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Am I being unfaithful?

When we were first dating, I aggreed to stop chatting ( with anyone ) because it made her uncomfortable that I was flirting too much. Because I would not say that I aggreed I was in the wrong, now whenever I'm online and having "contact" with actual people ( like Answers ) , she gets upset and says things like "I see you found new friends" sarcasticly.







Azriela Love
oh God!!! Tell her to get a grip.... she's extremely insecure... let her go before she gets crazy


Lyne B
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you know.. I've always found that jealous people have someething to hide... maybe you should ask her why she's so jealous and upset about.. .there's nothing wrong in having friends and talking.


Becky
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it doesn't matter who you talk to as long as you don't actually try to do what you talk about. Maybe she is a jealous person, and if that is the case, sorry for you. Good luck.


svmainus
She's insecure...you are pushing her buttons.
TALK (and is being here really worth ruffling her insecure feathers if you really love her?)


fireball226
No if this is all youre doing youre not. This is not a dating site. Has she tried it? Communication is fun Tell her there are lots of married people on this and its not live. Its a board. Nothing to worry about. If its 18 mos or more and you luv her propose and buy her a diamond....


Andrew
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You are not being unfaithful but you are lying to her. You agreed to stop chatting and are not living up to your promise. Either make a new promise or find a new, less jealous minded girlfriend.


~*Stephanie S
No, you are not wrong, but you need to be sensitive to how your wife is feeling. If you've done things in the past to cause her to doubt your faithfulness, you need to be willing to do whatever she asks to earn her trust back if you want to be with her. If you've never given her any reason to distrust your intentions and she still finds reason to doubt you, however, she probably has some self-esteem and insecurity issues that need to be addressed. Be loving and patient with her-- maybe consider setting her up with a therapist to find out why she has such trust issues.


Shade Nights
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NO you are not chatting you are just talking to other people that is it.That is what i think.


ca_rissa3505
You are definately not being unfaithful she seems like she is very insecure maybe she had a bad past experience in one of her relationships or something you should ask her what is the big deal about you chatting online.


sweetpea
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If you have to ask the question than your conscience must be bothering you.


Me
It's because so many relationships seem to be damaged because someone falls for someone they met on the net..and she has heard about this. Also, it could be really difficult for her to compete for you with a fantasy of someone you've never met...someone you do not know has true faults....


nanny2
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sounds like she is insecure ,and are you flirting or just talking in general?


kja63
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Depends on what you mean by "contact." If you are on-line chatting and flirting, etc... with women, you're on dangerous ground.

The bigger issue is that you promised to do something and now you are not keeping your promise. Talk with your gf about her concerns and reach a mutual agreement you can both live with -- then keep your promise.


tpurtygrl
Sounds like she's insecure about something. As long as you are not trying to hook up with someone you are not wrong. You do have to take your partners feelings into account though. Talk to her. Nothing wrong with online friends.


becca_2
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wow... she is upset about yahoo answeres?! that is just plain jealousy. I can maybe see you im'ing females you dont know but friends you should be able to chat up anytime. and yahoo answers my god she needs some help or your marriage wont last.


Duende71
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She sounds like my husband. Maybe she could email him, they'd get along great.

(i'm seperated)


chris j
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tell her to get a grip. people are supposed to be able to talk to other people. and people can talk without flirting


mixemup
I don't think so, I think she is overly obsessive.


Lauren
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explain to her that these are just people. Liek she doesnt talk to other people? Is she goign to accuse you of beign bi when you hang out with your friends?


T S
Tell her to grow the H*ll up


Ahwell
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She sounds insecure and possessive, give her reassurance but don't stop talking to people, you'll get resentful and it'll all end in tears.


Barbi W
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She is sounding a little insecure, and no, you are no being unfaithful. Talk with her, or even let her join in to see that Yahoo Q&A is really nothing much. Best of Luck..


hating and being mean is a sin
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you're still being faithful. she has no right to act that way.. it's yahoo answers.


I'm Gonna Tell You
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I guess she's the ugly one in the relationship huh? Maybe she can't make friends for herself, maybe that would have been a good indicator to you that no one else can stand her either. LOL

IM me cutie!


Rja
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Get a new one. This one has a severe personality disorder.


Beca <3
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u arent cheating.


Private Account
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You're not being unfaithful but you're being disrespectful.


chevy
she is jealous. do you really need that in your life at this point?







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