Are you flattered or upset when you find out someone has a crush on your spouse?

mayrad	no, im flattered.

'Old & Cudley'	Definitely flattered!!! That would say that he still has that special "THING" about him that you married him/her for.

â™¥sick n tiredâ™¥	Upset

Domino	Well, My wife is an absolute doll, I can't imagine any guy not finding her attractive...It wouldn't bother me, as a matter of fact I've seen plenty of guys turn their heads...What bothers me is the fact that some guys are totally blind to the fact that I am standing right beside her, and that she has a wedding ring on her finger...

brilliantyetconfused	I'm flattered then suspect. Because I don't want them hanging out with my husband to try something. Of course, I need to trust my husband too.

Deb	Would depend if it was a harmless crush, or someone trying to put the moves on him.

RPrincess	flattered, but I'm a lot younger than him. I know that the other women don't have a chance in H*LL!!

core-p	I get jealous as hell,so i'd say I get upset.

Ahni	I trust my husband to be faithful, so as long as the other person wasn't weirdly obsessed I'd be flattered, I suppose. My husband always tells me when people he knows think I'm cute. It's nice to know that other people find your partner attractive!

Kc	Probably flattered at first, but I'd keep an eye on it. If he's going out of his way to make her feel good, I'd get annoyed I guess.

Kaboom	I just don't think about it too much....seems everyone has a crush on my honey. I like it that he loves me, that he is desirable enough for the crushes to happen. He treats me like I am a treasure, he is mine. I don't think that should matter, if he loves you he loves YOU.

diablo	I guess a little of both, but mainly flattered......

blue moon lady	to be honest...upset, just out of my own insecuritys...but what can I do if they like him, if he don't feel the same about them ? my husband say that he would be flattered if a man had a crush on me..

Isabella S	upset. but if they take it to a whole new level as un-necessary phone calls, love letters, text messages, myspace e-mails then i am pissed. and will remain that way until they stop...or get run over by a train.

Sammy Gabbie GO VEGAN!	I don't care so long as my husband doesn't do anything to act on it. As long as he's man enough to say he's married and not interested and tell them not to be calling and whatever, I don't care. When I was single, I didn't have crushes on people I knew were married. I had more respect for them, their wife, and myself to do that. When I found out they were married, no more crush.

â™¥â™¥â™¥MiSSYâ™¥â™¥â™¥	I'd be flattered!

nelppik	I would be flattered as I tell them to watch their step.

â™‚â™¥â™€Lesleyâ™‚â™¥â™€	i guess flattered, but i think i would get my guard up just in case.

ericgod7	if anyone starts all that pish with my soon to be wife,i`ll knock their fcuking head off or something of the like,why don`t they p!ss off and find their own wife.......b@st@rds.

Pippi	This has happened to me a few times... I have ended friendships over it. I don't think it's appropriate for a "friend" to tell me how hot my husband is and flirt with him when she and her own husband are over at my house for drinks and then tell me she has such a "married crush" on my husband. It is inappropriate and it pisses me off.

missclare69	to be honest neither but i would feel threatened.

Tulip	Flattered if I know that our relationship is rock hard and he wont get tempted to accidently drift to that person, but sure would be upset if our relationship isn't so solid or if he takes action to the crush.

NONAME	Always flattered because my girlfriend IS smoking HOT!!!!!

laffytaffy	flattered. cuz you got what other women/men want. lol

curious georgette	I love it! If someone thinks my man is hot, then I know I chose well!

~NIKKI~	hmmm, never happened lol but yeah why would i be upset, obviously i think he is attractive so why wouldn't someone else?

AngiesHusband	Flattered, I suppose. How could you get upset with someone for that?