Do you think thats it's okay for a married man to look at other women ...?

My Evil Twin	It ain't easy to keep our eyes under control, but we try. Don't hate us for peeking, it's in our nature ... sorta like breathing ... or leaving the toilet seat up at 2 a.m. You can look, too. It's okay. Really. Just don't touch. Or drool.

petsrus2002	If he must...then he should be discrete or at least not complain when you casually check out a good looking guy...fair is fair.. as long as neither of you make it an issue or cheat on eachother.. you're only being human

rkrell	Nope, it isn't ok. Sure, he is going to notice other women but if he loves you and respects you his attention will immediately refocus on you. When I'm with my wife I make sure I never stare at other women and keep my attention focused on her.

FlyGirl Kori	Come on. For his whole life he's been looking at pretty girls and you think just because he gets married he's supposed to have blinders on? No matter how gorgeous you are and how much he loves you, that doesn't mean all the other girls in the world become ugly. It doesn't take anything away from his love for you if someone else is also pretty. If you saw a really gorgeous guy, and you thought he was cute, would that mean that you don't love your husband? Of course not. Brad Pitt is hot, but so is Johnny Depp, Orlando Bloom, Matt McCaugnehy, etc. Lots of men are good looking, and lots of women too. Do these men become ugly to you just because you're married? Would you not look at them if they walked by? Stop getting offended and causing him to be defensive. You can choose to have a great marriage or you can poison it by being jealous.

SallyBeans	I truly think that the more you let them know that it bothers you, the more they will look at other women. Nobody likes to be controlled. Just adjust your attitude and act like it doesn't bother you. Trust me. My husband rarely looks at anyone for this very reason. BUT, I do think a glance is perfectly normal. I do it. Don't you?

Kitty	It's ok to look, but it's not ok to be obvious about it.

Right Wing Extremist	Yeah he is just looking, if it goes past that then there is a problem

bolandalbaby@verizon.net	definately a no no

mymymissmai	it's a natural instinct for a guy to look at another woman. it's just part of nature that we can't seem to prevent them to stop! looking is ok, but anything else is a no no!

ssgtusmc3013	never while they are with you. i have found that even when i am alone, a still look, but it is completely different. i just think what a nice looking lady now, where as before , you wouldn't believe how hard i would look. but i was single then. things change or should , when you find the one, which i am happy to say i found 8 years ago.

george_sill	sure if he doesnt act on it. you dont know how good soming you have is untill you compare it to something else!!!

knwlzrtsh	this is not good and i want to say all these men...SHAME ON YOU

troyboy	All men do it... your man, your father, your grandfather. Men do this instinctual and have no way to stop it. The only guys that "don't do it" are just better at hiding it. Period! It is the insecure women of the world that this issue destroys when they destroy their relationships over simple human nature.

misydoll	No, it is not ok. I think he should only pay attention to you. I think it is very rude how they do that.

daizy43	This is perfectly normal. Men look at women and women look a men all the time. There is nothing wrong with this. Looking is one thing but touching is another. I have no problem with my man looking at other women. I'm confident enough with myself to know that he is just going to look. I would rather have him looking at women than at men

B C	Why complain, if he gets an "appetite" elsewhere - as long as he "eats" at home, what's the big deal.

walking lady	It is disrespectful and he should be made to realize that it's hurtful to you.

samsam_kl	it's very normal n uncontrollable for men cause they can look to all women and it doesn't mean that they are cheating or... all the people like to look at ones who's beautiful cause the human like the beauty.

skyler	I don't think there is anything wrong with it...if he is going out of his way to look at women that's a different story, or if he is staring and making it totally obvious. But if he's just looking, there is nothing wrong with it at all, it's human nature to look at something that appeals to your eyes. If my man didn't look at other women i'd begin to wonder and think something was wrong. I am completely happy and secure in the relationship...just as you look at other attractive men, you can't fault him for it.

smile4u	I guess that depends on what you mean by looking. If he just happens to glance her way or if his eyes bug out and he is drooling. Some men look but it is rude to ogle when your with your wife or girlfriends. We know men look but don't want to see it.

.	NO NO NOOOO

geni	I think it is ok to look at an attractive woman. As long is that is all he is doing. I look at attractive men and he looks at attractive women. To glance is natural to gawk is rude.

michelle	i think its ok if he looks but if hes with you and does it and he knows it bothers you then he should have a little respect for your feelings. but we all know how men care for our feelings other than thier own!!!! yaaa rightttt

Ayumi 23	HECK NO!!!!! It is TOTALLY disrespectful!!!

blondeqtwitanicebooty	No, I don't think it's right for married men to look at other women I find it to be very disrespectful and I feel if a man is in to flirting and looking at other women he had no right to get married in the first place my husband and I have been married for 4 years and we respect and love each other very much I don't look at men or flirt with them and he doesn't look at women or flirt I never get thoughts to looking at other men and my husband doesn't think about other women my husband respects me very much he never looks at other women I say if a man can't keep his eyes to himself and keep them on you he wasn't ready to be a husband in the 1st place

fawn	MY HUSBAND KNOWS BETTER. YES THAT IS DISRESPECTFUL. VERY

dudekunle	yes, and its good to look because as long he look he's being open with his own urges and u two can talk about it. rather than him going elsewhere to fulfill whatever fantasies he has

Cobra	The old saying look but dont touch. is true.if l man tells you he never ever looks a another woman, and you believe him,l have some land down in florida for sale.