Can a woman or knowledgeable man tell me what is going through her head?

She dumps me, it was online relationship and never met in 1.5 years. The whole time she has a husband she was seperated from that wanted to get back with her. She dumps me cuz she worried i would cheat on her. After 2 weeks she picks up tih another guy and says she loves him so much now (he is from across the atlantic when i was a 6 hour drive away).. She fell for him cuz he was so romantic and loves his badboy ways too. He has a real life g/f he is sheating o her with and she is still not telling her seperated hubby she is seeing abyone else and holds out hope for him to reconcilliation (she does care for hubby). WHAT IS GOING THROUGH HER MIND? esp. since she wants to be friends with me cuz i was the shoulder to cry on whnever her and this new b/f had a fight. he is 29 she is 33.

Zeep	The real question is what is going through your mind. She is obviously crazy. So, the question is what draws you to this crazy woman and an online relationship with someone you never met but who hurts you. She is a piece of work, I'll grant you. But you can't fix that. You are currently a piece of work for putting up with it. You can fix that. Try talking to a counselor for starters, or have a read of "Codependent No More" - it's not just for women. I really think the former - a clinical psychologist for counseling - will help you figure this out.

chicamexicana	well I wouldn't worry about her. If she truley cared for you she would drive the 6 hours. She is noth worth it. You will find someone one day who will truley love you in the mean time no use crying over spilt milk.

randyhellenbrand	Dear JJ, Here is your answer. It is short and true. You are a good guy and do what you are supposed to do. These other guys on the other hand need to be saved. She thinks she can change them and make them better people because of her. I do not know what world some of these women live in but this is how they are. Sorry, Randy

alfa43diva	This is not a person you want to tie yourself to in any way, she's flighty, indecisive and a game player. Get on with your life, there a no positive possibilities here!

rhonda y	Online relationship....Oh God. Screw her. Find someone you can actually sit down with and look in the eye.

sherylmichelle2002	she is not ready to move on... ( husband).. she keeps all other boys/guys at arms lenght so she does not have to committ..... ( She playing a game) sorry..

MRS.SAENZ	she is using you !!!!! thats what is going on in her mind! didnt you just say you bought her a ring? well yeah you are the guy she cries to and talks to when no one is there....... leave her alone and find a real woman that you can touch and see in your home town...... she is using all of you.... waiting trying to see whats the best she can get out of all of you

jstcurious	she wants the best of every guy.... am sure you dont wanna play second fiddle...

Electric Blue	No, the question is WHAT IS GOING THROUGH YOUR FD UP MIND? Get off the damn computer and get a REAL life and meet REAL people.

confused0704	Who the hell cares?!!!! You guys have never even met!!!! Get a life, a woman, and some pu$$y!!!! Good Luck!!!!

David T	It was an online romance. I agree, why should you bother yourself with this soap opera. Move on dude.

nonameblonde	You're worried about someone you've never actually met? Sounds like both of you have issues.

Linda K	WHat's going on? Well quite obviously she is playing YOU like she plays every other man in her life.... come on now? Are you really this gullible? She's a lying, manipulator, player! PERIOD!

Sandy Ego	Please explain what is the attraction of being in an imaginary relationship with a drama queen. Before you start to try and guess what's going through HER head, consider figuring out what's going through YOURS. Go out and meet real people and try out some real relationships.

Marina	The better question is why do you care?