How often should a married couple in their mid 30's with two children be making love?

B K	You ever watch the Sopranos? About once every 6-8 months plus a birthday bj if you're lucky and that's about it.

yogi	As much and as often as they both want.

mesha w	I think that you should make love every chance that you get . If that means every night then do it there are times that time just doesn't permit it but that ok as long as it does not go days and days. If you love someone I feel one of the best ways to show them is when you make love to them you always give it your all. Sometime you may not feel up to it always just wanna get it an go to sleep but you have to consider the other person JUST always make it great !!!!!!!!

kiphyn b	with kids its hard to get that private time, so don't be too quick to judge you wife if she doesnt want to go at it while the kids are home. she will not be comfortable and worried they will get into things, hear the two of you and or walk in and that makes it hard on your wife to let her hair down if you know what I mean! I would say that making love should happen once a week and if she will work with you. you can knock out a few quickies during the week. not bad for ole dad huh? you will find that the quickies will soon add up to her thinking more about the big party when you both can just settle down and make love! can be fun if your both willing to work it!

sanityisbeyondme	I would say 3-4 times week if the time is permitted. Between working, taking care of kids, and other household duties finding the time can be hard sometimes.

dad	You better use it before you lose it .Do it as often as you can with allot of passion and have fun. Now is the time to just let lose and give it every thing you have

sugarBear	I would say you should make love ONCE OR AT THE MOST TWICE A WEEK & that should be enough. But then again, it depends on the both of you.

myheavenjessica	Once a week. Is it time to take a vacation for two just her and you? Look into it!

az_mommma	You should be making time for just the two of you at least once a week, more if you are able. But honestly, it depends on how both of you feel.

Kris H	I would say weekly, but every couple is different and some people may be happy with only a couple times a month. It all depends on how often you are both in the mood and how often you can sneak a few minutes to be by yourselves away from the kids.

jimmy.parker06	as often as they can, at least 2 - 3 times a week.

HITLER 1234567890 OF LONGAUSTRIA	ONCE IN A DAY AND TWICE AT NIGHT ATLEAST

minnieab	When you find the answer let me know, because I am 30, obviouslly married and I have 3 kids: ages 14, 8, 3 and I would say we make love once a month!!! HELP!!

dragon	What, daily is not a choice?

Doublediamond	As often as possible. Time will never come again.

Vocal Democrat	No less than once a week! Anything less than that, you need to start reprioritizing your life as other elements have grown in the way of your marriage!

â˜†â™¥ Tinkz Baby! â™¥â˜†	Well im 32 , married with 5 kids, i avoid it as much as possible, i dont want no more babies and i catch on the pill too. So 2 times a week if i let him. lol xxx

vanessa g	if u really love each other intimacy will always take its course wen it has to be done ...so it can be everyday weekly monthly yearly dont matter it all depends on the family

howdy	every couple is different. in my opinion though each of you should be submissive to the other. it is a part of being married.

larry j	When ever the kids are a sleep or when two are not tried have fun

hy003002	If you are serious, the answer is three times a week.

beast9156	as much as you can! Once the physical connection is gone the rest goes to hell.

Violet Pearl	As often as they can with 2 kids. A few (2-3) times a week, I'd imagine.

Here kitty kitty	- 3 times a week should be the least in my opinion-

StEpH	weekly!

Mongo	Every February 29.

Purple People Pleaser	As often as they want.