He want's to to trow me on the street?

tor_bellydancer	Go to your embassy they will help you. They have people who specailze in this kind of thing

mzadamz	Wow! He sounds like a sociopath. Do you have children together? I would go talk to a lawyer. Noone has the right to treat you inhumanely.

Nekko	I hope this guy hasn't destroyed your image of this country. You don't have to feel like you are alone, if your marriage was real, that made you a citizen of this country, if he is threatening you, you can go to the authorities, you must report his behavior so that progressive measures can be taken. Speak to the police about a social worker, there are programs and assistance with finances and living arrangements you probably qualify for. Trust me, you will find someone who will honor and respect you, but right now, focus on getting this guy out of your life, then you can build your own future with your own hands.

fakepeoplesuk	well i for one dont feel bad for you.did not put much thought into it but i bet if he made you legal and gave you all his money you would be happy just b/c you did not get your free ride. wa wa no i wont even give you a tissue use your shirt.go home

GM DEALER	What you mean die in his sleep. He needs some sleeping pills. You need to go to the cops or call an attorney and see what you can do. You should stay in the same country and tell them that he cheated on you. Press charges for adultry. You can get half of what he owns. You could get half his money in his bank, half from the house, and even the car. When a man commits adultry (cheating) it is a felony, when you are married.

a_lot_smarter_now	Talk to a lawyer anyway. He's trying to scare you, because he knows as his wife, you are entitled to half of what he owns. You need to get a lawyer, and take what you can from his sorry butt, then go back home to your family, Honey. If you want to stay here, then stay, but on your own. Don't keep hoping he's going to fulfill your dream for you. He's been very clear to you that he doesn't want to. Make yourself some good friends here to help you through this. Find someone you can trust to walk you through this mess and be there for you. I know what it's like to leave everything you own behind to be with someone (although in my case, it was just one side of the US to the other), and then be hurt so badly by them. You'll be okay. Someone ELSE will love you for the beautiful woman you are.....but not this guy. By the way, he cannot destroy you any more than he already has, so what do you have to lose by standing up to him? He's a loser.

Grand pa	You need to contact imigrant service now. if he hurt you he can be charged with donmestic violence and go to jail..

2sexy 2cute	Get a lawyer and find you a new life in the States.

Jill knows best	I think You should fight with everything you have. Woman are Strong Beings.... Good luck

fredie y	get help or leaves his ***

Babe	you can go to a womens shelter until you get on your feet. And they'll help. Don't be afraid to talk to lawyer you don't want to stay in that marriage anyways so who cares what he's going to do. be a fighter don't let him bring you down

mamafresh3	you can contact your local organization for domestic battery. They will be able to point you in the right direction. There are also organizations that provide lawyers at little or no cost to you. What your husband is doing to you is called abuse. He may not be hitting you, but he abusing you mentally and physically and that is grounds for divorce in this country. You are also entitled to half of everything he owns. I hope this helps you.

HEH	Ouch! Bad situation. I don't have any advice for you. But I do have plenty of sympathy. Find a job, try Walmart. Get some money saved up, and get your life together. You don't need him or his money. You will find someone (a good man) else in good time, but first wash your hands of the man you are married to now and get on with your own life. You can do it. I know you can. If you need to talk or if there is anything I can do to help, I've been in a similar situation with my ex husband feel free to email me hehickey@yahoo.com. I wish you the best.

MissUnderstood	You sound like a hoax. The first part of your rant is typed in perfect broken English, but you spell amazingly well for a person from another country. I smell a rat.

Jenny84	I am so sorry for you. What a terrible situation. You need to leave him and stay in a womems shelter until you can find a job. Get a job as a waitress and save money so you can rent an apartment. Go to google and type in the words Women's shelter in......and then the nearest city to you. Good luck to you, you will make it through this! It will be hard but I bet you can do it in one year or less.

helpfull2u	since you married him half of everything is yours sweetheart! take him for everything he has , go to a womans crisis center than can help you and direct you,find you shelter and a job you are not alone! Good luck and im sorry for the ignorant man to represent my country this way, not all men in this country are like that

Juillet	if you have proof of marriage contact a lawyer, most lawyers hopefully will help you w/o asking any money. if you feel in danger go to your local shelter. i would try to get a divorce from him he will hurt you more if you stay. talk to someone who is closer to you there so you can get real help for this issue you are going through

ktray1275	get a good lawyer

Monet	Go back home to your country. Why did you come here in the first place? Here is website and here is some of the questions and answers for the US. FAQ - Divorce and Immigration * Q: Does separation from my spouse cut off my immigration benefits that are based on my marriage to my spouse? A: No. For the most part, physical or legal separation (i.e., a separation formalized by a court) of married parties does not constitute a legal termination of a marriage. * Q: If my non-immigrant status is based on my marriage to another non-immigrant, will my non-immigrant status be affected if I were to get a divorce? A: Yes. As your status is based on your marriage to another non-immigrant, once the relationship ends, your status ends. * Q: I am in H-4 status which I obtained based on my marriage to my husband who is in H-1B status. We are separated, but our divorce will not be finalized until next month. Am I still in H-4 status? A: Yes. For the most part, physical or legal separation (i.e., a separation formalized by a court) of married parties does not constitute a legal termination of a marriage. * Q: After the divorce is finalized, will I still be in H-4 status? A: No. H-4 is a status for the dependants of H-1B holders. For this purpose, dependants are either the spouse or children of the H-1B non-immigrant. If the relationship ends, the status ends.

J	take him to court... you are legaly married to him and therefore entitled to half even the house he is putting up for sell

allrightythen	As a married woman in the united states, you have rights. Go to the yellow pages under attorneys, look for divorce attorneys, and find one that will give yuo a free consultation.

free_angel	Let's set him up with my a very aggressive neighbor. She won't hesitate to beat his *** and show him who's the boss. She's that way.

Munya Says: DUH!	Find your local battered women's shelter. EVEN if you ask a police officer where it is---GO THERE. TELL THEM YOUR STORY! He cant do that to you, he cant do it to ANYONE!!! Depending on your state, you are entitled to HALF OF WHATEVER HE OWNS since you're married to him! MAKE HIM PAY!!!! MUNYA SAYS MAKE HIM PAYYYY!

Eva C	Go home to your family.

rcsinga	contact a woman's shelter. They should be able to help you!

Dennis L	These are some serious problems that I think you should discuss with a lawyer. I am unsure of your rights, but you will have some that will protect you.

angeldust	contact an attorney, contact your embassy......call the authorities. you are not a piece of rubbish. You might not be a citizen, but you are protected and have rights. you are HUMAN. That's the most important thing.I don't care if you are not a citizen or not, he should not abuse you and mistreat you. this might be a long-shot, and I haven't browsed the site to see where you would inquire, or what your situation falls under, but it's worth a shot. Contact the American Civil Liberty Union: http://www.aclu.org/ (That is, assuming you are in America. I have only lived in the UK and the states, but in the UK I know you can go to an embassy/consulate...call the British consulate if in the UK.)

jen	maybe he will die in his sleep