Don't know what i should do about this situation?

Tina T	Maybe you can communicate with her through email to start with; sometimes writing your feelings are better and gives the receiveing end a chance to read it over slowly and take everything in. Maybe you can address your problems this way to start with and then gradually work up to phone calls and meetings, if things happen to work out for you both. You don't really go into detail about your situation and what happened; you may just have a jealous wife on your hands...again, not sure of the situation, but if you still love her; it's worth the effort of an email at the very least. Good Luck to you.

Andrew S	No, let her come to you; or, better yet, move on. If she truly wanted you back, I doubt she'd wait 6 months to do so. It's possible also that she's checking out your website to dig up dirt for some reason - to present in court, to show to her friends/family, etc. If you two broke up "badly" you're probably better off apart.

â—‹â€¢â—‹â€¢Cassieâ€¢â—‹â€¢â—‹	It very natural to want to check up on someone is doing. I wouldn't take it to mean she wants to get back together with you. You can write her a short e-mail on myspace asking her how she is doing and that your friendtracker shows she is stopping by.

maggiemae26327	it would probably be a bad idea to let her know that you're aware she's checking up on you... and you should be very sure that it's her and not her boyfriend or one of your kids that's logging in from her computer... but, it wouldn't hurt to "bump into her" someday or to outright call her up and tell her you're just concerned about how she's doing and what she's up to. maybe arrange a coffee date or something, to "catch up." you don't say why your marriage broke up or how long you were together, but you invest your heart and your life in someone for such a long time and it can't be easy to just let go completely, like the person doesn't exist anymore. the lines of communication do go both ways-- remember, she hasn't contacted you, but you haven't contacted her either, apparently. maybe she is waiting for you to make the first move. good luck.

ryeeeeit	Maybe you could just to catch up but beware of how you word things if you are finished with the relationship and she is lonely and wanting something she is comfortable with she will take things you say as you still wanting to be with her. If you do contact her....just let it be known you have moved on but just would like to know that she is ok.........good luck

Jacob A	Her visiting your myspace doesn't mean she is interested in getting back with you. It could just mean she is trying to keep tabs on you. It could also mean that she is trying to obtain information which she feels she could use against you. That she hasn't bothered to contact you at all in any manner indicates that she doesn't really desire you. I wouldn't build up false hope that it is otherwise.

shellshell	No. She's just trying to see what you are up to.

floridaman39us	Yes, call her and save the marriage. Keep the marriage bed warm at night.

ashley	I would not contact her. She is probably just looking at the space to see what you are doing and who you are talking to. She will contact you when she's ready. The fact that she has been on your Myspace but has not left any messages or tried to contact you by other means shows that she is not ready to talk. Don't allow her to break your heart again.

cooter726	No, let her contact you and see where that goes.

Laurent L	Go about your own life, she is gone.

anney a	well, you see, if she is visiting you site daily it means she is curios about what is going on in your life... she is either trying to ruin your lovelife and kee track of it or she wants you back. you had a tough break-up, maybe you should give it one more try. if you feel anything close to "it could work again" do not give up if she doesn't

canary	if you still love her give it a chance,go slowly at first to make sure things can get back to normal

bbygrl	Yes if yall still love each other, try to make it work. Marriage is a great gift. Try to keep hold of it as much as possible.

tarie75	If you have moved on its best that you don't contact her, it will probably bring up bad feelings for her. Or she could just be looking on your my space to see what you have been up to, maybe to be a little nosey.

Cassadan	okay, take my answer as you will, but I'm all for love...if she's checking your site EVERYDAY I'd say she still loves you, or she's a little psycho, take your pick. If you still love her, and you're not divorced, you should definently try to contact her, and work things out...if you end up back where you started and things aren't working out...then move on with your life. But maybe all you two needed was a break from each other.

Rachel L	yes, but dont let her know she's busted.

Eric Y	yeah man obviously like she still loves you so you guys sould difinately get together and work things out

mikah_smiles	I'm sure she misses you, too. But I think if she wanted to get in touch with you, she would. She knows where you are. If you want to let her know that you know she's coming to your site, post a little message or something saying, "I know you're there" or something only she would get.

Grandma of 2	What didn't work the first time...will probably not work a second time around either. You can love someone from a distance, but I personally wouldn't take it any further than that. If she hasn't moved on, it is more sad than flattering. You would be happier to make new memories than try to correct things from the past. BUT, that's just my opinion.

Sandy Sandals	Looking for you and checking up on you are two different things. It's worth a shot though...

SunnyMoon	It might be a good idea to contact her to work out unresolved feelings. She is probably just wondering what you're up to.

donovan t	contact her and see if she wants to get back with you or if she is just checking up on you. stalker?

â™¥Rosie45â™¥	YES!!!

BabeHart	Why contact her? If she wanted to, she could easily contact you and if it means enough to her, she will.

BC	I wouldn't. But do whatever you think is right. You know her a lot better than I do (probably).

pek2383	No, that will just spur her on to do it even more .. you should set your site to private if you wish to block her, or just feel bad for her knowing that she is still obsessed ... and quit tracking who looks at your site, it will drive you crazy!! Also stay out of communication .. she will move on eventually!

kelicsoul	why not...

daipm	Yes, you should make every effort to salvage your marriage.

StinkyDec19	yes by all means!!