Have you wasted years of your life on a person....?

â™¥The Mrs.â™¥	Nope.

Ä¿á»‰ÅFâ„¢ #8 - still sideways	Yes.

Jordan M Ø´Ù¡Ù©Ù§Ù¦	No.

Bryce	Yup. Sadly we had a daughter, whom I love dearly, so we're forever linked by her!

Phil	It's not a waste if you learn from it and don't repeat your mistake.

T	of course......anyone over 30 probably has.

GORGI	soon as you've made that discovery, then it's time to start walking

Han Technologic 2	Doing that right this moment.

Mansour	Oh yes ....I think wasted 10 years of my life on a one girl !

Philip #3	9 long years. Two awesome kids came out of it, in spite of her.

mjmayer188	No, the years were well spent.

pffft	View it as a learning experience.

Tino {7}F U Haters	Actually, no. I never had any serious GF's before I met my wife. Just a lot of FWB.

Sahil	i did waste 10 long years,,,but never mind,, now looking for another 10 years,, i believe time rotten the relation,,,

StandingInTheWayOfControl	Maybe not years, more like a few months. It hurts a lot, especially when you regret things every single day because of them.

â˜† Kurb â˜† says Merry Xmas	no, i've never regretted anything in any relationship i've been in. i'm just lucky to have met some really lovely guys =]

Melissa	Yes I did, every time we had a disagreement he would threaten to break up with me, sometimes following thru on the threat, after our 4th post argument breakup I asked him not to call me again.

doc_holliday1863	Not at all my Wife and i have married for 48 years and it seems like yesterday we met. Hang in there the right peron is out there looking for you. good luck and Happy Newyear

heather f	Yes I have and it makes me pissed when I think of. But then I remind myself well I spent all his money so I got something out of it. I think it is better to try to find something optimistic.

I LOVE JON	Yes, i had a boyfriend b4 and he was not man enough to tell me the truth, he told me he doesnt want me to get hurt. What these people don't know, it is more painful to live with lies.

Steel Chimera	I wouldn't say I've wasted the years but I've definitely invested years into a passion that has fizzled... everything else is ok though.

Kate Lucky Canucky	Yup. Three years of my life gone to the lazy, loser, ambitionless, probably gay ex-boyfriend. I am so thankful that I got out of that one without making the colossal mistake of marrying the sot.

Sadguy	yES. I have to pretend to be this other person for the many long years of being married. If I become who I am I am a total oddball before my wife and in laws. I want to be who I am and not pretend to be this person that I am not.

MrGecko	Never thought of it before. I'm still young I guess. I only got about 5 crushes and I only confessed to one. And I think i got rejected by her. even so, i don't think i wasted my love for her, 'cos if she can't love me than it is me who is at fault for lacking something right? or i did something unnecessary like pestering her too much (T.T)

Snow	Yes I did sadly although I did have a son to her so that overall it was worth it. We married because we both felt that nobody else would ever want us and that at least together we wouldn't be alone. That was a mistake. Eventually my wife met a man she did love passionately and left me. I have met someone special too now so it is not too bad.

pretty n pink_14	yeh.. few years ago! it's kinda difficult to get out and make a new life. it took a lot of courage and determination to affirm your decision of moving out. why stay on when you know that you are just wasting your life with him who doesn't deserve your love. decide now and let go if you can handle the emotional havoc it will bring into your life. give yourself a chance to fill up the emptiness in your heart and have faith and believe you can have a new life! good luck

Zee-ster	Nope & I never ever prescribed to such a negative view of relationships. There's something to learn from every one, something good about the person you choose & some part of yourself or your past you're working out. It's all about living & learning & showing gratitude for the good.

Al	I wouldn't say wasted, but poorly spent maybe. We were talking with each other last night(we get along amicably now) and she was complaining about having wasted 5 minutes of her life waiting in a line, I looked at her and said compared to 13 years(the length we were married) what is 5 minutes compared to that. I don't think any time is wasted as long as you can learn from it. If you don't, then it is probably wasted time.