Do you get hot and bothered about Valentine's day with your spouse?

Belinda	over rated

eternallygrateful	if i am hot its usually cause he cant be bothered

L'amour propre	We dont normally do anything much, dining out on overpriced food in a packed restaurant isnt exactly romantic. Besides my husbands birthday falls the following day. This year it will be exchanging cards purely for the children's benefit as that's where our marriage stands at the moment. Hopefully things will have settled down a bit for you by then.

T Ball Babe	My husband goes all out on V day he gets the B E (brown eye) every year.

Q & A king, 2 many VN's	Wow, husband is in a mental hospital and you are spending your day and Yahoo Answers. You are something else. My wife would be spending her time talking to family, the hospital, the VA, a counselor, crying.... But I'm quite sure this isn't how she would be spending her day.

NONAME	We don't make too big a deal out of it. Last year we bought each other gifts and went out to dinner. But it was our first Vday together. This year I think we'll just go out to dinner and come home for some "alone time". Give your husband a card, Rachel. It might mean a lot to him. Add - I think Rachel has some haters following her around. Who would give all the TD's to people giving nice answers to a nice question?

Steve	Valentine's Day is totally for the female. If my wife didn't care, I wouldn't pay it any more attention than I do Arbor Day or Groundhog Day.

Tanya	We are going to VEGAS baby! I can't wait!

ShaNayNay	wow. we are so lame. we usually work on vday. don't do anything special... we gotta kid, ya know? all these holidays will break your pockets!!!

Pink, it's my new Obsession	No, it's not a huge deal. My birthday is just a couple days before Valentine's Day so that's more of an occasion. My husband buys me some awful chocolates and flowers and a card, I don't get him anything for Valentine's Day because he gets March 14th, which is national Steak and BJ day.

HelenS	First we get the kids to Grandma's house. We do the cards thing, and we cook together. We usually buy a new toy for ourselves and spend the afternoon trying it out. It's great fun.

Tino {9} Reborn	We don't make it a big extravagant event. Usually it's a card, dinner and lovins. This year I actually went all out(she deploys in May for 12 months so I kind of want to make it a little nicer this year?.

ssanchez always one up :)	I bought some v day champaign glasses and plan to have a picnic in front of the T.V. ( Sushi ) and watch a movie.

raaaawr	actually this year we arent even going to see each other in V-day i'm going to shreveport w/ a girlfriend we don't make a huge fuss over gifts and a date... however we do always buy each other a card if nothing else

AnswerDude	Only if I am lucky will my wife get hot and bothered! Of course I will take her out to dinner and bring home flowers!

VCL	We usually plan to eat dinner out, but we try to go early to avoid the crowds. We have a bottle of something (champagne or wine) in the fridge at home to toast to "love". Just mostly try to spend some time together reflecting on our relationship. (He proposed to me on Valentine's Day 2008). We also exchange cards, but not any expensive gifts. This year I have a couple of romantic CD's to give to "us" since we've started listening to music in the bedroom.

Pugilist	Valentine's Day is a contrived holiday where people who have ignored each other all year pretend they make it all up on one day. Folks who are in a healthy relationship already do everything they need to do during the year which includes random compliments, gifts, etc. Anyone making a big deal about their partner's behaviour on Valentine's Day is shouting "YOU DON'T LOVE ME ENOUGH!" and is rampantly insecure and destined for unhappiness.

Ferdinand	I live in Ukraine and only school kids are bothered about Valentine's day here.

Jim #1	Why don't you spend it with your husband in the mental hospital, they do allow visitors don't they. I'm getting my wife a facial this year.

Bert	Not really. We usually get a baby sitter, have dinner together (either home-made or at a restaurant), drink wine, have a bath together and do it... Dinner with yoru parents? I'm sure they'll LOVE that...nothing like a third wheel ruining the mood on v-day.

studmuffin!!!!	DO NOT CRASH YOUR PARENTS V-DAY, WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT? YOU CAN DO SOMETHING LIKE DINNER, A MOVIE, IT DOES NOT HAVE TO BE A HUGE THING..BUT I REPEAT, DO NOT CRASH YOUR PARENTS V-DY!!!

Canadian Beaver	It's a big day to us bc it's my daughters birthday *(lucky girl and poor guy one day)so we devote the day to her. At the end of the night we'll have a bottle of white and something small to eat and take a moment for us but with kids and especially one with a b-day it's not a big deal, never was even before her birth.

Backhoe	she will get flowers and we will F

Katie M	It's just another day for us. We have date night every Friday night so going out isn't a big deal to us. I'd rather not deal with the crowds and stay home with him, a good movie and a nice warm fire in the fireplace.

MAIL BOX	Not any more as I'm happily divorced!

Iggy	Dreading it if you want to know the truth.

Rita& Chris Seaton	Another day to spend money!

Hercules Rockerfeller	Actually I get all hot & bothered when I sink my teeth into a juicy flame-broiled whopper. You know, most people chose Burger King's whopper over the Big Mac.

Pebbles	Huh?