How do you know if it's God's will or the devil to end your marriage?

Frank L	I don't think you understand, God and the devil do not make things happen in our lives, they leave the choice to us. We make decisions and God hopes that we do it in the way that he has taught us. You have to live your life the way you think is right and when its over, we stand in front of him and be judged. If you promised yourself to a man in front of God, you should do everything in your power to keep what once had to be special and try to get that back. If it is over and there is no resolvent or he has changed into something that you cannot live with, then you do what you need to do to be happy and be able to follow the path God has set for us. Go to church and p[ray for God to guide you and do what you think is in your best interest not forgetting there is another human being that will be affected by whatever decision you make try a short separation and see if you miss each other enough o stop whatever is clouding te relationship.

I, Sapient	Why are you so willing to hand your future over to someone/something else??? Make some decisions that will benefit your life instead of waiting for someone else to make your decisions for you. Believe me, it won't be a god or devil. Your marriage will fail or succeed based on you and your husbands actions ALONE!!

peterpipers_pickles	God always has a plan. When things may not look "good" at the moment it only opens up opportunities for God to show new great things later. The devil will never cause anyone to end a marriage. Don't give the devil any credit for ending any marriages. The devil may be a master of sin but humans make the choices along God's path for us.

virgogirl	hey why cant u guys take a vacation somewhere away and figure out what is rea;ly wrong with u both.. may be its just the time..GO FOR A VACATION A LONG ONE

jdf	nobody knows but why stay when love gone

munkee_biznezz0045	Well everything happens for a reason either a good one or a bad one either way it's neither god or the devils doing..... it's yours and your partner. Point blank some relationships last some don't eventually you'll get over it and move on. $#!+ HAPPENS

Kaze	It's neither, if your marriage isn't working it's your, and your husbands fault. Perhaps your personalities have just changed over the years, perhaps you were too rash in getting married, whatever the case, you have no one to blame but yourselves.

Tiffany	The devil's iwll is always to break apart families. God's will is alway to cultivate and renew relationships. Is your husband a Christian? if you both are Christian, really try to work through this. I can't say it's easy, but it's worth it. Life is testing, weather you're with your husband or alone. So why nto fight for the marriage to be a posative witness to others who are struggling. I wish you the best, and I will pray for you an d your husband.

sunshine01	its not god or the devil..its just life..we as people tend to drift apart..if you have tryed all your options..counciling..your church..than you must give in and move on..life is to short..good luck

Here To OFFEND	if its another guy its GODS WISH if another woman ITS YOUR HUSBANDS....y would u wana drag the devil into ur domestics?

Munchkin	Have you spoken to your pastor? Or perhaps tried fasting? It's one of the best ways of hearing what God is trying to tell you. Thing is, God doesn't like divorce unless it's because of adultery... but only you can discern what His will is for you. Praying for you very much. x

Constance M	Maybe it means that GOD wants better for you and if you are sad in the marriage then its time to leave . (easier said than done)

thunder217	probably satan. I dont know what happen between the 2 of you but work on your thing, there is one trend going on right now in relationships : poeple give up and trow their love one away as soon as theres something wrong.

hushnowjustplayit	You know what? People blame a lot of the unhappiness they create themselves on God or the devil. If you are both unhappy then move on.

AngFlowr	I'd say that it has nothing to do with God or the devil that your marriage isn't happy. Maybe you married the wrong person, maybe he doesn't love you, maybe you don't love him and can't admit it, maybe you don't know how to communicate, maybe a lot of things! Don't blame deities and supernational, mythological beings on your problems. That's like people who say that they're fat because their daddy never loved them and it's not their fault that they eat all the time. If you see a problem, do what you can to fix it. If you don't want to do what you can to fix it, that's probably a good sign that you may want to walk away.

mel s	Til death do us part.

Jimithy â„¢	End it, I'm sure whatever God you believe in doesn't want you to have a loveless marriage. I'm also sure your God doesn't want you unhappy.

elise_erika	Well ... this it's not God's fault neither Devil's. It's your/your husband's fault.

>>\|\|<<	Why would you want to stay? God gives people a brain to use for a reason.

michael2003c2003	Don't put the responsibility to god or the devil. You decide as and when your marriage ends.

stephen k	You don't. If it is God's Plan, that doesn;t seem to bright; if the devil is at work, it makes perfect sense

NONAME	That's the fault of you too. Don't bring other forces into your mess. Own up to it.

shrty0525	I thought according to the Bible that you could only divorce due to adultery? There is no point in living with misery. It's got to be YOUR will to choose happiness over misery.

Chachi	If ending it would make you happy, it's the devils will, if it would make you sad, must be god's will.

Professor Chaos	I dont think god or the devil really have anything to do with your marriage. Some people just aren't compatible. If you are unhappy, its up to you to do something to change it. God isnt making your marriage bad.

juda75	Easy God is not in the business of breaking up families period!

leena	same result either way

Eric D	if your not happy then your not happy end it . life is too short

:::: S.H.E ::::	Maybe it's neither one of them. Things happen for a reason and we have to stop pointing fingers.