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How often do you and your spouse make love?
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How often do you and your spouse make love?

Is daily too often? Women, if your husband was in the mood and you were not, would you "help him out" or would it be okay to let him take care of it himself?







bigjohn B
Most spouses would be wise to go along with the mate's desires. Even if you do not feel like it. It is not difficult and does no damage.


Bad Boy Reid
All the frickin time it's sooo cool!
We are a couple of horndogs!


Breezelyn
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We're doing it about 3 times every week. That's usually how much he's in the mood because he works long hours.


Flaca_in_Az
Every other day . I have no problems about taking care of himself . except if I am in the mood he better give me attention or he'll get to hear it right there ..lol


ELLE
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YES, daily is too often!!! I can't give you an answer exactly to how often, but I try and put it off for as long as possible! And if he was in the mood and I wasn't (which is 99% of the time) I wouldn't "help him out" as you put it because if I had to do that then I might as well sleep with him since I have to waste my time! Also, he has never asked me to anyway.You make it sound like a serious medical condition that needs urgent attention. Maybe if he cleaned the house all day instead of lounging around watching DVD's he wouldn't be "in the mood" either and that would solve the problem for both of us!


britt
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My husband and I have been married for 9 years and we make love 3 times a week.


Enraging Chaos
What kind of question is this? Kinda personal, don't ya think?


entropiii
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I wouldnt "help him out", just because Im the kind of person where its so much better when youre both in the mood that I would rather not do it at all. Same goes for if he wasnt really in the mood (if and when that ever happens, LOL). But I would have no problem taking care of himself as long as he didnt use it against me ("well, fine I guess Ill just go and take care of myself then") and I didnt have to ick myself out when trying to unstick his t-shirts when doing laudry the next day hahaha.


Simply Lovely
Ever chance we have and I have never turned him down.


VillageGirl
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We do it about once a week. Sometimes it's many times a week, a couple times a day. And sometimes it's once ever two weeks. It just varies and fluctuates depending on how our schedules are and how we feel. There's no set rule on how much is too much or how much is too little.


kidfree
1-2 times a week. Just enough to REALLY want it because you've been waiting all week. Everyday would be too much...... ever heard of the "law of diminishing returns"?


HeatherzFeatherz
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he is quite capable of taking care of himself


Barb Outhere
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I'd be happy enough if he relieved himself when I wasn't in the mood, but he says he won't/doesn't. Have helped him out on occasion. Still making love 2 - 3 times a week. It may not seem like a lot, but we've been married 23 years, so that's not bad.


charitydowling
usually 3 times a week sometimes more sometimes less and usually if he wants it he gets it, if ya don't take care of your man someone else will


momlady5jr
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My husband & I have been married a little over 10 years. We make love nearly every day, or at least every other. I have been known to "help him out" and if he thinks he ought to tend to things himself, I'm okay with that too. I know he wouldn't mind if rolls were reversed.


Fallenrider
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its ok if your spouse ok with it


VIOLATION KING
I ain't got a spouse but I To** off everyday ...

Is that any help ?


girl
he can take care of himself, for us once to two times a week, we are busy and have different scedules.


bostera knows best
if he has me he doesnt have 2 do it by himself!!!!!!


Sharron G
He can take care of himself - by himself, mind you.
Daily seems like a little often to me.


MJ
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she never wants too thats why i cheat


AnswerManDan
once every week and a half or so


F. Perdurabo
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I'm a man - and my rule is we make love when she wants to. PERIOD!

FP







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