How do I get out of agreeing to help my gf sister get pregnant?

Bobby Clause	tell them no, that's gross she's married & your gf sister it's not even your problem seriously, think about it, it's not your job to help a women get pregnant unless your married to her

knockyourteethout	Simple. Tell them you changed you mind. It's too big of a responsibility. The kid will indeed be yours and it's not something you would be comfortable with looking at him / her every time there is a family gathering. There is the legal issue too. Demands could be put on you in the future under certain scenarios. You could always lie and say you consulted a lawyer or paralegal who advised you against it.

sweetsfromdat817	Its your choice. Just say no and tell the the truth. You dont feel comfortable with it. Tell them to find another "donor". All kinds of crap comes along with that. You will now have a baby with your girlfriends sister. They say it belongs to them but you will always know thats my kid running around over there. Then when the kid gets older you gotta tell him/her where they came from (maybe). What if you end up getting attatched to the kid? You might end up wanting to keep it.Your g/f wont like that. Too much drama. Say no. If they cant afford a real donor then maybe they shouldnt be having a kid in the first place. There's always adoption. Tons of kids stuck in the system anyway.

~Charity~	Wow!! I think if they want a donation then they should be able to find another way. I can't imagine her husband actually being ok with the natural idea. I would consider it....would you feel like the child is yours? It would be an amazing gift but you would have to separate yourself from them. Good luck with the decision making.

Melissa R	That is incredibly awkward. How does your GF's sister's husband feel about you guys.... ummm.. boinking to get the job done? Why not just use a syringe or something, it can be done like that. But if you are jusating feeling weird about her having YOUR baby, then talk to them about it. Doesn't her husband have a brother they could use so it's still her husband's 'genes'? That is definately an interesting one.

Sassy	Wow. I have never heard of that before! Well....ask your gf how she feels about it. You could always say you don't feel comfortable doing it...and suggest that they adopt. =) There are millions and millions of children who desperately need homes.

Michelle J	Get away from them as fast as you can. This family sounds very weird, this whole situation could turn very bad for you, I fact I can't see any positive outcome in this for you, if your girlfriend really loved you she wouldn't ask you to do this.

Marissa M	say no

Ella-Maddelyn	That. Is. Awkward. I've never heard of anyone doing this. Does her husband know about it? Wow. I would feel really uncomfortable doing that too. Sleeping with your girlfriend's sister....Um. Tell her you thought you would be comfortable with it, but you really aren't. That's NOT like your sister carrying the baby. It's going to be YOUR baby. I would stick to your guns on this one.

Nort	Tell them it could lead to problems later if you don't agree with the way the child is raised.

Pandora	you just tell them straight out that it is not something you are comfortable with. they need to respect that. You do not want to start sleeping with your gf's sister. in spite of your gf suggesting it jealousy will rear it's ugly head.

Vanessa	Obviously it doesn't 'feel' right to you. If something doesn't feel right, don't do it. Your sense of unease about the whole thing is there for a reason. It might seem like the logical thing to do to give them a baby, but the emotional consequences will probably far outweigh the benefits. Don't let anyone push you into it. It's your choice, and tell your girlfriend exactly how you feel about it, I'm sure she'll understand. It's not your responsibility to 'resolve' other people's infertility.

Invisigoth	if you aren't a troll then you tell her "hell no, I want my wife to be the only one who has my children." then get the hell out of there. that family is pretty twisted.

Loving.You	As much as you want to help, politely tell them it is against your better judgement to do so in that way and they should understand your answer.

Nick G	Come out and tell them that you feel like this is wrong and that it's just like cheating. Tell them that there are other methods and that they shouldn't have to use you. Just come out with it straight up, they'll understand if they love you.

Zeek M	ok if that was me and it was my gf idea i would be like up the stairs before her . Ok crap my wife is

WhitÆ¸ÌµÌ¡ÓœÌµÌ¨Ì„Æ·	wat the hell?! them girls r wierd! y would she let u **** her sis to get her pregnant?? hellllll no dont do it

Give Blood	Just simply say no and mean it.

prop4u	*** in a cup and give it to her... be done with it...

Liz in MI	Just say NO.Tell your GF and her sister to lay off. This isn't your job to impregnate her sister..

siderman	Tell her you just like anal and that will only creat turds so thier s.o.l.

Fox29	JUST BE A MAN AND SAY NO. and let whatever happens after happen.

Ivan P	LMFAO

ricky	Put it in a dixie cup, freeze it and ship UPS.

partyinsneakers	tell them you feel uncomfortable.