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Do you think its called even when?

A spouse or significant other cheated on you once that you get to cheat on them once?







jemmamomma
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This is what's wrong with so much of society today. Just move on and find someone who will be faithful.


Just curious
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2 wrongs don't make it right!


mrs_care_graham
no that is silly two wrongs never never make a right


mingcrew
no, cheating is never right


LadyMady
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Eye fr and eye kinda thing? If he jumped off a bridge would you follow?


Its A Daily Thing
No now you are both guilty....

Two Wrongs Dont Make a Right!!!


Benji's Mommy
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Ever heard the phrase 2 wrongs don't make a right?

Cheating by both sides isn't called "getting even". It is still called infidelity. It is called untrusting & uncommited relationship. It's called a doomed "hurtful" relationship.


KingAndrew
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I think if it makes you feel better about yourself then yes. If your doing it just for revenge, then no.
I was married sixteen years to a cheater, I never cheated on her or our marriage, did our marriage survive, no. I was able to hold my head proud and felt good that I never lowered myself to her standards. Good luck with whatever choice you make.


poodle mom
nope, an eye for an eye makes the world blind!

cheaters just need to be dumped...for good.


airforce wife
no it's called stupid and immaturity. if you think cheating on your spouse, because they cheated on you, is going to make everything better, than you got another thing coming.


*USMCwife*
No. Its not a game. It should not be about revenge. That's just playing dirty-literally and an excuse to sleep with someone else.


Thalia T
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grow up! what r u doing playing games..


curly
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no, don't cheat. It's wrong and hurtful and it will make you feel guilty regardless of what your spouse did to you!


K P
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two wrongs do not make a right. Why compromise your morals for someone who has none?


J_Jammer
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Normally two wrongs don't make a right and this is not one of those times where that would be any different.

You cannot get mad at them for cheating on you and then go and cheat on them...it makes no sense. It means that the relationship is just as much trash to you as it was for them when they decided to cheat.

You don't justify anything when you cheat on a cheater. You just turned into them---apparently someone who did something you don't agree with. It's like saying if a man murdered your mother that if you murdered his mother that your murdering would be justifiable. It wouldn't be.

Best way to handle a cheater is to guilt them for doing their wrong by being the best person you can be who does not stoop to their level.

Hope that helped.


notagain49
No you get a divorce or in the case of boyfriend/girlfriend you move on and find someone else.


Jellybean had her little bean
No, not even it's actually quite odd!


♥ ♥HONESTY RULES♥♥
Two wrongs don't make a right.


~*lovely one*~
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i don't think I'd get even. I'd just leave. If my husband did that to me, I'd leave and get on with my life. I wouldn't be able to trust him again. And a realtionship without trust will not work out.


michael g
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no its not you shouldnt stoop to that level cause then it will go back and forth and that is not healthy for the relationship but in the end its all up to what you think but two wrongs dont make a right and good luck


me...
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That is up to you if you feel you want to get back at them then cheat it is all up to the person who got cheated on! They are the only one that know what they went though not us to judge someone when we have no idea what they have been going though!


Kenzie
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NO! Don't do what they did! That`s not even.


delicaterose713
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No ...because then you carry the guilt for the rest of your life. It's not worth it to do such a terrible thing to yourself. It's disrespecting yourself....i did it and will regret it forever!


True
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I would never open my legs to some random person just to get revenge.

I respect myself more than that.


mom2anutball
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No, if they cheated on you why would you stay? Espically if your thinking about cheating on them to get even? It's not highschool, its life. You guys dont love each other like you should if your thinking about cheating.


2Westies
That's not a good plan. Two wrongs don't make a right.,


A W
No, I call it childish and stupid. Why lower yourself to the level of the cheating spouse? Be the better person and NOT cheat.


Qyllix
nope, two negatives dont make a positive.


Queen of Beer
Not really.....I think you get even by leaving them.







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