Do you go after a married man who shows interest in you??

Kabu	NO

bibus73	You answered your question, so stick with your decision.

Bethie	There are just certain places you shouldn't go..running to a man who already has a commitment is one of them. If he does this to his wife and you get into a relationship with him...how is he going to treat you????

Lake Lover	No!!!! No!!!! No!!!! It's not fair to anyone and will end in heartbreak anyway, bc of the lack of honor of either side of the relationship. Absolutely not.

statenislanddreamer	Wait until the marriage is over

gozedown	You're a homewrecker for even considering it. And a man will say anything to get into a womans pants. Why don't you ask his wife and kids what they think !!!!!!

sunshine	no, not worth it, heartache will be yours. what are the chances of it ever becoming more than a fling. Get someone who is available.

Lotus	No, don't compromise yourself like that! What's in it for you? A man who will be your part-time lover? No thanks. I want to be first in my man's heart.

dhansen815	No - it will affect more than one person. I've been on the hurt side of this type of situation and believe me ... so do unto others.... if the marriage is so bad let him get through that first.

.Vibrant1.	Ok, nobody here has the magical answer for you. YOU KNOW the difference between right and wrong (I hope.) and so the right thing for you to do would be to stay the hell away from this guy. Why would you want to bring all this trouble upon yourself, isn't life hard enough without adding unneeded stress and worry to it? Here's the obvious. A.) There are TONS and TONS and TONS of single men out there, why must you be interested in one that already has a family? B.) If he cheats with his wife with you, chances are (In MOST cases, not ALL.) that he would do the same to you. C.) Do you really want to be a home wrecker? He has children for pete's sake. D.)You may get your a$$ kicked by an unhappy wife that finds out about you. Better take some karate/self defense classes, A.S.A.P. if you want to pursue this.

LaoSy	NO don't ever do it, hello!!!! he's married and that mean he's already taking just in case if you didn't know it. He's probably telling you all his problem with his wife because he wants to get into your pant and beside you don't want to get involve with someone who might as well do the same thing to you, now won't he???

Carey L	He is married, so no matter how you look at it or what he is telling you the answer is NOOOOOOO! You are better than that, destroying a family is below you (right?). I would stay away from him, and this situation.

The Infamous Vinnie G	You'd probably be better off finding a guy who's SINGLE. Unless you want to be the "other woman".

knowsbetter	Listen.... If he is truly interested in you then you can't help that. He needs to make things at home either better or he needs to get out. If you are interested in him then you will wait for him to become available. But DO NOT do anything until then. If yo do then no matter WHAT, you will be perceived as the OTHER WOMAN. So just wait.

Sassy OLD Broad	Honey, why do you want the married guy when you know he's not going to leave his wife for you and he only wants to get in your pants? geeze...have some respect for yourself and his wife and family. Godloveya.

L.E.17	no you should leave him alone because but your self in his wife's position and think about what the children would think if they found out. and if you'll did get serous would he cheat on you.

Douglas D	No I don't recommend it. His marriage is in danger because he's got you considering becoming his mistress. You don't want to be a part of his wrecked marriage, & the resulting scuttlebutt at work do you?

abeauty1102	Don't do it. And you might not be the only one he shows interests in.

snack_daddy10	Some people move from one relationship to another before the first is over. Others just get their toes wet, but never leave. If he's the first kind he may do that with you too. If he's the second kind he will just use you. The fairest thing is for him to separate, divorce, find himself and then date.

?	no, he's married, if he gets divorced go for it

Eyes of Green	no! have some respect for his family and yourself

crazzzy	If you want to be the blame for ruining another persons marriange, even though he said the marriage was in danger.

Violet Pearl	not unless you find lying, cheating men who screw over their wives attractive. His marriage is none of your business. Just because he has no morals or character doesn't mean you don't. In fact, I'd be damn insulted if a married man showed interest in me: does he think I'm a ho-bag who messes around with married men? Does he think a lying cheater is all I'm worth?? NOT a compliment!

ranger_girl	NO do not do it! If he is still interested tell him to come back when he gets a divorce.

flyygirlvirgo	dont do it causes too much problems in the end let him work out his home life b-4 u get envolved

joy	uuumm no, not unless u want the kids to hate u for breaking their father away from the picture.

BORED AT WORK	Yes, Go for it. (quickly)