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Do OLDER men/black men prefer PLUMP girls? [[pics]]?
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Do OLDER men/black men prefer PLUMP girls? [[pics]]?

I'm 19 and constantly get hit on by men in their 30's or 40's. Most of them are black.

Every now and then I get hit on by a guy my age (also black)



Do older guys prefer plump girls? If I lose weight (20 to 30 pounds) will more young guys of different races be attracted?

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Baby Got Back
I think your pretty... deffinetly dont loose weight... YOUR NOT PLUMP!


Person
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omg you are so pretty! ur curves r 2 die 4, and u rn't that plump.


Princess Betty
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Why did you post this???!!!!! Read this question again to yourself...


♥Miranda♥
It seems like it to me.


Debra V
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They like every kind of girl


alishalynn
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NO!
I dont know about your hair in the last picture...thats a little different...

but you are beautiful.
:)


Tayâ„¢
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Yes they do we.. some...my brother hes 19 and black he likes bigger women beacuse they he takes advantage of them.(not a good thing).. and he said they cook for him and stuff


rabboleth
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You had me sold after just the first picture. Got the hotness coming AND going.

^_^


Ozzy Osbourne
Stop eating at Mcdonalds, and you'll likely lose 20-30 pounds.


The Casual Poster
All men have different taste but the bro's tend to like bigger women! Who cares anyway? Do what YOU like!


Hendrix
Its not about colour or age, more personal preference.
Get a life and stop shoving ur picture about eh?


Lola
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Baby got back!!!
Sweety you look great!
If the young ones arent attracted to u, look what they're missing out on!
You cant help being beautiful.


junkman
Sorry honey, us middle aged white guys like curvy girls(women)


lalala.
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Don't change for a guy,
especially since they all like different types of girls.


Kelly L
You DEFINITELY do not need to lose weight. :) it is people's preference i guess but i wouldn't call you plump, just curvy!


Mel
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You're not plump at all. And if you don't want guys hitting on you, you could start by not posting your pics on the internet.


fleshtone
A man's income has an inverse relationship with the body weight of the girls he is attracted to.


dessert for your soul
congrats on posting pictures of yourself to millions of strangers and pedophiles...good work, now as for your pictures...you need alot of work, not just the weight girl


H
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Not sure about the actual question but don't lose weight! You're bootylicious and I do believe that is very attractive to men, they like a small waist and a large bottom!


Hat-A-Tat-Tat
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no they don't & whoever that is in the photo...they are overweight & they have have quite alot of cellulite in thighs & legs......that's not good for a young person...not sure what you want to hear other than that.


MAKING IT WORK!
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Girl, you are very pretty and if I were you I would love me for me and not worry about what other people think about you. You don't need to lose weight!!! I think you just wanted people to tell you so!


Lily_1981
I like your smile. and be honest with you, you look very friendly and nice, Not like lots black girls I know. I think if you lose 8 - 10lbs, you'd look awesome. I can care less about the thumbs downs, I am only giving you my honest opinion


GummieBear
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WEll MAYbE itS bECAUSE YOU lOOk OldER thAN 19...YOUR StYlE iS fiRE! ANd YOU dRESS MORE likE YOU'RE 24 OR 25....thAtS PRObAblY WhY OldER MEN hit ON YOU....(NOW thE 40 YEAR OldS...thEY ARE jUS PERVS WhO hAS NOthiN bEttER ElSE tO dO)

NOW thE blACk PARt.....WEll thEY jUS lUV WOMEN With CURVES...thAtS hOW OUR RACES ROllS....lOl...bUt YOU jUS GOttA lEARN thAt.


SO thE NEXt tiME thEY hit ON YOU ANd thEY SEEM tOO Old...JUS ROll YOUR EYES ANd WAlk AWAY...thAtS it


-hOPE MY AdViCE hElPS!
=]


♫♪~♥ ME ♥~♪♫
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You don't look "plump" to me... you look normal.

And just a thought, maybe black men are hitting on you because you yourself are black. Can't help with the age thing, but maybe your just in the area where there are older guys? Try going to a club or something where younger people hang out...


nite_angelica
I wouldn't consider you plump - you have curves, but don't look heavy at all. I don't think you need to lose weight.

Although you are acting goofy in your pics, you look older than 19. If you normally act more mature, then perhaps men jus think you are older than you are?


BK Daddy
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Short answer - yes. Being prettier will allow you to be used as a status symbol to show off to a young man's friends. At the same time, some older guys who might want a younger girl see plump girls as an easier target because the thinner girls get more attention.

Maybe its a matter of where you hang out. "Can't find cotton wevils in the cornfield" as my poppa would say.


joseph c
Facts are simple. You are a very attractive young woman. The older men are just more fearless to apporch you to talk in the manner then a young man would. A young man would be shy, and would probly think someone like you was out of their league anyway. A older man just dosn't care if he is rejected, couse he has been rejected enough he isn't afraid to be told no,


Madame Zzz
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I would never, ever describe you as being plump based on those pictures!

Honestly, I always had the same issue - old guys hitting on me (from any race). I think it has to do with your level of kindness. If you are open to smiling at them, starting a conversation, etc., they mark you as a target. If you want them to stop hitting on you, you have to be prepared to toughen up and be a bit rude. Notice how other girls act toward these men - they don't give them the time of day! It will feel awkward and bad at first, but it's the only way I ever found to get them to stop. They're the kind of people who see an opening and jump through it.

I'm not 100% certain this is the answer to your problem, but just going by the fun, sweet, open, innocent looking pictures you posted, I'm guessing that's it. You're just too nice to them.







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