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Can you be in love with a person you don't trust?
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Can you be in love with a person you don't trust?








dsrspring
Sure, but it wouldn't be a good idea to stay with someone like that. You would have to question his every move, and it would be a full time job. No one wants to work that hard for love. You should find someone you can trust and build on that relationship.


Prott
no, love means share everything with him and give everything you have to him. if you dont trust, it means you cant do anything except fu****.


bdchick
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Ya of course. Love is something that happens even when it totally doesn't make sense in your head. You just love them. Unfortunately when the person you fall for isn't trustworthy or has other unfavorable qualities, watch out!! You're headed for big problems so I would suggest trying to find someone else and trying to avoid a relationship with the person so you don't get hurt. Or if you really still want to pursue a relationship, be careful and maybe try talking to them about it. Good luck!! :)


Totinsky M
Oh! you can be in love with anything... the question is do you enjoy being love with someone you can't trust?
Are you capable of trusting someone?
What does it take you to trust others?
Is the person you are in love with trustable?


william n
Yes but don't take your eyes off him , watch your back!


Anna
from experience, yes.. and sometimes that can make the situation worse.. i love my hubby so much, but a past infidelity has left me questioning everything, which makes me feel horrible because i love him so much....


alialoggi
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You can be in love with them, but I dont think you can be involved with them, unfortunately. If they cheat, its hard to trust them again and then you need to be sure they wont cheat again. How can they convince you of this? Would they be willing to sign over their car to you if they do cheat? If so, I'd trust them, if not, get a new partner.

Did this person do something to lose your trust? If not, the problem is yours.


nebula
Absolutely. Love knows no reason nor logic. I really love someone who is bad for me. If I made a list of all the things I don't want in a partner, he would be at least 75% of those things, and yet I really do love him. Sometimes you have to make yourself listen to your brain and ignore your heart, to do what's best for yourself.


!!!:D
If there is no trust, there is no relationship. You can be in love, but a relationship would never work out. Try hanging out with this person more than you already do. Get to see why they are untrustable and see if you can get past it. If not, find another person that you can trust.


Marie
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no you cant! if i didnt trust my partner i wouldnt be in love with him i would just think i was as been in love is based on trust and if theres no trust theres no happiness and been in love brings happiness if you get what im trying 2 get at :D
but thats just my opnion


sharon
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no, it's very hard to. even if you do feel "love"...it' most likely just an attachment or you having a slight hope and see potential in trusting the person again.


ChoPs
thats not love... thats denial!

if you can trust that person just a lil bit then you can say love but if you can't then you just think your in love cuz your afraid to be alone'


Barb S
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You bet you can. But love isn't enough. You have to have trust or you have nothing.


Happy to be me
Yea....................but that won't strengthen your relationship. You should fall in love with someone you trust, your relationship would be stronger and longer! But you can always work out that relationship. But it won't turn out the best.


u wish ur bf was hot like me
no cuz love is trust , honest and lust


cow_jamella
You can love someone you hate, as well as love someone you don't trust. The question isn't always can you still love them, the question is can you ever learn to trust them?


JEM
I guess you could, but I try my BEST not to let myself...if that's at all possible.


~Brittles~
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I think so, it at least gives you hope that you love them enough to work on the trust issues. I think all couples have them at some point or another and the ones who make it through are the ones that are truley in love.


Mean Carleen
Sure you can but you have to put in sooo much time watching and checking up on them. It takes tooo much work actually and thats why some folk will dump someone they can not trust.


Jackie
Of course.


babygal x
Well you can but whats the point ... trust is the most important thing in a relationship if you dont have trust then what do you have?... Most relationships are built on the foundation of trust it wont last very long if you cant trust one another.

x


a girl =]
yes its very hard to deal with it but you can...
i try not to but just something about that person makes you want them more..


I think I need a shower
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yes.
i don't fully trust my wife
but I fullly love her
with an extra L
fullllly


Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥
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NO!! B/c you will don't deserve that, if you are always wondering!!


ALM
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if you can't live without them. to me, personally, trust is really important in a relationship. It's the basis of a relationship.

but it all depends of your definition of love.


Firefighters Wife
It might be possible, but not w/ this girl!


Cj
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no u cant

can u help me out http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoIcgajKzHHWoeKIy2X6hdDsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080324025156AAdczXJ


Tamiri
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You can be in love with them, but you can't be with them. I'm in the same situation.


C_DOGG
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Yes, just keep your radar on all the time!







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