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Could you see yourself married more then once?

I have waited a long time and I just want to be married once but I know things happen in life and this can be unrealistic???because of death, change in life experiences etc...what doyou think?????







robink71668
Well my first marriage was a joke, and I was only married for 5 years, he cheated on me all the time, I am remarried and been married 10 wonderful years and I don't regret it one bit, somethings are just meant to be, whether it be your 1st or 5th, I say don't pass up a chance of a lifetime, but if you only want to do it once, than be picky as H*** about it and know deep in your heart, that this is the first and last.


Happy-2
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I suppose it could be possible for me to marry more thAn once in the event of my wife's death. It sure would not be due to a "change in life experiences," whatever that means. Marriage is about commitment, and if you really understand a person's values, nothing about him is going to change so drastically as to result in divorce, unless he becomes mentally ill or develops an addiction. Find someone for whom marriage means a lifetime commitment.


nikie_atkinson
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I don't think I could remarry I would be too heart broken If anything happened to my husband


preppygrl88@sbcglobal.net
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no


milepost211
I have been married four times.....

1. Wife had an affair, I was out, he was in.

2. Walked away from this one. I did not want to wake up in the middle of the night to find someone above me with a knife.

3. Married someone I should have never been with. She's dead now.

4. Happily married for 6 yrs.

The Rat


Teresa
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When I was younger I could never see myself married to anyone but my husband.We were married for 25 yrs and he left for another woman.We divorced.I am now married to a wonderful man.I pray that this one last till death.If for some reason it doesn't I don't think I will ever get married again.


Jan
Never say never. I was married for almost 23 years. I've been divorced for 3 years, and everyone keeps bugging me about dating! I'm just enjoying being by myself after such a long marriage. I haven't met anyone I even want to go out with, let alone marry. I don't understand these people who do it time after time.
More than one time, maybe, but not likely.
Good for you for waiting for the perfect mate!


Ginny
I have already been married twice and because of that I can't and won't see a third marriage!!!


Mr. Grudge
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Funny you should ask. Two nights ago my wife and I had a talk about what we would do if "something happened" to either of us. I told her that she should marry again and that I wanted her to be happy. She said that she did not want to get married again, and could not see herself on the dating scene. I told her that if I looked down from Heaven (or look up from the other place) and see her all alone and depressed, I was going to come back and haunt her.

She asked me if I would marry again and I said no. Would I be open to a relationship? Sure, but I can't see myself loving someone as much as I love my wife to marry all over again. The answer from me? No. Definitely not.


rhodeislandbornandraised
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hell nlo the first time was a nightmare i will never get married again once was definitely enough


BabeHart
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I've already seen myself married more than once...I'm single now, and although I'd love to have someone to share life with, marriage is not a priority.


"N"saysable 1iric
Absolutely no way in hell. I was married once before for 26 years and now I'm single. I'm involved in a relationship that I would like to see bloom into a life long commitment, but I have stated to him many, many times absolutely no marriage for me ever again. Once was enough!!!!!!!!


★♠RAE in N.Y.♠★
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I have been divorced since for 5 years. I see myself marrying again.


Lilian
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Can't never predict the future. I used to be very afraid of married again, after my first one fall apart at a very young age with one kid. I told myself why get married and then get divorce .But I end up got married again after almost 10 years. Because, my husband now of 3 yrs(6yrs together) convinced me life is too short, should live happy. So, never say never. I hope this is it. But at this age, I am still trying my best work on my marriage if there are any problems, and try not to just give up or careless like when I was young.


i
I don't see myself being married at all. Ah, the joys of single life. LOL


?
I have been married 2 times now, this time for 16 years. Rena, we all want to take our vows seriously, but sometimes things happen that just make that impossible. Had my first marriage not ended, so many of the beautiful people & things in my life that I have experienced just would not have happened. It also opened the door for him to find another relationship, he has been married much longer, I think around 24 years. Sometimes honey, the "rules" just don't apply.


Vegas Mike
Im on my way to #3. The person u divorse is never the same person u married. Sh_t happens. What are you gonna do? Stay and be miserable or move on?


hotmoma_37
I think if this marriage ever ends, regardless of why, I just dont think that I will ever marry again. I would feel like I was cheating if my husband died and I remarried. And if we got a divorce then I just dont see me going through this whole thing again. That and regardless no other man is gonna tell my kids what to do except their father.


Lulu
I can't picture myself married to someone else even if god forbid something happens to my husband.... If he dies (god forbid) then my heart dies w//him and i'm not giving my love to know one else besides him he will have my heart forever. and that's a promise


gone
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No, once married, that would be it forever.


Sid B
Twice so far, and yes I would do it again but then we males are famous for being slow learners.


Manoj D
Hello Rina,
I say a flat NO....because I believe LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT....and if one's LIFE PARTNER, as I would like to term it, is not there, for any reason, the memories and the valued time spent together is enough to carry on....because life never stops. It is important to adjust then revamp, it is easier to refreshen the relationship then renew it and it is more time saving (...there are so many things that one wishes to achieve out of a successful marriage or even lack of it) to sacrifice and forgive then to complain and crib. People say a known enemy is better then an unknown friend...I would like to add here that a friendly enemy who is friendly when at war(for common interests) and against when one goes off track ,even in a friendly way, is much better to have. GOD bless you to make up your mind for the better.....


Dessert♦Queen
i wouldnt want to be married more than once but if the second relationship would be better then i would.


Robert
I'm married now, but if I got divorced I would never remarry.


c09981
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I am married now and definitely do not think that I can do this again, were for any reason (tragedy or divorce), I was not married anymore. Not to say that marriage is too grueling for words, I just think that I did it once and for whatever reason, it ended; so why do it again?


Janst
I all ways thought I would only be married once. I was married 16years you are right about life. You can't make some one love you enough to do the right thing. Anyway that's another long story. I ended up divorced. My family, friends, everyone was shocked. My manager at work told me we were the last couple that she thought would ever divorce. So be realistic. Divorce can happen. Death can happen. But life is all about the choices we make. You may choose to marry once. Marriage is also about working through life and the problems we face in life. It takes two people in the marriage both trying to make it work.


Raashmi
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No way
I'm currently married for 8 years now, and they have been the worst phase of my life. I can't wait to get out.
As far as marriage is concerned, one experience has been more than enough. I don't need a man to complete me.


with4quarters
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Yeah, but not by choice. My ex got messed up on drugs and ran off. I have always been a very dedicated man. it really crushed me.







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