How to tell my hubby without worrying him???

Sir Hard & Thick	wow a hart attack at 39, must be under a lot of stress of have a bad hart, I know if it were me, I would want to know ASAP, he will have something to look forward to, you should let him know, he has a right to know!!

pictureshygirl	Talk to his doctor regarding this situation and ask him what would be the best time to tell him. Either way you will have to let him know. Best of luck to you both!

bella	ask his doctor if it is the right time for you to tell him. as you mention he just had a heart attack. but I Think he will be fine because he did want a child. second try to hint things and ask him what if kind a question then you will find out. I'm sure having a baby is a lot of work but again is bless from god it will change your life and him for the best. all the best to you and him. ps. if you have a good relationship with his mother go and talk to her or his best friend. your seem a good wife and concern about your husband hearth that is a very good quality in a woman.

FalleN AngeL	It sounds like you husband has received some pretty depressing news recently. Maybe this baby came at just the right time. Maybe this will make him happy and give him strength to fight the obstacles he has in front of him right now. I think you should tell him. Good luck with everything.

Heather D	You have to tell him. Honestly, with all of the stuff that you both have been through you need to do this up BIG TIME. If his health allows maybe plan a really nice dinner somewhere, buy a pretty pink and blue baby blanket wrap it up and during dinner give it to him (you can use anything a picture frame with an ultrasound picture a bib that says "my daddy loves me"). This just may be what he needs to really fight this cancer. Let him enjoy ever minute of you being pregnant. Best of luck to all three of you!

dardarzene	Definitely tell him, sounds like he has some serious health problems and the mind is a powerful thing. Telling him will give him a reason to hang on and get well. I know you don't want to think about this, but worst case scenario, you never tell him and his lung cancer/heart takes him....he'll never get the chance to know he conceived a child with you, he's gonna be a daddy...tell him.

Mean Carleen	Of course you should tell him NOW!!!

atinav1	I think he would be more upset if you kept it from him. You are his wife and have been for a year and a half so that must mean something.

Judge Judy of Y/A	Dang girl, you've got a lot on your plate right now. The truth is what it is, you gotta tell him you're pregnant cause he'll find out anyhow. Having a baby is good news, it'll probably lift his spirits. Best wishes.

My_Two_Centz	Good things come in small packages! Congratulations!! I think this is going to keep his mind off of his health and onto something very positive. Which is what I've read helps people with cancer. Positive thinking. Although not sure about lung cancer. Sorry to hear he is so ill. So yes, my vote is tell him!

peanutbulls	Sit down with him and bring the discussion up.Maybe he will like the idea because then he would have some good news for once.Sorry for him not feeling well but congrats on your pregnancy!!

Starla_C	Tell him that you've been given a miracle! Tell him that no matter what, you will always have a part of him with you. I think it will be a wonderful bit of news for someone who has received some pretty bad news.

samIam	well if u really loved him u would tell him that u were pregnet.

Karen	I think you should tell him...He'll accept it...im sure it will make him really happy!!!

STARZ	yes, tell him......it will give him something to fight to live for..... good luck... you have alot to deal with for one so young... be strong for him and your child.... he will need you now more than ever before.

ninga_person_712	tell him! but be sure when you tell him to be very cheerful about it or he won't think you are happy bout it and the he won't be.

Kai-Kai	if he has lung cancer then he don't have much time. (my grandmonther has lung cancer and she has 4 to 6 months to live.) I think you should tell him. I bet you a million that he'll be trilled.

amanda r	I think you should tell him. If he wanted children anyway....this may be the thing that gets him going. It may give him the drive to be well. With everything that he has endured, he will need this happy news to keep his spirits up!

Maggie	Tell him now. You'll have to tell him eventually and if he finds out later, he'll really feel betrayed. Marriage is about sharing things and hiding things only makes relationships harder.

rachel	i think that u should tell him because he is going to find out sooner or later...u might as well tell him now

lynette	Just tell him calmly as if it s a normal thing and remind him its his child too!!

alessiasmiles	Well, he's 14 years older than you, you're 24... Sounds like it's a fairly reasonable age to have a child. This baby is coming whether you like it or not, and you'll have to tell him sometime, rather sooner than later. Just break it to him gently if you're afraid of another heart attack.

romipenne	Tell him! He's not going to want to to miss anything, like ultrasounds and such. That's part of the fun. He said he wanted a child with you, right? Why withhold it? Besides, if you were in position, wouldn't you want to know?

Stimpson J. Cat	Definitely tell him ASAP. He'll need the entire remaining 6 months to adjust to the idea. You never know, he may realize that with his health problems, he wants a child sooner because he may realize his time may be limited. It could be a big boost to his health, knowing he will be a dad. Good luck.

Tacyella	sounds like you have great communication if you can't even tell him this...

QUESTion DA 1	Just say, hunny, i know what will make your stress go away. A NEW BABY!

Frenchie	of course you should tell him. sit him down and have a realxing evening. speak about how you had been takling about having children, or how you would like to. make sure he has had a good day, as not to increas his blood pressure.

Royalhinney	Why wait? What difference is it going to make when you are 4 or 5 months along. This might bring him a little joy. Have you looked at it that way?

Emily	you should tell him.

curmudgeon	I think it will cheer him up.