Help I think my dad is cheating on my mom....?

He's the boss of this company, and one day he took me to one of the offices of that company and was acting funny and introduced me to this clerk woman, that's probably around 20 years younger than him. He let me talk to one of his execs while he talked to that woman a bit away from us.

Couple days later, I was looking thru his cell phones calls list (upon his request) and saw that he had called this woman a couple times in the past couple days..... and I wasn't aware of why he would have to talk to her.

My dad fell in love with my mom apparantly, against the wishes of his family and hers, and got married, and he's known to be very noble, and I just can't picture him doing anything against his honor.

My mom isn't looking her best, she's gained weight and falling sick alot (they're both in their late 50s) and always working hard to put me and my sister thru college. My dad works from home. They've been fighting over the weirdest things lately. They're always arguing.

I'm really hurt and really let down at the idea of my dad cheating on my mom, whom I thought he really loved, especially considering how much my mom does for the family. My dad is all ok with using a lot of money to go abroad to kill his boredom while expecting my mom to work everysingle working day.

I'm really hurt and I don't know what to do. What am I supposed to do? I'm 16 and it's affecting everything else in my life.

P.Y.T (pretty young thing)ÏŸ	maybe he was just talking about Business on the phone and at work.

Erlie	maybe u can talk to ur dad.

Gee	It's an "idea" with-out any actual proof. Let it go and let your parents deal with their marriage on their own terms.

Big and Tasty	you have no proof, stop screwing around with made up things in your head

Dylan B	tell mom

alexis	if you dont have any proof then you really should worry about it but if it would make you feel better could could tell your dad about it

David G	Talk to your dad, let him know you think he is being unfaithful. After that, it is out of your hands.

mybaby2	back off. this is not your business, and i guarantee you dont want to make this your business. a few phone calls are not proof of cheating either

BookwormG	It's really none of your business. Short of seeing your dad in the act of cheating you should stay out of it.

tiana.bell18	talk to your dad first before jumping to conclusions then if u still think he is tell your mom so they can work things out

.	Butt out and let your parents deal with their problems if any. You have no proof of your father being an infidel. Why are you snooping and looking thru his personal stuff?

Eric M	Hoenstly stay out of it they will blame you in the end

*MiSz LoRi BaBy*	Just because he calls her does not mean he's cheating on your mom

chichibaby	Don't assume first of all. If your father is having an affair than let your parents deal with it. Stay out of their marriage bc it may cause even more problems. They are both grown adults.

Spike H	dont worry, its probably nothing, because business men need clerks to organize there things.

MonaLisa Overdrive AM VT wannabe	It's between the two of them, and has nothing to do with their relationship with you. The truth is, most married men cheat at some point.

nancy n	Confront your Dad. He needs to know how what he is doing is affecting your life. Maybe you are wrong but the only way to be sure is to face him with the facts as you know them

Cara	Tell your mom about it first so she has a complete understanding of the situation before speaking out about it. It seems likely. I'm sorry, I hope everything works out well.

Erika10108	Talk to him. That's the only thing you can do. I think coming from his own daughter's mouth would be a hit to him. Question him, and tell him you're really hurting, and express your concerns for your mother.

Peter J	Stay out of it. The last place you want to be is between your parents in a crisis that is between them. You risk destroying your relationship with both of the people who are most important to you. Drop it, leave it alone.

NERDGASM	You aren't supposed to do anything. In the end the problems in their marriage are there problems and you aren't the fixer of those problems. Let it take its natural course and hope for the best.

dice_340	wow i was 16 when i found otu my popz cheated on my momz.i know it hurts but if he is you have to not let it control u because when he left us i still to thios day deal with sadness behind it.so live your life and dont let it stop u.

johnnyismyman73	Awh I'm sorry, but I honestly don't know. It's possible that he is..I dont know what I should tell you because I'm not good with these types of situations and I don't wanna say something stupid and have you take my advice and have something bad happen. But God Bless and I wish you the best

LiFeInCaRtOoNmOtIoN	before you freak out you should find out for sure if this is really happening or your just jumping to conclusions. If your dad works with the woman hes bound to call her for one reason or another, doesn't mean hes cheating. I hope hes not, good luck with this :)

Sam	Wow, you're 16 and your parents are in their late fifties --- you really came along late. This isn't a problem for you to solve. It's understandable why you would be uncomfortable with the situation. Get counseling --- just so you're ok.

Leah R	Oh hon I'm so sorry. Well to start off I know how you feel and it hurts like hell. Since your 16 your mature already, it seems like you can talk to your dad. Ask him how's life and if him and your mom are okay; even if you see they are not. Good luck<3

jnnjg	i no u may think that hes cheating but i dont. didnt u say that shes his secretary so that would explain her calln him back and stuff if he wanted information aslo just because he was talkin to her on the side does not mean anything, but until u can find some proof or evidence, i wouldnt call him out on it

kjosee	What are the chances you are jumping to conclusions? You have at best loose evidence. I say you keep this to yourself or ask your dad about it. Maybe they are arguing more because this is a VERY rough time for most people right. they could be arguing over money or jobs even tho that is not what you hear. Talk to him and see.

Future Citizen of Forvik	There are so many people who have this problem and they all act out by drinking and partying. Do your best to rise above it and do your best. Reach out to others who have divorced parents and get some comfort. Tell him that you are disappointed and that he has let you down and that you have lost respect for him.

Heatherrrrrrrr	If you are really that concerned then talk to your dad. Let him know what you observed and what you think. He will either be very defensive (which is a good sign he is cheating) or be very hurt that you think poorly of him. Either way you can get it out in the open.