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How can you talk to someone you love when they don't want to talk to you?
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How can you talk to someone you love when they don't want to talk to you?








Fallen Angel
If the person doesnt want to talk to you..there is nothing you can do. Just have to live with it by repressing your feelings and suffocating.


Precious_Angel_In_Your_Heart
You can sit there and talk to the person all you want; but if they are not going listen or talk back to you, you cannot make them do so. I have been there for 17 years and it is just like talking to the wall. The wall listens to me more than my own husband.


Joy
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It depends on what you want to talk about. I "talk" to my husband all the time and I get better reaction from talking to the wall. We would be so much better off financially and emotionally if only he would attempt to listen. So the answer is you can't talk to someone you love when they don't want to talk to you. Just makes you want to throw in the towel on the whole relationship. What else is there to do?


sadie smile
u can't make anyone do anything.


Ian
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well you can talk all you want but if they are hurt in some way then you must always reassure them you love them, don't be afraid to tell them even if you don't think they are listening.If they are hurt then they do hear you but most likely choose to not to respond.always talk in a calm voice and never raise it. when talking about a certain event or something they did or you did ( whatever the case may be) its important that you explain how it made you feel.This will in most cases prompt a response.make it clear that the person means a lot to you and you are willing to listen without getting defencive . Relationships fall by the wayside because couples don't want to make an effort to communicate. there are books one can read and keep in mind there are different types personalities and understanding of what makes up person determines how and what you say, this leads to miss communication which is generally the start of things .I can' t emphasize enough that you describe your feeling and encourage the person to the same even if you have ask them how it made them feel I hope this helps :)


Victor
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you can't. i've been in that boat for fourteen years.


Tyler
make em talk 2 u


jonny2stepp
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use vocal cords and shoot them words.







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