Committed couples sharing Email yes or no ? Females pls.?

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Liz	My finacee and I each have several solo emails, a few joint emails and all the passwords to each. If I want to check his email (which I don't do very often) I can and he can check mine. This way we each know if someone is trying to hide something. We were both burned badly in our last marriage and this is a way o keep the trust.

babygirl21ntx	Sharing emails equals alot of trust, me and my husband have our email together, then he has his email and i have my email... BUT... he knows all my passwords and I know all his.. so I can check his and he can check mine. Which is completely fine with me i have absolutely nothing to hide. Most of the time though, we are in the same room while one of us are checking our email

Tirya	I don't share an email addy with my fiance, only because I get so much email that it would drive him nuts. But we do have passwords to each other's emails, and have used each others' computers to get something from the other's email account that we need.

Nessa :)	I would be willing to share an e-mail address with my significant other, but I'd still keep a personal e-mail address to myself. It's not a question of trust, but rather identity. I use the Internet for a great deal more than just e-mail (games, bills, banking, chatting, Yanswers, Myspace, etc.) All of these things require an e-mail address to register. On the flip side, I know families that use the Internet for very little, and they do share an e-mail address. It works out fine for them. If a guy I was dating questioned my desire to have my own personal e-mail address, I'd see it as a HUGE red flag. I believe in open, honest relationships built on trust (among other things). I don't have anything to hide, but I'm not going to tolerate a man who expects me to prove it to them.

Colleen	my hubby and i don't. i think that it would only work if you guys can trust each other. my mom and dad had different email and, according to my dad, he sent another female "an inappropriate email". mom and dad are divorced and dad is married to that same female. i guess my answer is: it CAN work but be watchful.

Ranjer	My husband and I maintain separate E-mail accounts. Reduces clutter, and we each have things that are ours alone.

sxybrwneyedgrl29	I have several email accounts.. and my husband has the passwords to all my accounts and i have the passwords to all of his accounts, we have nothing to hide from each other....

Keira	definitely NO..we still have to have our own privacy. Eventhough how commited you are you should at least have identity of your own give each other a space. Knowing everything about a partner can make a relationship boring.

bre	No you should not share an email address. I don't care how trusting your relationship is. Everyone is entitled to some privacy. if you were so trusting then you wouldn't even read it apparently there isn't much trust. Is there ?

Rowie	well yes why not? if you have nothing to hide you can share your email.... BUT if ever you have some secrets maybe you can have another email add to share with your partner, so that you will have no problem....

S J	WE DONT SHARE EMAILS BUT WE KNOW EACH OTHERS PASSWORD TO EVERYTHING. WE HAVE A LOT OF TRUST IN EACH OTHER.

Born in New York	My husband and I share. I have nothing to hide. He isn't really into email that much so it is mostly me who uses it but he is welcome to use it anytime. If it is an email from one of my friends, he doesn't open it and vice versa. We respect each other's privacy. We don't even open each other's regular mail. If it has both our names on it, then it is fair game but otherwise we save the mail for the other person to open it. I have been married 10 years and that is the way it has always been.

Bobby .	I do not share my email address. This is not because of lack of trust with my wife, but because it is a small thing of privacy. All people have to have something that is theirs and theirs alone. Kind of like a girls diary, there may not be anything of significance in it but it is still private. I have my email and the top drawer of my dresser that are absolutely my private space. My drawer is not locked, but she does not go into it out of respect. That is what trusting couples are about.

hislady	My husband and I share an email address but we also have separate yahoo accounts. I have mine b/c I belong to several yahoo groups that produce high volume of emails I just didn't want to have to sort through our home emails to get to. But it's also for security reasons; we wanted email addresses that aren't attached to our home so much, more innocuous address to give out in public. You can't be too safe these days.

damnitjanet66	We don't share our email but have each others password so we can check it any time.

chameleonsoup	NO WAY would i do this! Do you read each others text messages? Emails? Post? NO!!! If you share an email address it's because one partner isnt as trusting.

teresa.hereford@sbcglobal.net	I am amrried and my husband will not let me even se his side of the computer. He has a password and I don't know it. He will never give it to me. We have been married 11 years and I trust him. He doesn't look at my e-mails either. Sounds strange I know but it works for us.

ImOuThEreUdigg!!	I would simply because I have nothing to hide. But my girlfriend might not be game for it simply because she thinks I don't trust her. I think that the couple has to come to a mutual agreement. You may think we'll if we share an email maybe there is nothing to hide. But if we don't then my mate could possibly be hiding something.

beccadawn02	I think that they is great for some people but i wouldnt because of the fact sometimes i email friends talking about my boyfriend getting advice or telling them of a surprise ive planned for him and i wouldnt want him to read those.

jdecorse25	They do have a trusting relationship, howeveryou know that they have separate e-mails somewhere else. That's not a trusting issue, it's more of a privacy thing.

Dogzilla	My wife and I share an addy. She can see anything that is sent to me. I like it that way! Any other way, and you're not really a "couple".

gaurdianangelic	hmmm well this could lead to problems, becuae the guy or u will wnat to know what certain things are and lead to alot of arguments so its okay to share one email but it is also okya to have one of your own if that will help

colleyshey	I would share my emails and have my own. Just like a bank account one joint and one separate.

a j	It depends whether you cheat on her or not.

dede	yeah i think so coz mails are too personal, so when you share it together, there must be a big amount of trust