Did I cheat? Honestly?

lellihunter	If you divorce your wife her friend wont want you. its a friend thing and the 14year old Will probably choose her friend over you no offence but its a girlfriend thing. I think if you unhappy with your wife divorce her its unfair keeping her on she could find some one who genuinely loves her and you might be able to find someone who is more of an excitement then your wife and this 14 year old shes a flirt she 14 hormones everywhere. i think you did cheat on your wife and its unfair to her. divorce her and find some one new.

unknown	EWWW gross yes you cheated no doubt about that. Quit frankly I hope your wife finds out and divorces your *** that is just messed up with her best friend of 14 years thats quite messed up literally. dude tell your wife the truth she deserves that much from you at least

You Don't Know Me!	You are right there on the edge...and most would say that was cheating. If you wife did this with your best friend I am positive that you would blow a gasket. I think you need to figure out with 100% certainty if you want to remain in your marriage. If you chose to remain in your marriage you need to do the right thing and talk to her about what happened and deal with the issues the two of you have and work on resolving them. And stay away from other women!! If you don't want to stay with your wife...still you need to stay away from other women!! At least until the divorce is final. Either way, your wife deserves respect. And acting in such away with her friend in your home is really low.

manda	I think you should be a man and tel her what happened. It's not good if you are falling for her friend. Its one thing to leave her for someone you don't know but even worse if you leave her for her friend that just awfull!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!â€¦ Also I think you should really sit down and think about this are you doing the right thing. Just because your wife nags doesn't mean you should leave her!!!!!!! She sounds like she really loves you I mean you said she is always there for you!! I hope things work out for you!!

Patty boy	You messed up like so many others before you, you shouldn't have got married in the first place since it obviously isn't based on love. If you'r just comfortable now, you'll be miserable later in life. Besides, based on what you wrote, your wife probably deserves better, and you need different.

anonomous	Yes you cheated!! and with her best friend what a shitty thing to do to your wife. you should divorce her because she deserves to be with a real man not you.And as for her friend she needs a big smack to her face.and I'm using the term friend very loosely .Shame on the both of you Maybe she wouldn't nag you so much if you would spend some time with her or bought her some flowers or something to make her feel special and pretty.i feel sorry for your wife.looser

mama mac	You sure did cheat! You and her best friend need to quit being so selfish! So what if your wife nags! She probably has to tell you 5 times to pick your socks up from the middle of the floor. That not nagging! Guys like you are such losers! You nave to blame someone else for your infidelity. You are the one in control of your pants!

d-lishes	You cheated. How would you feel if your wife was cuffed to the bed of your best friend? Do your wife a favor and get some therapy to help in your relationship. Shame on you and the so called friend.

"Brittany"	Yes, you cheated!

lipstick2756	you kissed another women that wasn't your wife and that makes you a cheater. I know it seemed harmless to you but if your wife knew what was going on it would destroy her. I have a strong opinion about this because my husband was cheated on by his first wife with his best friend and it took years for him to learn to fall in love again so you could really ruin her and her future relationships and that's not fair to her. You need to tell her how you've been feeling and see if there is anything you can do. If nothing than she has the right to deside if she wants to stay in this loveless marriage or move on ..you owe her that at least. You only get one life ..let her live to the max!!

Wheedle Wop	If your wife is okay with you kissing other women, then you didn't cheat. But if you and her have agreed that kissing is cheating, then you did cheat. I would assume that most people would consider that to be a form of cheating, especially since it was with her friend. If my girlfriend did something like that to me, I would definitely think of it as cheating, as would most people. As for the nagging, that is a separate problem and you should tell her to stop nagging so much because it's hurting the relationship very badly and pushing you away.

Mom to Haley Marie	Your a @ss and her friend is a b*tch. That was cheating. How would you like it if your wife was doing that behind your back? Oh and maybe your wife wouldn't be a nag if you cuffed her to the bed. I hope you guys didn't reproduce.

alpla	Cheating in your mind is almost the same. You're dreaming of another relationship that will not work IMO.

S F	creep!

.......	you should consider couples counciling or talking to your wife about your problem......about not being in to her. let her know how your feeling so maybe yall can work through it but if you really have no other option then do what your heart feels.

^__^	OMFG u are dead man, just tell your wife the truth, this way you can have fun and not feel guilty. good luck

Samir	Dude leave your wife, she doesnt deserve something like you. Have fun with your play thing, she's gonna leave you to

WastingTime	Yeah, you cheated.

Robin	Wow, your question disgusts me. Of course you cheated on your wife. I hope she leaves you and finds someone who will treat her right and not cheat on her with a friend. You should be ashamed of yourself!

Fukengruven_22	you cheated

ELLE	Deal with it immature man.

joseph s	you need to get a divorce beause that is cheating

ndnqt1966	I am sorry...but you are a moron...