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Can you help : My mistress is starting to like my son?

My mistress and I have been secretly seeing each other for a good while now. I've brought my young son on numerous occasions. While my wife has been out of town, she helped me babysit him sometimes.

The mistress is starting to develop strong feelings for my son and this might complicate things a little bit.

She also started asking me if I'm just testing her parenting ability. I'm not sure what to do next.

Should I stop letting her see my son altogether?







krista a
What are you going to when you have him and he starts talking, and does your wife know about your mistress? Well kids talk and the wife will find out soon.....Then what you going too do?


Tracy E
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You should have never let her be around your son in the first place.. What is your wife lacking that your mistress has? How would you feel if your wife took your son to her lovers house.. if your going to cheat do this on your time not your sons.. This may also affect your son depending on his age.


Shlane
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I love hearing people say "you dont know my situation"...tell me this if you're having probs with your wife, how is ******* around going to help you? Yea sure i wont judge you...of course not!


MICHAEL
Well, unless you plan on terminating your marriage at present, I don't think you should continue spending any time with this mistress. Eventually, you will likely discover in the not-so-distant future that the decisions as to what to do are no longer in your hands. Plus, when your young son does a bit more in terms of talking, he may (inadvertently perhaps, but nevertheless) "spill the beans". GET IT?


Loving Life Now
this is child abuse, crazy ***


4real
I think u need to stop seeing her and taking ur son over there u r not teaching ur son anything good only what kinda scum of a father he has. I hope he doesn't follow in ur shoes that would be a waste. I hope ur wife finds out so that she dumps u for a faithful man. And see if u like ur soon to b x-wife with another man when she finds out about ur affair and taking her son over there.


Pastor Loyd
Judgment indicates condemnation.

I can't condemn you, but I can tell you what you probably already know... what you're doing is wrong! Not just for your wife, but your son (even at just age two).

Since you don't want US judging you, why not just ask your wife's advice?


chefddr
You take your son with you when you go to spend time with your Mistress????? She is a sick woman if she is develop strong feelings for your son, and you as his father should make it clear that the relationship needs to end now! Little kids know how to talk, and unless you want to loose your wife and child, dump the other woman and do what is right! You will loose everything if you think you can play both sides against each other and not get burned!


conservativegirl
You are such a sadistic loser


Love Blows
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yeah if the kid can talk he's probally gonna go along the lines of daddy an the babysitter......your a idiot an i hope your wife finds out you worthless scum >:l


Aundine
I hope your little boy says her name.

If this is real, I hope you realize soon that you are causing alot of mental damage to your child.


Red6
Okay, I know this is going to sound like a very odd question, but I know that it's socially okay in some parts of the world to have a mistress; but are you French? I repeat, this isn't an insult, I know it is accepted some places in France. And just how old is your son?


Carlie
Are you kidding me? Not only are you cheating on your wife but you are now including your son. First off, you shouldn't be cheating on your wife. Secondly, your son should be no where near her. Well obviously, if you continue to have this relationship your son should NEVER be anywhere near this women. You are seriously playing with fire. It's only a matter of time before you get caught! You need to start using your head on your shoulders and not the one between your legs!


Nancy M
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You need to stop seeing the other woman. Your son could end up telling his mother what is going on if he is old enough to talk. You and your son need to stop seeing the woman.


DelK
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And do you play other forms of Russian roulette?


soldoutone
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I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume this is a JOKE post.

Otherwise you would be a douche bag. The lowest scum on the planet. LOWER than low to not only cheat on your wife, but to drag your CHILD into your nasty-assed mess.

YOU should be castrated with a rusty spoon.

But then again, "just kiddiing" right???????? See how many gullible folks will FALL for this right? Bored and wanting to stir UP stuff huh????


bob
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yes let your mum have your son while you play away


cuccosarenotnuggets
No. You're a dirty scumbag. Just no. Kill yourself, you cheating swine.


E=MC2
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How old is the mistress?
How old is the son?
What do you mean by "Strong Feelings?"

She's a mistress; basically nothing more than a piece of A** to you, why are you exposing your "real life" to her?

I mean it would be the same as exposing that part of your life to your wife... Kind of pointless isn't it?

I think it is time for you to watch the movie "Fatal Attraction" that cured me of any desire to have a mistress.


PlainandSimple
You should stop seeing her PERIOD! You can tell what kind of woman she is, she is with a married man, and now she is interested in the married mans son, there is definitely something wrong.


TexasDolly
You sound like a great guy! (That's sarcasm in case you didn't know it!). Not only are you cheating on your wife, but taking your son along when you do it is unforgivable! You expect us folks to support what you are doing?

Stop seeing the mistress and work on your relationship with your wife, stupid!


the demoiselle
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how 'bout you stop cheating altogether?


Tami
Good maybe now you'll get caught for being an idiot.


Jules486
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Kids can talk, and they DO talk. Have fun when he tells your wife!

EDIT: Okay, really not trying to be judgemental here....but a 2 yr old is pretty aware of what is going on, and soon enough he will probably somehow let your wife know that there is another lady he knows that she is not aware of. You might want to break it to her - it will probably hurt a lot less than finding out from her toddler.


Jax
Ha!


buckswin4
This is a joke right? Why do you have a mistress in the first place?


*♥Beauty is pain♥*
You should stop seeing "her" altogether you @sshole.


bankchick
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you are a dirtbag







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