HE CALLED ME HIS EX WIFE'S NAME!!!!!?

Steph	You will never forget your first marriage. Especially the name. And if he called you that name, you should slap him in the face

kayla	he will always have feelings for her. she is his ex wife...at one point in time she was the apple of his eye. but now he is with u...dnt worry about the past. u r his future!!!!!

sagebrush46	That's no big deal. Forget it and grow up. Either laugh it off or forget it. The more you make an issue of it the bigger the issue will get.

cataldo1520	hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaâ€¦ I'm sorry but that is funny as shi* lol just get over it it's nothing.

Steven K	No, it does not mean that. He called that name for years, and now just that name came onto his tongue. Do not worry, even laugh at it.

A Corona of my Owna	more than likely it may mean nothing. old habits are hard to get rid of sometime. My ex-wife called me her ex-husbands name a time or too. the first time i got mad(which was stupid) and the second time i just called her my ex-wifes name. an eye for an eye

Nani N	Could be a slip of the tongue. Give him the benefit of the doubt for now, you cant do anything anyway , its not like you can get into his head. But hes obviously thinking abt her name subconsciously.

YeeeHaaaa	Don't worry about it. That is one of those things that is out of habit. Not likely an emotional response. Especially if you did something that annoyed him or made him feel good. These things happen during the extreme feeling of either pleasure or anger. Totally Normal.

Madison	ive done it before but its only because my hubby said something that really annoyed me and i accidentally said my ex's name. i think its because my ex must have annoyed me the same way and i naturally just said it. dont worry though, its honestly not that big of a deal!

Kirsty B	everyone does it i bet if you have kids youll call them the wrong names or if you have brothers and sisters your parents will go "katthy, ann Rebecca!" eveyone says the wrong name from time to time. as long as it wasnt whilst in the sack and he was reaching the peak your fine

POPPA TART	I did that once with my ex girlfriend. I had ZERO feelings for my ex, and I did love my girlfriend at the time. I'm not saying that he doesn't still have feelings for his ex wife, but a slip of the tongue doesn't mean that he does.

Melissa F	Although I know this upset you, it was probably just a mistake and you are reading to much into it. How long were they married? How long have they been apart? If he was with her for awhile and the this is somewhat recent breakup then let it slide. He's not with her anymore, he's with you

Tanya F	give it a chance - he may of made one hell of a mistake . depending how long he was with her he may of did it to alot of people. I call my brother my husbands name for some reason ( they both start with m) people make mistakes forgive and forget , but if he does it again throw some thing at him lol

Alec	Brit, I was married to my 1st wife for 24 years. I am now married to a princess (15 yrs) Just recently I called her buy my Ex's name. I was disttracted and in a real hurry. For an instant my wife looked hurt, but then we both laughed. Neither of us believe that it is possible NOT to do that ONCE. Anything over once, ouch!

Marie K	oh geez, thats not good. Im the grudgful type so id hold it against him and milk it for what its worth :( My husband did the same thing and i was really hurt. He picked up on that and scared him so bad he hasnt done it since. haha But they were together for a couple years so i would imagine its still something hes trying to forget....

Justice	Ouch. that's a tough one. It depends honey. When you're used to being with one person for a long time, it's natural that the name would slip out, especially if they haven't been apart for long. I've had many dealings with the ex wife thing....and to be honest, none of it was good. Depends on how long you two have been together...and as for the wishing she would die thing....they all say that babe.

jackielafemme	DonÂ´t worry!..it happens lots of times..it could mean many others feelings but love. When they have kids they call kids by the others kids names..Sometimes men got confused with one relationship, imagine when theyÂ´ve been in more than one,,you just have to roll your eyes up and sigh. Forgive his confused mind anyways.,He loves you because hiÂ´s with you..ItÂ´s not a big deal..it happens, more than once I can tell,,,believe me..

MrsH	It happens, and usually it doesn't mean anything. Just so you know, though - people always have 'feelings' for their ex. Even someone who professes to hate their ex still has feelings - otherwise, why would you care enough to hate them? Our exes were special to all of us in their time. They will always be in our minds. It doesn't mean we want to go back to them - it just is.

Upper Class White TrashÂ©	How long have you been seeing each other? It depends if your relationship is still new..He could slip..only because he spent so long with her and did things with her and so It is in his brain..It happens...It is a problem if you are 5 years into your own relationship and he does it.. I had this ex- boyfriend of 6 years and our first week going out he called me by his ex's name..But he never did it again and freakishly would make sure to call me by my name or say my name way to often for comfort..until I called him on it, then he chilled.

shirleyjean89	it doesn't necessarily mean anything...it was probably a slip of the tongue...i have miscalled my husband by my ex-husband's name and vice versa...it doesn't mean i still have feelings for my ex-husband...it was more like something brought up a memory from the past and i inadvertantly called my husband by my ex-husband's name.

hallbrookerenee	Brit, I love my husband. He is the love of my life and I wouldn'tt be with anyone else in the world. But every once in a while, I find myself almost calling him my ex's name. When it happens I am not even thinking about my ex (which i deplore). I think it just has to do with the fact that it is the name I said for so long, even if I have been with my husband for years. So dont worry, he is with you now. Unless you find out he is talking to her behind ur back, it was just a slip of the tongue. Im sure it startled him as much as it did you.

balloonsfly2003	Hahaha my name IS my husband's ex's name... interesting story there. Uhm, "so he says" means you don't trust him. She's his ex. You have to be secure enough in your relationship to deal with that. If you think he still has feelings for her, talk to him like a grown up. But asking strangers what it means is NOT a good communication tool. If you're freaking out about something like this, he probably HAS to say he wishes she'd die to calm you down.

2363846976890	It doesn't mean he still likes her. Ever accidently call someone your mom or dad? I have. It doesn't mean you think of the person as your mom or dad. One of my ex gfs dumped me, because I called her by her sisters' name. Her name was sierra, and her sisters' was felicia... I screwed everything up just by doing that once. Let him know, and tell him to try not to do it any more. You have to comunicate when you are in a relationship.

Jillzilla	My husband has done this at least twice. Once when we were first together in a store. He hollered the wrong name at me across the store to get my attention (not on purpose). The second time was when I was pregnant and we were fighting. There may have been a third time while fighting. It hasn't happened it a long time. I used to worry that he still had feelings for her. I don't think that anymore. I got on here too and people's answers really helped me. Lots of ppl call their current spouse by their ex's name. It really doesn't mean he still has feelings for her. It's just a glitch in the brain. I found with my husband, that we had the same arguments that he had with her. So it was easy for him to call me the wrong name. They were together 6 years and we had been together less than two. The passing of time makes a huge difference.

Alice W	Could be that she is still on his mind. Depending on how long they have divorced and how long you have been with him. If they just got divorced and you came into the picture during that divorce period then you have to expect residue from the previous relationship and maybe even realize that your are just a rebound gf. Which is never good. So think about these factors and think about how much more time you want to waste while sitting on the sidelines for your bf to bounce back from this divorce.

MiZmeL	Its hard to answer this without more details. How long have you been together? How long ago did they get divorced? How long where they together? These are all things that make a difference. If they where together for a long time and just recently got divorced and you 2 haven't been together long, then I have to say he did it out of habit. I wouldn't jump to him having feelings for her still untill you sit down and have a serious talk with him. Don't be demanding and don't be angry-else he may not tell you the truth. Sit down calmly and just ask him to tell you the honest truth. It is going to be a bit normal for him to possibly still have some kind of feelings for her still, that is part of dating someone who has been divorced. I'm really sorry if this answer sounded rude or mean, I just want you to realize the possibilities. Good luck to you.