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How long should I wait until i get married?

Me and my girlfriend met in high school. We have been going out for almost 2 years. I have been out of high school for 2 years. I love her so much and she is very beautiful and I would trade her for any amount of money or fashion model in the world. I truly love her more than words can describe. I am almost 20 and she is almost 19. She is in college right now and Im trying to figure out what to do with my life. I really would do anything for her I would even die for her. I know we are young but the love is real. So the question is when should we get married? I mean getting married is a big step. So how long should I wait until I propose? now, next year, 4 years, when?







agarcia
wait until you're done with school.


♥ || ♪♫ Br0wn Eyǝd G!rl ♫♪ || ♥
If you still feel the same way then, wait until she's out of college and pop the big Q. That way nothing will get in the way and you can both start planning for your special day. :)


Prashanth K
yo man wait a two years or so because you guys still have not even settled down in liofe. If you love her as much as you say you do then remember if you gert poor then she will have to live a poor life. Do u want to see her live a poor life. No i dont think so


L
dO IT WHEN EVER U ARE READy,and stay faithful to each other, and have many kids. god bless. i am making turkey, u want some?


kat
You know the best answer for that question.

I have seen highschool love birds wait till college though. She should be focus on being a student before being a wife. ;)


Poppy
It's not a matter of time dude. You don't even know what you want to do with your life. She's at least in school. You need to find a career path before you even think about marriage. Go to school. DO SOMETHING!


camrockss♥
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Take a trip to a city you've always wanted to go to.
Go to college.
Do something for yourself.

Are you ready (financially and mentally) to provide for this girl? She may be cool now, but she may change when she becomes your wife (naggy, needy, etc).

Enjoy being young. You don't know how many beautiful young women there are in the world.


BabeHart
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Mid-20s or later...you both need a few years to learn who you are as adults and what you want out of life and a long term relationship. Neither of you are done being teens yet, it's a bit early to be thinking of marriage.


drkcocoa
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i think you should wait until she finishes college. bt you can bring it up in joking way. (like you know your wifey, now that we've together for so long) and watch her reacion. you know?


Me and my two boys
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If you both are in love and felt like that nobody else would make you happy or you both can't live without each other can be apart from each other. Then you could decide now. I say go ahead if you both are ready for the next big step.. Good Luck..


Shane B
ask her soon 2 years is perfect! good luck!


Jo
Would trade her????

If I were you, give her a 'promise' ring and then tell her that once you guys are on track, done with school and knowing what you want with your life, etc, that you will propose then. Right now you are promising yourself to her.....


perla0776
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if you think that both of you are ready for marriage, then go right ahead and propose to her, if not at this moment, wait a little longer & see how things turn out, you'll find the right moment to do so

good luck


GoPackGo!
i think if you are prepared to get into marriage and you are truly in love, then you should be allowed to get married whenever you feel is necessary. if she wants to get married soon and you do to, then go for it


Kazarolla
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i didn't read those long details
but i can answer this

DON'T GET MARRIED


USAGUY
Get married whenever you want, but trust me your wayyyy to young.


blaque_strength21
Wait until God gives you the "Yes, this is the one" in your spirit


a-mazed
Only YOU and the girl can figure out the correct answer to this.

EDIT:
So many folks here advise you ,,,"to 'wait' until you are... (many reasons given)" How fortunate that apparently none of those well wishers have done just what they advise, and then have their potential partner - die - suddenly or tragically . . . before they could experience and enjoy the marriage rites!

I still say - only you, and the one you luv, can make the 'right' decision on this most important life choice.


been_there_done_that
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Wait until you have a stable job and are both done with any continuing education you are pursuing. You don't have to be married to love each other and be together, so wait until you've got your lives in order.

Good luck!


Colette B
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Propose when you are ready but don't get married until after everyone is done with college.


lala
i wait until your both out of college and if you don't go to college then wait until she is 22


Marion K
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Don't propose until you are ready to BE married. A proposal is asking someone to be your wife, not your fiance.

I don't think anyone should get married before age 25.


mtchndjnmtch
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You will know when it is time!


Jack B
If you REALLY love her and you REALLY wanna spend the rest of your life with her you should ask (P.S Make It Romantic)


Frankie
That is a question that only you and you alone can answer.


Anonymous
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You should wait till you are ready to take care of someone. With the will and the income to do so.


Lois
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until your heart and mind say the same things..."yes"


sanbox69
as long as you need - do it when you are 100% ready







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