Does anyone think I am wrong because I don't want my husband to be friends with someone he cheated on me with?

Michelle	nope...he might do it again.."once..always"

lia	no its not wrong because how do you know he wont do it again or she wont try anything i wouldnt trust my bf near someone he cheated on me with but i think you should stick with your answer because it is the right thing he shouldnt tell you that its wrong to say no you have a reason and you should stick with it you need him to understand that you cant trust him with her because of the fact that he had cheated and if he says your wrong then just say i gave you my answer you should have a right to say no he shouldnt tell you your wrong because he is the one who cheated.

Nasacha	If he has cheated on you before with her.....more than likely it will occur again. Don't let it happen!

joseph7_28636	Tell him youll go sleep with a guy for a while then just be friends with him ok? He will probably either get mad or say ok.Then say well let me file for divorce and you can spend all the time you want with her.Now dear, its either me or her take YOUR pick.By the way you are not wrong HE is.

naughty lady	Nope, you are perfectly within your right. He did it once, and the chances he will do it again, with the same person are really high. Hang in there.

Kristal E	plain and simple -- your right he is wrong. if you "allow" him to be "friends" with her he's gonna do it again

Rev. Bobby L. Adams	If my wife cheated on me. And we did not break up, or were still together. I would never allow my wife to be friends with the other man.

Lil Mama	You are not wrong at all....it's amazing that you and your husband worked it out, but that's doesn't mean that the hurt isn't still there. Why should you have to put up with them being friends after their affair? Your husband needs to stop being selfish get keep this woman out of your lives.

mrneighbordude	this will lead to them doing it again...but youll do nothing to stop it.so blame yourself.

~life sucks~	No, you are not wrong for feeling this way. My hubby had an affair, and unfortunately had to continue to work with her for awhile. I forbade him to even LOOK at her, let alone talk to her. YOu need to tell him how it is and THERE IS NO ROOM FOR COMPROMISE ON THIS ONE.....PERIOD!!!!!

clbinmo	You are not wrong, you are wise!

luckygirl	I dont think your wrong at all... It is amazing that you both actually worked it out, but there is no way in the world I would be friends with someone my husband cheated on me with and besides that your husband seems to be selfish in thinking that you should accept that..He isnt even considering your feelings

â™«Angie â™« â™¥	let him talk to her and if anything gose wrong then fight that women duh

lsp	Your right .don't tolerate this

Ade	What you do is, stick your foot so far up his *** and tell him calmly that if he goes anywhere near her, next time you kick from the front. Then, put your divorce lawyer on speed dial and think about the stuff you can buy with his alimony checks.

patricia	if happens once it will happen again so i think you have the right to ask for that you go girl

bboop	I'd say that if he wants to be friends with her so bad, go ahead but you aren't going to stick around and watch. Why in the world is he still in your life after he cheated on you with this woman? Start working on your self esteem and get rid of him. Once a cheat, always a cheat. You don't want to spend your life wondering if he is being faithful to you, do you? If you do, then that is your choice. Don't ask for advice or help if you aren't willing to help yourself.

Linda D	you need to tell him where to go if want to contine being her friend, because eventually he's going to get it agian and again. ask yourselg if that's the kind of relationship that you want? if he wants to continue seeing her then he must really have the hots for her, or she's giving him something that you're not.

sara	no, you are not wrong. there are women that men can be friends with and there are women men can't be friends with. she obviously has no respect for you so he should stay away. period. why put temptation in the way. congrats on forgiving him and getting past this, but don't put yourself or him back in the position for this to happen again. give him the choice, he can be her friend or your husband. that will tell you where you stand. any man that would put another woman before his wife is a jacka**. no woman deserves to be in that position.

Guy	Tell him to f-off. That is total BS. That means he has feelings for her. Give him the riot act.

Brianna's Mommy	Any person that thinks a man and woman can be "just friends" is ignorant. Either the man or woman wants more than just a friendship. That's just how it is. The only way a male and female relationship works is if the guy or girl is gay! You are not wrong at all...I would never want my husband to hang out with someone he cheated on me with! Disclaimer: My husband has never cheated

Saphira	ur husband is an idiot. he hould respect ur concerns.

roseblack860	WHAT???!!! he wants you to be friends with the other woman!?! he's probably still cheating with her divorse him and fast. good luck!!!

Debra N	no I wouldn't want mine to be friends

Bryan M	Your not wrong, because he cheated on you once with this woman, there's that possibility that he could do it again. And if you let him be friends with her would be permission to him to do it again.

Taylor	You are completely right,your husband is lucky to still have you. If my husband cheated on me i would be gone in a second, he needs to choose between you or her if its her, he doesnt just want to be friends with her,he wants what they had before. If he talks to her maybe once a month its different, but if he goes to lunch or parties with her,its too far.you lay down the law...its either your life together or him and her...if he loves you like you think he does hell stay with you and realize that hes lucky to still have you and that if he does what he did ever again...youll be out of his life..hope i helped..

jicarlo h	your right