How to get my husband to stop looking @ other girls on TV and the internet?

Flagger	Poke his eyes out. That's the only way I can think of.

BegMe4It	Start making a big deal about the men on TV, see how he likes it.

ropman1	You need to give him a reason not to look at those women. Perhaps make a tape of you that he can watch instead.

biggdaddy1669	Nothing, He loves you right? Never cheated? (I hope not) He might be married but that doesn't me he is dead! What he gets married and is suppose to stop looking that another woman? I don't think so. That's wrong of you to think that and want that. Whats wrong with looking at a menu, its only if he wants a taste of whats on the menu that there would be a problem.

cherylincanada	Who cares if he looks? He's with you, isn't he? Can you honestly say you don't look at attractive guys?

Radman	All men do the gazing. Some just hide their gazes, and others do it openly. The fact that your man does it within your view means, you & him have an honest relationship. I realize you would like for that behaviour to stop. A man with a normal hormone level can not help but to look. As time goes on he will realize you are the women of his dreams & no one else can fill your shoes.

snack_daddy10	Barter with him. Ask him what he would want in exchange for him not looking. I'm sure there is something he could think of for you to do or not to do that will make him happy.

Mim	have them disconected. then he will have more time to spend with you.

sarkasmik209	You can't and you won't. People are people and just because you are in a relationship does not mean you have to be blind. I am sure you notice other guys, but you may not act the same way he does when he sees an attractive girl. Lots of women have this problem, but if you don't trust him then why are you with him in the first place? If he is with you he wants you and that should not matter. Don't try and compare yourself to these women because he is not with them so if he could be then he really wants you and that should let you know. We can not stop looking at women, but that does not mean we have to touch them either. I have a tip, dress up real nice and go out with him somewhere and talk to a guy and see what he says, if he is ok with it then you are very insecure and you will always have problems, if he gets mad then tell him that is how you feel when he looks at half naked women and if he doesn't get the point and you can not deal with it then leave.

floridaman39us	Men like to look at pretty women, but tell him how you feel. Tell him to be more sly about it, like he can wear sunglasses that hide his eyes from you.

<3 The Pest <3	Honey, I hate to say it, but he's married, not dead. He's going to look. There's a way that he can go about it, though, to where it won't be quite as offensive. For instance, he needs to take his quick look and be done. If he's sitting there drooling over it, though, I could see how you would be very upset. If you're upset about ANY time that he's looking, though, you're going to have a problem in the future, because no one, man or woman, is not going to admire someone who looks nice. As long as it doesn't go any farther than a glance, there's nothing wrong with it. Just because he's looking doesn't mean he loves you any less. People like to look. Unfortunately, we're still pretty primitive in that regard.

Zaferus	Poke out his eyes. Seriously, men look at other women but so long as it's a glance and not drooling and oggling or trying to come on to other women it's harmless. When my wife sees me looking at another girl she asks me if I find her more pretty than her and I just tell her no, I was just feeling sorry for her having to be so close to the most beautiful woman in the world - and that makes her laugh and feel better. Maybe try being a little more playful and acting less hurt about it like that and try to be a little less jealous.

?	Do the exact same thing he does with good looking guys, but make sure he's around and watching then he'll know how it feels that should teach him.

Candace C	if you have a problem with it not matter what it is then he should fix it. Thats BS thats hes doing this it does nothing but makes you feel bad about yourself and is unfair to the relationship.. you should tell him how it makes you feel bad about yourself and that it doesn't matter if he feels it's harmless it doesn't matter it's how it makes you feel... if he doesn't stop then obviously your feeling aren't a priority to him and I would take action from there accordingly. Good luck

brockulfsen	Blindfold him? Or, as the problem is yours not his, deal with the problem at the source. Get help to improve your self esteem. Get treatment/help for jealousy.

thetravelinggardener	not much, unless yoou pulll his plug when he is watching to take his mind off the watching and onto pleasing you. you got to be willing to be a better deal live than a tv show. and once his roving eye gets tired the roving feet will start walking and you lose.

t_roe	Good luck with that one...it's a trait of the male species to look at other women, even if they are married/have a girlfriend....the "look but don't touch" mantra always goes on in a man's mind.

Jim	Realize he is with you and whats wrong with that. Grow up or get a divorce.

Retodd	You'll never stop it. This is a my SERIOUS answer. Your best bet is to learn to trust him, and know that he can't help looking because he's a man, and he is BIOLOGICALLY HARDWIRED to look at women. It's if he acts on it then you need to be concerned. Seriously. Why sweat what you can't change. Live with it. If he tells you he isn't looking, HE'S EITHER GAY OR LYING TO YOU. You'll notice the only people who tell you otherwise are other women.

Nancy Kay	...poke out his eyes, maybe? ...try being more secure...he's with you , not them...but he is a man, and men will look...

reddie	Become the other girl or girls that he likes to watch and do what he likes to watch the girls to do.

Meka	nothing, he is a man. ask him to be more discreet about it. tell him you feel bad when he gawks.

aqsgtriad	It's natural to be attracted to other people. As long as he is being faithful and treating you well, then it shouldn't be a problem.

sonya h	u need a new husband

christine n	take his food away

urrrp	tell him.

Poppet	Rip his eyes out of his head. Because that is the only way he will ever stop looking at women. OR you could work on your insecurities and realize that he chose you over all the other women in the world.