Be brutal...I'm in love with my married boss...?

dad	You dirty low down swine . That's as brutal as it gets .You really need to get a single guy it takes allot of years for kids to grow you know . Your just screwing up your own life with this guy.

cheeky_beth_62	He can pull the trigger - he just doesn't choose to and if the truth was known, probably never will. Moreover, why should he? This man has the best of both worlds and you are encouraging him even further. I would think that you are younger than him and he wants a 'piece' on the side. Well, all I can say is he's got it and you are his play thing when his wife is too tired or otherwise pre-occupied with the children. On the other hand, if he left her, he would probably lose all his equity in the business and would be forced to pay large amounts of child support. He would also look bad in the eyes of the business affiliates? No, my dear he will never leave his wife. But if you allow him to, he will waste your youth and take all your goodness from you. Morally, what you both have done is wrong. However, you may choose to terminate the relationship with him and ask for forgiveness with concerns to this matter. I would. Good luck.

Susan D	Do you really want him? I mean he's lying to his wife; cheating on his wife; being totally disrespectful to his wife. Do you really think that, if he leaves his wife and kids for you, that he will never cheat on you? Never lie to you? You have allowed him to have his cake and eat it too. Personally, I think that you should end the affair; find a different job and find a partner who loves and respects you and is totally committed to you. You have invested 3 years with this man and are no closer to a "normal" relationship with him. You deserve better!

godspeedlove	start looking for a new job now!! He has all the power in this relationship. Never get involved with a married man!!!!! They never leave their wives.

Rav	Guys says stuff like that because there will always be women like you who BUY that crap. Look, he has the best of BOTH worlds, and that will NEVER change. Deal with it and try finding someone single instead of trying to steal someone Else's mate.

SillierKimmy!	You have no class, or respect for his wife and kids. Cut it off, grow up, and find someone single. How skan*y.

It's me	Being brutal probably isn't necessary. I'm sure I could go on with the inappropriateness and scantity of marriage that you are violating but at the end of the day you will need to be responsible for your actions. You need to end things with him. If you think your job is at stake then you need to get an attorney (if it's worth keeping). If you were the love of his life, he would not be with his wife. He would do everything in his power to be with you and only you, the reality is that he is treating you and has you as a mistress. If he wanted to completely be with you he would have been in contact with a divorce attorney and divorce financial planner three years ago to get things in process to give his wife the boot. Go spend your time on a man who wants to be exclusively with you. You won't have to sneak around, you won't have to worry about his wife "finding out" and so forth. The only reason I say leave him his because it sounds like he's been leading you to believe divorce was eminent for the last three years. Best of luck, I hope you can find a man who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.

Darren J	Ask your husband what you should do.

Cuttie pie	dump him, hes worthless his kids r probably juss a excuse, hun

brews	Your boss should be fired. His wife should leave him. You should show a little common sense and try to find someone single and away from work.

angiee631	Ok its been 3 years and he is still blowing smoke up your a**? What are you waiting for? 3 more years? Dude I don't care how good he talks, he isn't going anywhere but home to his wife after work or after he is done with you which ever comes first. You are one of 3 in a co-dependant relationship. Get out now or else don't and just dig in your heels and expect exactly what your getting now for the remainder of your relationship...... Leftovers!

bekki1706	oh my god! so you are involved with a married man...lol what a joke...of course it is on you.... say everything you want to happen....happens.... he leaves his wife and marries you.... now you are the wife, huh? the one sitting home..raising his kids...wondering where he is when he "has to stay late at the office"..... wondering when he will grow tired of you and marry the new "miss thang" he has in his life.... yep...you got a real winner there honey.....shakin' my head

Jesus Freak	I think you should just sit him down, and talk to him. Tell him how you feel. If he already knows, erm, thinks he knows, just explain it calmly, in serious matter. If he is married, talk to him about getting a divorce with his husband/wife (idk) because it probably hurts you. If I were you, I wouldn't hold on to him if he was married. If I was the married one in this situation I'd be heartbroken. If I was the childern I would either hate my dad, or go into serious depression. Maybe end things. Maybe it's time you move on to someone who has open arms, and is ready for you. Maybe God has someone for you right there, but your just getting him confused for you boss...

miraclehand2020	This is the oldest trick in the book.you've been tagged.

Penelope Smith	So ten years from now do you still want to be in this same situation? If you were really the love of his life he'd have gotten rid of the wife ages ago. You're just a sweet bit of *** on the side. But you already know that. Get some self respect, woman! Pick up your dignity and kick him to the curb.

**~CrAzY~**	well, if dude has kids an a wife. id say youre a homewrecker and a life rouiner and you need to go to his wife and tell her straight up what you guys did!!!!!!!

ladyluckisme2003	call the wife and find out if the marriage is really over. If it is she well not care. If he is lying the marriage may be over soon.

â™¥ R.I.P Spike â™¥	I think you need to leave him alone. He would only end up doing the same to you. You should never mess with someone whose married. There are plenty of single people out there. I never understood why anyone would do that.

Bonduesa	You must be making a stories now

Velvet Rain Drops	i think its disrespecting his wife and kids

missing_something	They won't leave, I've been involved with a married man who has 3 kids with her and 2 with me, he says he loves me and the kids but can't leave his family. It's funny how things work out sometimes, you live and you learn, I'd say get out before you end up like me. Good luck, I know it's hard to leave

Made You Look	i ain't buyin this one either.

April	I think this is a joke question, or you're an idiot.