But I'm married.?

Marina	Work out somewhere else.

#1 due 8/2/09	tell her thats a form of harassment and you will be forced to get a restraining order if she doesn't stop

lolla247	Just ignore her and after a week or two if she doesn't let up tell your wife and let her take care of it

Gatita	If you have gone ahead and even lied that you are married to keep her away.... there is not much more to say but to get the police involved... I know that sounds extreme but you might go to the security guard at your local gym first and tell them that you feel uncomfortable with her behavior. They will do some thing, if she stalks you and follows you then file a report... they won't take her to jail.. it will only be recorded and she will know that you mean for her to stay away from you.

Heatherrrrrrrr	Just wear your headphones. Never take them off. Don't look at her. You are on control of yourself. You choose to talk to her or not. Change your workout schedule and go at different times and take your wife with you.

xxxnxoxexlxxx	Again, reiterate to her that you are HAPPILY married and your wife would not appreciate that in the least. If she is still persistant, try going to the gym at a time when she will not be there or switch gyms. if that is not an option let the management at your gym know the situation and tell them how uncomfortable she is making you.

Trillian	Change gyms. You can't be responsible for another person or expect to control what they do or don't do. You can only handle you and yours. If you've got a membership to a chain, just find another branch. You won't even have to mess with your membership.

Valerie X	What gym do YOU go to? Seems to me I have time to get in, do what I got to do and get out.......who has time to chase men around there? Thats HILARIOUS!

BABYBOOTINKER	1. change gyms ,2 have management talk to her 3. have your wife work out with you

Grace	Tell her again then and mean it say your not interested and even if you was your married pretty simple really

BabeHart	Tell her no means no, and if she doesn't desist you'll seek legal action...or just ignore her. I also like the suggestions above to let the chick know your wife would be included in any meetings with her outside of the gym. â˜º It's not rocket science. You are not obligated to respond to someone who bugs you. She can 'persist' all she wants, unless you take action then it's a non-issue.

Han L	Change gyms and never talk to her again!

tb	Next time she suggests getting together say something like, that sounds great, I'll just check with my wife and make sure she's free as well... She'll get the hint.

<Carol>	Switch gyms. tell your wife and let her deal with it!

Tiffany	tell her you're gonna get your wife after her!! lol

~nicole~	Tell your wife. She will take care of it since you can't.

~NIKKI~	Go to another gym....problem solved

Proud mom of 3	If she doesn't listen to you. Then I would tell one of the workers that lady is bothering you and you told her to leave you alone and she not. Then they might do something about it. Or go somewhere else. or bring you wife along and say hi this is my wife. maybe she take a hit ..

CeCe	Change gyms if you can't avoid her. Or have your wife come with you.

Brandnewshoes	As soon as she gets you, she will lose interest, she is one of those women who is insanely needy. And for her knowing that you cheated and your wife and chose her it's like another triumph to her low self esteem. Don't play those games, it's not worth it.

disneyluvr1976	You should stop working out together, don't make any effort to be her friend. It seems apparent that she can't tell the difference.

lenza	tell ur wife and she will handle her.

Liza C	Take your wife to the gym, i think she will not bother you again.

jemmamomma	Tell her to back the heck off or you'll get a restraining order since she's a desparate stalker. PS--and a thanx to manlygirl for giving me a thumbs down and then repeating this question.......what a joke.

No-one	tell your wife what is going on and what you have said to her so that you are being honest from the start and maybe change gyms

ted.stryker	Change gyms...

The One, The Only Krandazzo!	um yea why dont you change gyms....duh

me n mine	good for you! tell your wife about it, let her handle the homewrecker!

spammerz85	you need to tell her to just back off....see if there is another time you can go where you may not see her.