Girls only. I know this gal that's married and has had marital probrlems...?

alicat	this is a disaster waiting to happen

sunflowergal	she's telling you that when the time is right (her and her hubby is fighting) she wants to get together and have an affair. She's wanting to keep you hanging on when SHE wants you, not as a mutual thing. She's playing you big time. You're really gonna get hurt, emotionally (and physically if the hubby catches you). I'd run.

...	Maybe she actually was tied up and is going to make it up to you by making another lunch date. peace and lurve.

madsmaha1	That she's having marital problems, and wants someone else...do you want her baggage???

867-5309 "Jenny"	She's just boosting your ego, i have a few homely male friends and i do the same i wouldn't sleep with them for a million bucks i just tease them to make them feel good about their self..

jojo	Sounds like she is interested in you but be careful. You don't want to set yourself up to get hurt if she is still married. Just keep being her "co-worker/freind" and wait it out to see where her marriage ends up. It could end and they might work it out, but if you want to prevent your feelings from getting hurt then better to play it safe then sorry. If she doesn't love her husband and is starting to have feelings for you, you will beable to tell and then you can go further into a relationship. It's hard for anyone to leave their comfort zone and a way of life they have been living, but once they realize they can go on with life and it works out without a lot of problems, the transition will fall in place. Until then be patient and get to know if she really loves him or if she fell out of love with him. spending more time with her will tell you.

The Thinker	she may just be flirting, flirting is good for you self esteem, it's a confidence builder you ought to not get any more involved, though, most work places don't approve of employee dating/relationships, especially if one or both are married

Contessa	means that she will make up the "meeting" that she had planned for the 2 of you. depends on where she is with her relationship, maybe she wants more than just a "meeting"

THIC007	Problems in her marriage or not she's still MARRIED!!!!!!!!! Leave it alone. Your probably the one she's thinking about using to get back at the husband find yourself some one single to date unless your looking for DRAMA!

Jenn	Careful....she may be looking for attention she feels she is lacking in the marriage or she may be looking for an out. Either way spells disaster for you. If she is married and unhappy...she needs to find a way to fix it or get out. You don't need that type of drama.

mummyov2bb	It sounds to me that you are possibly wanting more from this relationship and you are therefore reading too much into her emails.I tell my friends ill make it up to them all the time if im unable to do something which i said i would.It doesn't necessarly mean what you are hoping. If you want to continue your friendship i would keep it as that "a friendship"unless she states that she wants more. Just remember that she is married! good luck!

THEMrsMinLa&Momof2	That you're gonna get ur azz kicked if her hubby finds out about it. You shouldn't be messing with a married woman in ANY FORM, especially going to lunch with her, if the husband is not included in this little escapade. You're gonna wind up hurt or she will, not a good situation for either of your hearts. Stay away from the married ones!

s and d e	i think she's tell you she wants to have an affair. BUT, be careful, if she's having marriage problems you don't want to get caught in the middle!

lisawithcats	It could be that it's innocent flirting and she was really just busy. Or that she had second thoughts. Being a married woman myself, I know there are times that we have weak moments. I catch myself doing something like flirting and then I think, What Am I DOING? and stop before it goes too far. On the other hand, if she is interested in a relationship with you, be her friend and let her know you are interested, but give her space. If her relationship with her husband is winding down, she'll need space to decide what she wants to do and she'll need a friend who's not just trying to get her into bed. That is, if that's what you want. If she just wants to cheat, then be careful having a relationship with her. If she will cheat on her husband with you, she will cheat on you with someone else.

~MileyCyrusRocks~	just want to be friends

Lady Tee	That is flirting. Are you interested? This is what you need to ask yourself.

Rockettgirl	Doesn't matter what she's telling you. Cheating in a relationship is not right no matter what. She's having marital problems and that is no excuse to cheat! If she is truly having problems you can be a friend and offer to listen to those problems or suggest marriage counseling. If you were the husband what would you want to happen? If she gets divorced then great, go for it, but anything before or beyond that is just wrong and selfish of you both.

Lovebug123	She's telling you she will have lunch with you another time and she might just pick up the check. She maybe having marital problems, but look at it this way, if she didn't love her husband she wouldn't be still with him, going through all the bs they are going through. Find someone single, you are wasting your time.

*Â¸.â€¢Â´`â™¥ Kinza!*	she might be using u to make her husband jealous. if i were married and having marriage problems. i'd pick a guy to flirt with so my husband notices me more

jehudnall	SOUNDS TO ME THAT SHE JUST NEEDS A MALE FRIEND RIGHT NOW BECAUSE SHE IS CONFUSED ABOUT SOME THINGS.DON'T BLOW A FRIENDSHIP OVER WHAT MAY BE OR MAY NOT BE.JUST BE A GOOD FRIEND AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Here's your change	Don't be reading more into this than casual flirting and friendship. The comment regarding the suit and tie means you clean up nice. The comment about seeing you is that she enjoys your friendship/companionship. The comment that she will make it up to you means she will probably flip the bill for lunch. Unless she states she wants to bump and grind with you, take the flirting with a grain of salt.

wandering	she is saying that she is interested in you as well. But do you really want what comes with being the other man? There will be pain involved I promise you.

Savannah	she could like you or she could just want to get away from her marital problems

Meg	You need to go ahead and put on the breaks until she gets a divorce. She is probably trying to forget about her crappy marriage by avoiding it and going after someone else. This will just lead to drama.

wcanoodle	That she is bored and messing with your mind. Move on to someone else who is actually available for dating. This is just asking for trouble and heartache.

kimber g	don't read to much into it, all she is saying is I really like your friendship and when your married you need friends.

Charlene	that she likes you as a friend