Do you think he ever loved me?

I found out during the four months we were together he has been lying about seeing his ex girlfriend... i also found out that he has been sleeping with her at the same time.

he was with her for two years, and then got together with me seven months later - and he has always been "intimidated" by me. He really played the game well.... telling me he loves me, how he has never met anyone like me... how he wanted to marry me, how I am perfect for him....

and now that all is said and done i find he has been lying to her, too.. she has no clue i was even dating him for four months... he has told her he loves her so much, and from what I hear, she is spineless... has no backbone... and is crazy about him.

me? I walked.

so.... Can a lying cheat be capable of loving anyone? He doesnt love me, or else he wouldnt be sleeping with her... and he doesnt love her because he was "with" me.

What goes on in a cheaters head? In his warped mind, do you think he ever loved me at all?

Happy-2	In my experience, cheating has more to do with the character, morality, and emotional maturity of the person doing the cheating than it has to do with love. If a person with poor character and low morals who is emotionally immature can be said to love someone, then I am sure he did love you.

D&R	I dont see how you could cheat on someone you love

bubbly	wow!!! well the same thing happen to me to it's FINE all men are diff. just be carefull dont fall for it be who u are and be proud dont let him think he gets wat he wants leave HIM its for the good.. just love yourself!!!

Britt (:	i'm sure he loved you, maybe he was just really confused.

Allison	i dont think he did..hate to break it to you...just move one...lol. hope everything will turn out right for you!!!

alli.cutie123	im sorry that that happened to you. you deserve some 1 better than that. one day some one will play him like he played you.

k. renee.	It was probably best to walk on this one. It's hard to say if he ever loved you, as I don't know him. If he did love you, I don't think that it would have been the true love that you deserve from someone though. Maybe he was just confused about what he wanted. You should find someone true.

dedrater	Cheaters only think of themselves. They want to "have their cake and eat it too".

CoOkI3	im srry but it sounds like hee never did luv u

sallllyyyyyy	You know to be honestly, you can't really force a guy to love you literally. He'll do what he feels like, and hun you're just too precious to be dealing with this and his lame sweet talk. There are so many fishy out there waiting to get picked, you shouldn't waste your time on this one. And maybe you can test if you guys are meant to be, for example let him go and see if he comes back to you, if he doesn't then hey HIS LOSS! if hes sleeping and cheating on you with another person that is like a hell no. sorry hun but truth hurts.

LilSunbeam	Nope

Allyson N	no not at all he proably just wanted 2 show off but if he slept wit her omg thats so wrong just let it go

Heidi62	NO there was no love on his part. Total d*ck.

jane j	now that's something I'd like to know! it always boggles my mind how they can be SO convincing even though they really dont give a damn

â™¥Pure Evilâ™¥	Yes they can be capable of loving someone...THEIR SELF! No, he never loved u and he never loved her cuz if he did he wouldn't have hurt u!

Jane Marple	You should not care about what could be in the mind of a twit like this. No he never loved you and never will. He will probably never be able to love someone the way love is meant to be. I'm sorry you had to go through this, be glad you found out after 4 months.....I found out about my ex double-life after 4 years.

cdm	No, forget about him you just wasted enough time with his sorry A$$ don't waste anymore typing on here about him...

WhyNotMe	It sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. First, you need to think about what YOU want. If this is a guy you want to be with and him alone, he has to offer you the same things you are offering him.

fiveamrunner	No... he didn't... have a beer

conartist101	Yes, he did. But I think that he and she realized that they had been stupid and broke up over nothing so I think that he didn't want to hurt you so he didn't tell you...he was stuck...I'm a guy I should know the situation...kinda..never happened to me but I still know...anyway he did and still somewhat does love you...talk to him..let him talk to you...get some connection and make sure you understand each other and the other's situation. I have a gf, I would never hurt her in any way intentionally. : ) no guy would.

E Marie	I think men who cheat are capable of loving a person or two or more...but only capable of being in love with themselves.

JMC<3	Boys do that a lot. But not all boys. they think they need more gain to get more fame. He probably did love you and her he just didnt know which one to chose you or her.

kdvg2000	I do not want you to be hurt but most likely he only loves himself. You will find a good one for you, I think that for your own health you made a good decision by walking away. You deserve better.

CalliMarie	he doesnt know what love is.

lonewolf	Dear he may have loved you but was never in love with you ! Get out now before he delivers an S.T.D. to you !

Jules	No, he never loved either of you, but at least you were smart enough to leave him. He won't change.

J	No he can't love you if he is seeing his ex so just forget him and move on and maybe he will see what a big mistake he made and then he will never do it to anyone else agian.

sandra b	Nope! Nada! Sounds like he is not capable of loving anyone but himself and his tiny little private parts!

papabear098	Why should he love anyone of you if you are going to bed with him and no he never did