Honest answers please.....?

Sgt-Bikes-a-Lot!	I think in your heart, no matter what, you will feel betrayed. You will try and rationalize your hurt away by telling yourself that you were doing it too, but two wrongs don't make a right. Therefore, your heart will be battling your head. And they are emotions. Not right, not wrong, just feelings...and they are yours to work through. So, yes, an honest answer would be that I would never have thought my spouse was doing the same thing and perhaps guilt would be misguided into hurt. Believe it or not, time will help you work through the madness.

?	Hello, Why are you even married? If there's that much lack of communication in the marrage... You shouldn't be life partners...

barrys_lil_cowgirl	Nope.....being a hyprocrit(sp). But I had sort of the same feelings......I got a full body massage from a message therapist, and my husband went to get one....and I was a lil upset....but I just kept telling myself that I cant be upset, I got one, and I have no reason to worry.

lalala	no, i cant, if i was doing the same it wouldnt be fair, would it?

LHM	What's good for the Goose is good for the Gander. If both of you are doing it, then how could either of you be mad?

missyandgordon	Yes,but I would be mad at both of us for not communicating better.The fact that he would do that and I would too,says alot about nothing in our marriage.But fortunatley,I and he would never do that.We are lucky enough to communicate so it dosen't get to that point of no return.

countpetez	No Honey, I know that we are both just looking to replace that magic we once had. And you are not really a sissy...

miso1cat	I would probably be jealous. Which makes no sence since I would be doing the same thing. Maybe you could just agree not to talk abt it to each other.

(NO) NAME	yes i would be...

blondie	Honestly, yes. Rightfully, no. It's like that old song, "I like Pina Colada's and walking in the rain". They were both doing it and ended up answering each other's ads. I guess you aren't that lucky. It seems like you both could use some honesty and a therapist.

Jessica	I would be mad, although I really would have no right to be but thats just how it goes sometimes.

Miss Brooke	yes. I'm sorry honey but you and your husband may need to talk and part ways. Both of you are doing something dishonest and wrong. You don't need me to tell you that. But to answer your question, yes, I would be quite upset and hurt even if I had done the same thing. Maybe yall need to move on. Everything will work out for the best, I'm sure.

GAR501	Most men would be;however what is good for the goose is good for the gander;it sounds as if you would deserve eachother if that was the case !

â™¥Sunflower	Actually, how could you be mad at him if you are just as guilty. I honestly think you two do not belong together.

Sxybrnsugr	How could you be mad when you were doing the same thing? You both need to talk with each other and get some counseling.

ROB. B	Remember whats good for one is good for both.. How can you get mad.... GOOD LUCK....Rob

charice266	Nope, I would most likely laugh my butt off. You should use it to your advantage. Use it as a tool to spice up your own relationship. Get everyone into a chat room and dirty talk to your computer friends. Then the two of you can act it out in real life.

tigerprincess_bee	No, you are both doing the same thing.

â™¥ â€ @Ã¿ÅÆÆâ™¥	well considering that's the way we met, ummm yes I'd be very mad. As far as me having a relationship on line,it ain't happening again trust me.

Q the genius	i would probably be upset. but i would also realize that i was being a big time hypocrite. if you were hurt by the fact that they did it, then you should stop having your online relationship, because they could be feeling just as hurt as you are.

Trish	how could you? I mean, you could be mad, but what reasoning would you have?

honey_bear_21_1999	No, I wouldn't......I'd just say "hey, since we're scr*wing around on each other.....why not do it together?"

ujenfo	You are a hypocrite!!!!!!!!!

hikikomori	No, bc you are having one too

â™¥Spiky Sandyâ™¥	I'd be pretty pissed off, but I wouldn't have any right to complain if I were doing the same thing. Both of your cheating makes both of you wrong.

tlcnc	No, but I strongly suggest you both go to marriage counseling.

Ryce Queen 13	Yes

Lesley	Auchhhhhhhhh......Well you were doing it.....You founded out he was doing it also.Do you see a future in there????? I DO NOT

Sassy OLD Broad	How could you? You're doing the same thing? Why not have an online relationship with each other? sounds like fun...

don45123	only if it was with me