How can talk to my wife about.........

Jennifer R	Take a bath together and offer to do it for her, tell her you wanna try it. She might enjoy the trimmed look. Jenn

alrozz	That is a personal issue between you and her and my advice would be to buy her a skimpy bikini and then she has to shave to wear it. Done deal!!

karmannghia	UMMMMM....YES it's your place to say something, that's just nasty! UGH, why hasn't she trimmed? I feel sorry for you! Just tell her to do it, tell her it would really turn you on or something!

Feed the scenesters to the lions	maybe suggest it while you two are showering together. she may or may not take it lightly, but i don't see it as a big deal to just discuss it.

brisingr376	uh, yeah, its your place. your the one who goes down there, and it should be kept neat and trimmed. be warned, she could get angry over it, but if it really bothers you i would say something

lucy	just catch her after she comes out of the shower. give her a hug and kiss her then tell her baby why don't you trim a little I would like that. see what she tells you.

cheri	o well i dont have that prob.. umm maybe say something like have you ever thought of shaving? or watch a pron and be like you should do that! or be like "dave" trimmed "nancys" area and they loved it! we should do that...ect............

JohnMDC	If you love her, love her the way she is, but if she loves you too, you can tell her about it, and then you have to do something for her too.

Bobbie	Maybe make an adventure out of it. Have bath/bubbles/candles time together and ask her if she'd let you do it. You can even buy trimmers/stencils and be artistic with it. But you have to let her do that to you as well! ;)

Tabitha	Your place? My dear it is nobody else's but yours! My husband waited until he was shaving and then asked if he could shave me. So it has now become his responsibility. We are that 'open' with each other. I never used to ever, but he changed my mind.

nocturnalrein	You could start by coming home with a dozen roses and a bottle of NairÂ®. Unless she is extremely dense, she should get the hint. If she doesn't you probably won't insult her if you tell her you are not a monkey, so you do not wish to eat in a jungle.

Mandy G	It is good that she knows your opinion on things but it is her choice weather she wants to trim there or not. Tell her that you want her to but then listen to what she has to say. But explian to her why you want her to. Because she may think that you dont mind her not trimming.

Debbie F	Before you suggest something like this you need to consider her health, are there possible health reasons that she doesnt shave? If not then it is possible that she has just never been exposed to doing that, if thats the case asking her if you can would be a good way to go about it. But make sure it isnt going to cause her major health problems before you do. People with Diabetes and other health problems dont shave for health reasons.

Belinda28	Yes, it is your place to tell her. She seriously might just not know. I didn't know until someone told me that you are supposed to do that. Tell her that you love going down on her but it would be better if she would trim down there. If she is not sure how to do it, offer to do it for her.

kryp2nyte	make it a game, let her know you dont want to floss everytime you go there lol, letther her know i give you facial burns lol. and i would be much easier for you to handle your business, that is your wife tell her i am sure she is willing to work with you plus it is to hot to be having all that damn hair down there lol, just get the trimmers and do it for her dont make her bald just take it down just enough for you and her to be comfortable with it and the next thing you know it will be a regular thing. hey mines stay down all the time i don not like it long anymore oops tmi lol..let me know i she goes for it!!

just.me.	I see your problem. It is a sensitive subject to discuss that could lead to a fight and hurt feelings. You could ask her if she prefers you "shaven" or "au natural" and see if she asks you what you prefer... Or, you could have her "catch" you "grooming" yourself and see if she asks you why you are....then you can say that you like to be "clean" for her because it heightens your sensitivity when your together and wait to see if it sparks her imagination.....Basically, you need to lead her to the question by starting the conversation refering to yourself.. Good luck....

Natasha	Some women liked it shaved down there, some like it trimmed and some just like leaving it as is. Maybe you can talk to her and suggest she trims her area. Just say that you would like her to try and see what she says. Just because it is not trimmed, that doesn't mean it's not clean though. Make sure she doesn't think you are saying she is not clean..lol.

merry cate	Is it your place to say anything? Well, do you have the kind of wife who puts a high value on pleasing you in small ways and big? Only you can answer that. If she is the kind of woman who is sensitive, takes things negatively and will get offended if you bring it up then you might decide that the benefit isn't worth the risk/cost. If all else is good, it isn't worth elevating an inconvenience to the status of a problem. If, however, she is a secure, open-minded, adventurous type, you might get really creative...in a moment of seductive ecstasy, whisper in her ear something like: I have always wondered what it would be like if it was "bare down there". My husband did that years ago and I couldn't stop thinking about his hot and steamy suggestion. I got waxed the day before we went on a romantic vacation and surprised him delightfully. It hurt like the devil with a pitchfork, but OMG so worth it! For both of us!!! It is pure bliss... I do it regularly now with only one regret: Why didn't he say anything sooner???!!! All the best - I wish you the adventure of a lifetime!

â€¢âˆšÂ¡rgÅ‘â€¢	Tell her to shave it. Tell her it would really turn you on if she shaved it. Tell her bluntly that the hair gets stuck in your teeth and freaks you out a little. Tell her that you'd be a lot more attracted to her if she cleaned up a little. You may be sleeping on the couch for a night or two but she'll realize that you're not into the 70's bush and hopefully take it upon herself to trim the hedge.

rbrumbaugh22	Just try to deal with it my friend. Most women are very sensitive about their bodies and when you go asking for them to change something, or in your case, do a little something, they may take it that you don't like the way they are. My fiancee is very particular on her body. She knows that when things get too hairy or out of sync, she will remind herself to do it so that I don't have to make any comments. She is pretty good on staying on top of things, and I'm sure your wife is the same way. If she isn't, if you know her feelings and such and if she doesn't take offense to your talk, then go ahead and ask her. But be careful not to say the wrong thing, women are very delicate. Take care