Giving back a ring after 5 years of marriage?

Stacy	do what you want why is my opinion matter to you you don't know me.

free2bejewel	Being a divorced woman myself, I know that right now you have a million things running through your mind. I would suggest not making any rash decisions right now. Hold on to the ring and sort things out first. You can always give it back at a later time if you feel like you should.

Llola	Save it for your kids if you have any. If you don't then you should give it back since it's a family heirloom and you no longer will be part of the family.

pattimaris1675@sbcglobal.net	Since the ring is his grandmother's ring~ yes I would indeed return it.

gagirl01	I think you should give it back to him if he wants it. It was his grandmothers therefore it should stay in HIS family.

bobearrey1	i wouldnt even if he asked ,he said i do and promised you a forever,he cheated, not you. you dont owe him anything except good bye and always remember you deserve better!

Running Gal	He gave (not loaned) it to you. Maybe if you had broke up before you were married then you should give it back. But after wearing it that many years it is yours.

fancy	NO he gave it to you and if they are kids you should give them the ring when the first one marrys either way dont give the ring back

tookoolfool	give it back it should stay in his family. if you have kids save it for them.

Strike2?	He gave the ring to you so its yours to do with as you please.

Frosty	It belongs to you. He gave it to you. Pass it on to your child(ren).

CaribbeanChica	if u feel uncomfortable wearin the ring or keeping it then give it back. if he asks then give it back

racer 51	absolutely. it's a family heirloom. he may not have mentioned getting it back but i'll bet his family would appreciate it.

CCRIDER69	I SMASHED MINE WITH A HAMMER..AND GAVE IT BACK TO HIM......IT BLEW HIS MIND....IT HAD NO MEANNING TO ME AFTER...

gloria b	I don't think so...he gave it to you as a gift.

Miss Candi	If there are no kids to pass it down too then I would.

wkuchick	since it is his grandmother's, then it is a family heirloom and I believe it should be returned to his family

sun s	ONLY because it was his grand mother's. If he bought it I would say don't give it back..But because it's a family thing..I suggest you do the right thing and give it back...If you have children maybe your children can use..if NOT please give it back..

Ale.SP	You shouldn't have to give it back to him. Remember he gave it to you. You don't return gifts after time do you. But if you feel ou don't want to keep it then by all means let him have it. After all he's the one that made the mistake.

DeAnna	He gave it to you it's yours, if you no longer want it you can sell it, or give it back.

â˜†Zesteeâ˜†	I wouldn't. It was given to you regardless of who it belonged to before.

~Drea~	it's his grandmother's, just give it back to him he's a cheater you don't need anything that he's given to you.

BlackDahlia	It's up to you. He gave it to you. If you're not going to need/want it, then I would give it back just to be nice.

califababy25	No, the ring is yours, hes the one that mest up not you, so there for the ring is yours.

Breezy365	I think thats totally your decision. I don't think you are obligated to give it back. I don't think I would.

huckypeep2	I would because of his family connection to it and it will do you no good any ways.

lady_phoenix39	No. Put it away and keep it for your daughter if you have one.....and if you don't, put it in a box. He needs to understand that his behavior has serious consequences.