if thats what he's doing. That's abuse.

Layla Jane	For myself no. However, I do know of women offline, of course, who would.

pookie butt	Absolutely not. I would not be able to tolerate being treated like property.

mel	He's only giving you all those stuff so he makes sure when you doubt the marriage, there's something on the plus side.

Emily	Never in a million years. I would rather have a husband who couldn't afford to buy me much, yet loved me tenderly, gave me my space, treated me good...which is what I basically do have.

Keira	god no i just come out of a 31years of this thing and i am telling you its hell i been through so much its that bad my grown kids beleive him good luck dont go for this kind of man pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee

lorie v	no way in hell that is to much torture leave him and live free and serenely no amount of money is worth your sanity leave the guy get a job if you can and start over or ask for alimony! but be free you only have one life !

Nihilist	Absolutely not! All the money in the world can't buy me! Material possesions are useless in this world. You can't take them with you when you die. But someone who truly cares about you and treats you right will be with you forever.

Classy Pinup	No! no one should have to go through this kind of abuse. its not worth getting hurt. why would you want that? neccessities are nothing. you can find someone who gives you everything he does, except the scars and bruises.. its not worth it. we deserve ONLY the best!.

angie	honey, no no no!!! it is not worth all the material things in the world to lose your sense of self!! and God knows what it would be like after you were married...and i am scared to ask what you mean by torture? please see a counselor and dont let him keep you away from your loved ones..

cllily	No way. I would MUCH rather have a loving husband who is my best friend, than expensive clothes, bags, and cars. I mean, I wouldn't be able to enjoy all that knowing that I'm unhappy with my marriage. If this is the case with you, you deserve better honey!

dizzkat	I don't care about the clothes, purses or vehicles- I can buy what I need. No man will control me or abuse me for a friggin purse! You need to find yourself and learn to provide for what you need so you can be an equal partner to the man of your future.

Selena	Well according to what you said, the only thing he does right is buy nice things for his wife, But controlling her, thats a no no A gold digger might marry him, so they can get nice stuff and are able to stand him treating her that way as long she get some expensive thing, so a woman who takes pride in herself should not be with a man like that

rustydustydreams	Sounds like your asking this for a friend WHO REFUSES TO HEAR YOUR OPINION ON THE MAN SHE'S DATING... WHO EVER is considering this marriage need to seek counseling for self esteem issues IMMEDIATELY OR THEY JUST MAY FIND THEMSELVES BLOGGING HERE IN A FEW DAYS, MONTHS, OR WEEKS ABOUT THE ABUSIVE MAN SHE MARRIED. HONEY RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN, HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU, THAT IS NOT LOVE, SOME GILRS THINK THAT BEHAVIOR SOUNDS CUTE, LIKE "JEALOUSY IS CUTE" BUT ITS NOT ! HE'S NOT JEALOUS, HES EXHIBITING SOCIOPATHIC BEHAVIOR AND NEEDS HELP, BUT YOU NEED HELP TO DISCOV ER THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN HEALTHY AND UNHEALTHY RELALTIONSHIPS. SO MANY OF US GREW UP IN A WAY THAT MADE US UNSURE OF THE DIFFERENCE. PLEASE GET SOME HELP REGARDING THAT BEFORE YOU MAKE A DECISION THAT CAN WRECK YOUR LIFE. PLEASE ! PAINT THE PICTURE THE WAY IT IS, NOT THE WAY YOU WISH TO SEE IT!!

Poet	While I'm not a woman and cannot answer this question honestly... I don't think any woman would WANT to tolerate a guy treating her like crap for the money... no amount of money should be worth that! You said it best yourself by calling him a dog... now do you want a HUSBAND, or do you want a DOG? The choice is ultimately up to you which is more important: An unhappy but wealthy life, or a happy and potentially still wealthy life.... because don't forget you can always meet someone new to make you happy AND give you the things you need and want.