How do you learn to trust a husband who cheats on you all the time?

J Bents	I mean, are you cool with that? Does he lie about cheating on you? If so, then you can't. There isn't any consistancy there and you would have no way of knowing what's true and what isn't. And you can't really trust anyone like that. Unless you guys are open about him cheating on you and you're ok with that, then you aren't going to be able to trust him.

bekahdoo	I don't think "trust" and "cheat" should be used in the same sentence. Kick him to the curb!

The Chesire Cat	you never learn to trust a husband , or any man, who cheats on you constantly.. Wake up.. he is cheating on you, why do you even want to be with him, no less trust him....

todieisgain_121	Trust can be rebuilt. In order for this to start to take place he has to stop. He has to realize the damage he's done, and work extra hard at rebuilding the trust. When he's made the choice to stop. You make the Choice to trust him again. This means considering him innocent until he proves you otherwise. Talk about the pain it's caused you, but then let it go. I know that sounds hard, but if you keep bring it up it won't help. Get some councelling, deal with the hurt and then choose to trust him and move on. If he's not willing to stop, and work on building the trust... there's not a lot you can do.

triviatm	Simple. You dump the cheating husband and find one who knows how to keep it in his pants.

notfreeinnh	This I am sorry, is a stupid question. You can't learn to trust someone who doesn't earn the trust. If your husband cheats on you all the time.. GET OUT!! He will ALWAYS cheat on you and you will never be able to trust him.

tallerfella	If he cheats on you all of the time, why would you stay with him? Dump the loser and find someone who will respect you. Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.............

?	you don't, why should you? just leave

jachooz	you don't. You dump his *** and find a real man.

tinaturner	forgive the first time,after that the trust is gone.

bggarry	my advice is to dump him

?~GotLove~?	You can't trust him if he's cheating all the time.

sweetboba	if he's open about his love affairs and has not lie to you about them, then there's no doubt not to trust him. but isn't that a little bit over the top. unless you guys have an open marriage.

RACQUEL	You don't learn to trust him again. Your trust has been breached numerous times. You either get out of that marriage or stay and suffer the consequences.

~Another Day~	My question is how do you trust a man who cheats on you all the time?....YOU DO NOT! Trust yourself and get away before he brings you a disease.

steph	i don't think you can learn how to trust anyone.. he has to work on gaining your trust .. and you have to be willing to let him earn it back.. :)

DGabbys	how can you trust someone who keeps cheating on you all the time? I don't think you can ever trust somebody like that, trust is not given away, it is earned.

Nobody's home	I don't suppose you can.

jokerswild	you don't you divorce him

Donna	You don't and why would you want to.

*~Pretty Smile~*	well first of all if he cheats all the time than most likely he's going to keep doing it over and over again and you should just leave him. There's just no way you can trust him no matter what he tells you

Poppet	I would learn to trust him as my Ex-husband.

?	you don't you leave him

LoriBeth	it may not be possible. i tried really hard to forgive my ex (he got his ex pregnant while i was pregnant in my second trimester with our second child). i tried so hard to move past the hurt and try to make things work between us, but it ended up being just too much for me to deal with. in order to let go of the pain he caused me, i had to let him go too. it was the only way that i could find peace with myself to move on with my life. as it turns out, letting him go ended up being the best thing that i've ever done for myself and my kids. now i have a wonderful man in my life who is more of a father to my daughter than her real dad ever thought about being. i hope you will find peace too.

jonesty1284	There is no way you can trust a man that cheats on you "all the time". You can trust him to cheat on you and that is about all. You need to leave this situation or you'll too damaged to move on to a new and better relationship.

Byakuya	why would you trust him? it sounds like he doesn't deserve your trust.. only a fool would trust someone like that.. although you can potentially forgive someone and still not trust them..

makawao_kane	By letting your lawyer sort out the BS so you only get the facts.

sasmallworld	u can't.. it's an oxy-moron. cheating indicates lying, doing underhanded things, behind ur back, yada yada yada.. the ANTITHESIS of trust. therefore, u cannot TRUST a CHEATER unless he/she changes and becomes TRUST WORTHY good luck

vio_prince	u just dont, what u need to learn is how to respect urself above everyone else, if u care for him u can always b a good friend of his, for God sake get another man. My friend Billy is a virgin nerd but he's faithful , I can fix an appointment

the_only_slushman	unles there is some MAJOR way that he can beg for your forgiveness and make it up to you and promise never to do it again, then you shoul get the heck out of that marriage before you get an STI from him, and even more heartache. You deserve better!