Have you ever had an affair?

Notbusy	never felt reason to

LadyAnis	every normal person sure got one.

Nikki	I did, and it wasn't worth it. Luckily I have a very understanding and forgiving husband. But I learned a valuable lesson.

onyx1	yeah, wasn't worth it.

DJ	yes, and I married her

Gale P	Yes unfortantely I have had an affair that lasted 6 years. His wife knew about it too and I ended up breaking his heart. I seriously don't recommend it to anyone unless you are ready to pay the consiquences of the results. Its not fun!!...Trust me!!

Brian E	No never, I've been on honeymoon for 20 years now. Make no mistake, I had oppertunities galore. Of her "best friends", co-workers and even one of her sisters. The fact is that my wife is my world and best friend. She's like lady Di, comes around once in a lifetime, am such a lucky guy. My life is so complete! Brian (South-Africa)

jbanks5555	Yes it was stupid...became a swinger much better lol

mandy r	Yeah 15 years ago! He was a lot younger than me and ever so sweet! The only thing is I've a child as a result and I haven't seen him since! my husband was not happy and left me.

driver48yr	yes i have and i regret it

hellkinkydragon	No never.

Nancy M	I did and sometimes I wish that it had never happened. The guy and I became the best of friends and he had wanted to marry me but I could not marry him. He had too many problems. Having an affair is not always easy having to sneak around and having to lie all the time. I am now divorced and now married to someone else.

Needtoknow	NOPE!! Wouldn't have gotten married if thought there was a possibility of having one.

k man	yes and it was great. wonder why so many ladies admitted it????

mayrad	yes, stay away from it someone always gets hurt.

spreetray	yes. lousy one at that.

Common_Sense2	kinda, sorta. i have a physical attraction to someone other than my hubby.

jgrey1goose	yes and i was miserable during the affair and in worse shape after it. not only did i screw up and loose my family at home but found out that well let's just say IT WAS A VERY STUPID AND SELFISH THING FOR ME TO HAVE DONE AND I WILL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dudleydo	No but I wish I had.

gjind	yes and it never ever was the right thing to do i have had to live with that a long time

bountyhunter	well Jess , yes ! for a week than I found out she was tied up and cut her off . why are you thinking of it?

ckingfun	yes and then fell in love with her

kittykat	yes

Kathy J	YES! LIVE AND LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES

Brendan M	nope. the relationship would never be the same.

Lyn93	No, and I never want to, and I hope I never do.. I don't want to hurt my family for one, and also I love myself too much. The reason why I say this, is because there is Aids out there, and it will kill you. I don't want to lose my life, over a short time of passion.

gumie23	I have walked the line but never carried it over. People do have thoughs kind of thoughts after being with someone for a long time. People miss the thrill of the hunt. :)

518	In my mind all the time...................... I don't think that I could do it .............

mafiosu	An affair is defined in the dictionary as "an intense amorous relationship, usually of short duration". I have had lots of affairs when I was single and the men I had affairs with were single too. If you mean, have I ever cheated? Then the answer is no.

pruittsgurl_01	I had been in a realtionship when i met the man who is now my husband... We met through friends, an wanted nothing more then to be friends with one another.. But it didnt' work that way, i ended up leaving the guy i was with to be with the guy im married to... Things didnt go so great in the beginning for us we both made some mistakes but it made me realize that i loved him more then i ever knew an i would never make the same mistake again so when we worked through all our problems an he ask me to marry him i was more then willing to cause i know that he is the man i want to spend the rest of my life with he is my husband an my best friend i can always count on him to be there.. we are now happily married an have our first child (3 weeks old)