How do you ask a married man out?

teadropsue	well unless you are hes wife you don't are you mad. if all you want is a fling go to a bar and leave the married man alone . lady's need to stick together god knows men have no will power.

remi m	she stopped and asked Miss B ell for some of her sweet tea ....Thank God for her direction ....she sent him right back to me..... see what you wives do........... you overprotect him & then he can't say no!!!.

bubastiss	You don't you stupid * HOMEWRECKER. You are just plain old trash. Get some respect for yourself and find your own man. You say you think you are actually helping? It shows how truly retarded and selffish you are. I'm sure your mom and baby daddy are proud. I bet the girl in the trailer next to you would even whip your * if she knew what you were doing. Geez.

tyler d	DARN TROLLS

?	Every girls dream..........to be the OTHER woman. Your parents must be very proud of you. No parents? You don't speak? That explains a LOT!

lovelyeyes	no you don't. get your own husband. you do not need to break somebody else's home.

Karrie	Just ask him...say, "I don't mean to offend you, but would you like to go out for a drink (could be coffee)" and then go from there. I don't think you're a bad person for wanting what you want. Life is too short and we are meant to have fun. I am a married woman myself who loves to flirt and play. Have fun!

Sparky	HOMEWRECKER, i hope his wife finds out and kicks your butt, how do you sleep at night knowing your about to try to ruin a marriage.

dawn p	if you are just looking for lust , then why do you want a married man?? i cant stand women like you and i hope the guy isnt stupid enough to sleep with you eiether !

Scoper	You are fooling yourself if you think you can keep emotions from becoming entangled. Think of all the hurt you will cause his wife, him and YOU! Find a guy worth your effort, the type who cheat on their wives are not. They will ultimately do to you what they did to their wives. Often you fiind out they lied about their wives too and will end up lieing about you and perhaps doing irreparable damage.

okey dokey	are you just asking this question to get a rise out of people? my question is why cant you have a fling with a single man? a single man that doesnt want a relationship either, just fun. ?

nikkers	You don't. How in the world could you even think of wrecking a marriage for a little "fun". How about hitting on a single guy?? It's not like there aren't millions out there? How would you feel if you were married & someone like you hit on your husband???? You're very selfish & immature. Grow up & get some morals and values. If he has any sense he wouldn't have anything to do with someone of your "caliber" anyway.

Delilah	You don't. It's as simple as that.

wilma flintstone	You DON'T--flirt all you want but you don't get involved with a married man. Even if he tells you he doesn't love his wife anymore. Tell him when and if he ever gets a divorce then he can call you. Not only is it morally wrong it is a dangerous situation. Find someone that is single and stay away from the situation. If his wife finds out you may end up in the middle of a sticky mess. You could end up in court or worse.

crazywoman88	Can't you find your lust with a single man? Believe me, if you start messing with a married man, you are asking for trouble. The worst of it is you might fall in love in spite of yourself. Then where will you be? Always waiting, mostly upset. Take it from me, I know. Don't do it!

Babydoll	First of all, flirting can be harmless, but not with a married man. Second of all, you answered your own question when you said that's what his wife is for. If he wanted to play the field, he wouldn't be married. Also, you can't have fun with a married man, and have no strings attached. Another thing that you need to remember, is that, if he's willing to play the field with you while he's married, that tells you what kind of a person he is and also, if he got a divorce from his wife and hooked up with you, who's to say that he wouldn't do that to you down the road. So before you consider going that far, ask yourself those questions. And if he has kids with his wife, would you really want to take their dad away from them. I don't think that you would want that on your shoulders. Good luck...

littleitaly1377	You don't. He is married, and is off limits. Don't welcome his flirting. You have to realize, karma is not fun. When you find someone (who is not married) and actually want to settle down, it will happen right back at you. I have no patience with married men who flirt and the women who accept and condone it. You need to stay away from him. If you do have an affair with him I hope karma comes and kick you in the a**!

mrs. lady	I hope you're not serious.

Poppet	How? You don't. Trust me, there are plenty of single men who want no strings attached. They aren't hard to find either. Go into any bar, and walk up to any group of men, and just say, "Hey boys, I'm looking for a good time. Which one of you want to come home with me?" DONE! You have got yourself, a cheap and easy fling.

cat_heros@sbcglobal.net	Think about his wife's feelings. I don't think you should ask him out. Look for another guy.

xkabar83	allright truth be told be the friend you can be.If it's more He'll lett you know in many ways.Sounds good to me!

Star274009	It will come back to bite you in the A*ss BE careful what path you choose.

blank	umm....you aren't supposed to, he's married!!! Just back off and stop trying to get involved!!

ateez9	carefully would be my first answer.........make sure his wife doesn't own a gun! Why would you want to break up a marriage??? do always have so little disregard for other people or are you just that selfish?

VetSupporter	How do you ask him out? He takes his wife out and you get your own date. Leave another man's wife ALONE!!

allrightythen	Don't. If you were married, would you want some woman asking your husband out for some "no strings attached fun"??? Have some respect for the sanctity of marriage and leave him alone...that goes triple if he is a father. Find someone of your own who isn't attached.

Sir Richard	It's easier to go through his wife, trust me.

Sam F	Okay, okay, you stone throwers, back off. Since when did you become God with the right to judge? You're not, so lay off, we don't even know the whole story. Like she is the first woman in the world to ever think this way. Please, are you guys Saints? I am betting not. When is our society going to wise up and realise that marriage and commitment isn't for everyone? That said, what if you fall in love and want more. ...that might be something to think about. As for the judgers on this page, ignore them, they have probably all been cheated on and of course, they're going to be judgmental.