HUsband doesn't like my kids around?

Read My â˜†Lipsâ˜†	There could be several reasons. I'm sorry, but I can't stand my husbands daughters. At all. I act the same way. And the reason behind my actions is I don't like the way they act towards my husband, they are rude and slobs and I also can't stand the way my husband treats them like they are fragile little beings that can't take any discipline. Is it possible that you are acting different when your daughter is around? Does she respect your home and your husband? Are you paying attention to the little details when she is around, or ignoring them? These are just some ideas because of what I am going thru. Or it could be possible that your husband is a jealous, tantruming child who doesnt like attention being drawn away from him. You need to explain that this is your daughter and she has every right to your attention as he does. I hope this helps a little.

frankzilla naked at the beach	not sure if you have tried this but tell him or should i say ask him why his attitude or mood changed when she is around.. the first thing that came to mind was he does not like her.. could that be? thats weird why he does that.. also i would suggest you just asking him about it. its not fair for you to be the one to feel guilty. you obviously didnt do anything. dont do that to yourself.

Lulu_86	if hes acting like a d*** ask him why if its because hes jelous he should really grow up and start acting like an adult. If he cant i would seriously think about whether you want to stay with him or not. its obvious that you will never have children with him if he acts like this around children.

lorinhl	I would say to him..."You love me, right?" "I love you and we're happy together. You must realize that my daughter is a huge part of me and if you aren't accepting her you aren't accepting me." Tell him that you can't be torn between two people that you really love that it is an unfair position to be in. If he continues I'd up the ante and tell him to shape up or ship out. That's really silly for a grown man to act that way. Good luck.

John	First off, don't take advice from people who say "DEVORSE". But the other person is right, your kids are an extension of yourself. He's rejecting you at the same time, right? That's unacceptable. Do his kids ever visit him? Perhaps he's jealous.

kelannde	It sounds like you married a child. Have you talked to him about this? Try telling him how you feel about what you see as his pouting behavior. Let him know it bothers you to think he would be jealous of your child, and that you don't want to have to choose between your daughter and him (this would be a pretty easy choice, i would hope). Try including him in some of the things you do with your daughter. If that doesn't work, send him to his room like the pouty child he is acting like.

peaches6	Your daughter should come first. Sit down and talk to your husband to see what his problem is. Point out that he's being selfish and if he loves you he should love and accept your daughter. Good Luck!

Charles Taze R	something that should have been discussed before marriage, but it's too late to do anything about that. just let him stay by himself and pout.

Jelly Bean	After 3 years of his childish behavior, you can expect more of the same. Don't let him cause your daughter to not feel welcome. Maybe it is the other company that comes over when she does that upsets him the most. You could take her to meet with friends outside your home and see if this helps.

Binthere Doneit	He needs to grow up. Sounds like a possessive control freak.

Kristin E	Does he ever get to see his kids? Maybe he's a little jealous of the relationship you and your daughter have together. I would suggest sitting down and talking to him about it. Let him know how you feel, and he'll let you know how he feels.

katelynn : )	Well if he does not like his own child something is wrong. See a mentalist or something. Maybe he can help. Hope this helps ! : ) - katelynioo

Future Citizen of Forvik	You have to give your kids the best time you can and ignore this behavior. He is acting like a spoiled child himself and needs to use this time as man time to do something that he likes. Fishing, hunting, or seeing a movie with his buds are all good ideas.

Carrie	That is absolutely unreasonable of him. You shouldn't feel guilty at all. Of course you are going to need to see your daughter sometimes and if he expects her to never come over... that's just crazy. I agree with the first (or maybe second) answerer. Your children come first.

~BITCHIER THAN EVA~ URGH!	a man that can't love your children, can't possibly love you... why would you want a man in your life that acts like that with a little girl... when your daughter gets older, she's going to notice his rejection and that's going to make her feel sad.

Melissa G	i would get rid of him, there is no other kind of pain than when a mom chooses her man over her kids.

Sophie	What? That's absurd. You need to talk to him...sure everyone gets jealous sometimes but that's no reason to act it out openly and rain on the parade, so to speak. Tell him that you love him very much but you also love your daughter too and that you want both of you to get along with each other.

Andrew	my thoughts are he's a ********. step dads are the devil!!! don't let him control YOUR daughter, she is yours, who cares if he doesn't like it, he married you and he should love your kids like a father, but if he doesn't then thats his problem.

â“„â“ƒâ’º â“â’ºâ“‡â“„	So basically your husband hates it when your kid comes over ! My thoughts are: what a crank !!!!! Don't mind him, stick with the kid if you ever have to decide !

softballgirl1820	Pick the kid over the husband. if he doesn't like your family he doesn't accept you

Chelsea	He needs respect the fact that you want to see your child and that it makes you happy

dolphin	talk to him and ask why hes that way try to get him involved with your daughter when shes around

Kara G	thats horrible. you need to talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. If i was in your position i would be really upset and mad.

G-man	well he should like you and your family the way u r so he might not be the one

Buddy12345	Let's just say third time's the charm.

Mike	Children are the leading cause of divorce for couples who remarry.

SEASKYS	IF HE DOESN'T LIKE THE KIDS THEN DEVORSE! He should like your kids as much as you!

â™¥Red Pandaâ™¥	Whatever you do, never choose a man over your children.